There are a ton of products that claim to reduce stretch marks. Think of them the same as the creams that make your boobies bigger. Total garbage. They show all these amazing touched up before and after pics hoping we will believe them, but don't.
And honestly I've never known a guy who turned down a hot chick because she had a few stretch marks (even movie stars have them) Guys get them too from working out, usually in the shoulders...I wouldn't worry too much.
I agree. After having 3 kids, I have them and unfortunately, as ugly as they are, it was part of the process that gave me my beautiful kids, so I don't worry too much about them.