Welcome Dreamgirl! Glad you joined us. Telling you how I eat, how I work out, or anyone else telling you the same might not be all that helpful to you because each person is very much an individual. What you need to do to lose weight is different than what anyone else needs to do to lose weight. When I assist people with nutrition and exercise for weight loss I ask about a million questions before making any specific recommendations.
You may want to just start by making some small changes. It would be helpful to know how many times a day you are eating now, how much and what types of food you are eating, and what you are doing for exercise. Not knowing any of that, a good starting point may be just spreading your calories out a little more. For example, if you are eating 4 times a day, try for 5 by eating slightly smaller meals. Try switching up some of the types of foods you eat, such as eating leaner meats, and less processed carbs, and adding in more veggies. Adding more water helps as well. Staying properly hydrated enables the body to metabolize more fat.
Please let me know if I can help more!
Sarah