Camy
New member
Hey,
wonderful post about surgery! I think you can correct the body all you want, if the mind is not ready... there is nothing you can do!
My mom is tiny... she weighs 120 pounds (after having 3 kids... and she still has some belly she says... she used to be 100 pounds until she had her 3rd child and she is not that short either!) and also slightly unstable (I always thought it was bipolar disorder, but her docs refer to it as borderline syndrome... that is when she ever goes to her psych, usually she says she is fine and doesn't need a shrink!).
I think you are the best thing that could happen to your mom, encouraging and helping her, and I think if you help her with the nutrition she will get to her goal without major problems. My mom used to put me on a diet (every few weeks since I was 15 probably... even though i was slim-ish then) and I hated it, when I was ready to committ I did and I am halfway there!
Also the gap between the legs... woohoo!!! I never fully lost the gap, but I hate that the upper couple of inches of my legs rub. I would love for that thigh fat to leave, but then I would also love for my tummy fat to go... not quite decided which one I would like to see gone first!
My great achievement lately was that the stretch-mark which I got a week before starting to change my lifestyle (on the inner thigh... my first stretchmark on a thigh!!) has faded and is almost completely gone. I have stretchies on the girls (boobies) and on my "ears of the ass" (the lovehandle bit on the lower back), but I don't see them all the time, while the thigh one I could see every time I went peepee (and it reminded me painfully of what I had done to my poor old body!)!
So yey for that one gone!!
have a great day, Camy
wonderful post about surgery! I think you can correct the body all you want, if the mind is not ready... there is nothing you can do!
My mom is tiny... she weighs 120 pounds (after having 3 kids... and she still has some belly she says... she used to be 100 pounds until she had her 3rd child and she is not that short either!) and also slightly unstable (I always thought it was bipolar disorder, but her docs refer to it as borderline syndrome... that is when she ever goes to her psych, usually she says she is fine and doesn't need a shrink!).
I think you are the best thing that could happen to your mom, encouraging and helping her, and I think if you help her with the nutrition she will get to her goal without major problems. My mom used to put me on a diet (every few weeks since I was 15 probably... even though i was slim-ish then) and I hated it, when I was ready to committ I did and I am halfway there!
Also the gap between the legs... woohoo!!! I never fully lost the gap, but I hate that the upper couple of inches of my legs rub. I would love for that thigh fat to leave, but then I would also love for my tummy fat to go... not quite decided which one I would like to see gone first!
My great achievement lately was that the stretch-mark which I got a week before starting to change my lifestyle (on the inner thigh... my first stretchmark on a thigh!!) has faded and is almost completely gone. I have stretchies on the girls (boobies) and on my "ears of the ass" (the lovehandle bit on the lower back), but I don't see them all the time, while the thigh one I could see every time I went peepee (and it reminded me painfully of what I had done to my poor old body!)!
So yey for that one gone!!
have a great day, Camy

