Words from my 10-year old... "Six Pack Dad"

pablorivera

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Guys (and Gals)... stay with me here... but there's no way I could have NOT gotten all choked up when my son suddenly introduced me to one of his friends at daycare as his "Six Pack Dad". I've never had a six pack and wasn't really working on it. I was just "done" with living as a "fat" person (health issues, energy issues, missing out with the kids, yada yada.) I just wanted to drop the weight, look great and be healthy again. I had been fat (really fat) since, like... FOREVER. (Let's just say middle-school and high school was hell....)

My son now wants to workout with me and is even paying attention to the food he eats (on his own). I ended up losing 70 lbs over a period of 7 months (Sept 2009 thru Mar 2010) and given my "before" condition, I can say to everyone who thinks they are "too far gone" to please reconsider. I thought I was too far gone, and the thought of losing so much weight just seemed like too freggin impossible and would take forever! But there is power in incremental progress and consistency. I'm not done 100%... but I'm super happy with results thus far and wouldn't change my current lifestyle for anything. Kudos out to everyone who takes the time (and courage) to post on this forum and help others. Here's to everyone getting the body and health they want!

Motivation comes the darndest of places!

Where do you get yours?
 
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Drastic Change

70 lbs. over 7 months is fantastic! Your pictures on your profile signature show an incredible difference. What was your diet, exercise and weight lifting routine like? How tall are you?

I'm 5'11" and decided to lose weight when I was near the same weight as you (216 lbs.) and am down to 194 lbs. now. My goal is 175 lbs. and then I will see where to go from there. I'm making a small amount of progress, but I'd like to lose it quicker. I'll just have to take it one day at a time and keep trying to make good choices.

Any advice?

Thanks, and once again... good job!
 
@iluvmy3js: thanks Bro. Super kudos to YOU on the 74 lbs lost!!

@leaner: I'm 5'5" so the 70 lbs really put a hurtin' on me.

My diet strategy works for guys and gals by making sure you adjust your calorie number to match your RMR, and adjust the workout weights upward/downward based on whether you just want to tone up or bulk up. (For toning, generaly 5-10 lbs dumbbells. For bulking, 40 lbs dumbbells and up.)

My diet strategy was pretty simple. I figured out my Maintenance Level calorie number, then went below that to establish the caloric deficit. Then I made sure to stick to that number every day. Got rid of the obvious calorie horders like junk foods, fried foods, sodas, etc. and that allowed me to eat more food. In the beginning I kept it simple on the ratios: pretty much 1/3 carbs, 1/3 protein, 1/3 fat (good fats though, raw almonds, olive oil, etc.)

My workout strategy was different than before. Before I was working out 5-6 days a week before, mainly steady state cardio on treadmill or elliptical, then followed with some weight training.

This time, I only did 3 structured workouts per week, 45 minutes each (max) on non-consecutive days (to allow proper rest, which I did not do before). I was completely out of shape as you can tell by my before pic, so I had to let my muscles recover on the off days while I established some level of conditioning. (On the off days, I would take simple walks, etc.)

I also switched and did my weight training first, followed by cardio. My weight training was 20 min, but this time I trained with intensity. Not crazy, just no talking or chit-chating. I did full-body workouts using basic exercises, but I just made sure to rest very little between exercises (15-20 sec) and only rest 60 sec between sets. This really made a difference and really started the fat burning.

My workout routine was based on the LCAB Matrix (as in the letter "L", and "cab" as in taxi cab.) This made sure that I was hitting all the major muscle groups in the right sequence (to allow one muscle group to rest while working the other). Here's what Set 1 looks like:

L (legs) - Prisoner Squats (12-15 reps) -OR- Dumbbell Squats (10-15 reps)
C (chest) - Dumbbell Presses (10-12 reps) -OR- Bench Press (8-10 reps)
A (abs) - Plank (hold 60 sec) -OR- Side Plank (30 sec each side)
B (back) - Pullups (5-6 reps) -OR- Dumbbell Rows (8-10 reps each side)
Time: 3 min
Rest: 1 min
Total: 4 min (Set 1)

That is Set 1. Then I would repeat for total of 4 sets (16 min). I would make sure to do a quick 3 min warm-up every time by doing an LCAB set of just light body weight exercises. The warm-up (3 min) plus the 4 sets workout (16 min) puts me right around 20 minutes.

Then I would immediately go into my cardio AFTER the weights (that's important). My cardio was different this time too. I did a version of HIIT cardio. That's High Intensity Interval Training (I didn't know what that was at first.) That really works for fat loss, and it works by doing intense activity for a short duration, followed by an "easier" activity for a longer duration.

For example:

Sprint/run for 60 seconds...
Walk for 120 seconds...
That's 1 cycle of 3 min.

You just do a HIIT cardio workout of 20 min (about 6 cycles). Now, seeing as I hadn't worked out in forever, I couldn't even jog, much less run or sprint (actually I couldn't even jog 1 lap when I started). So I just came up with a "modified" HIIT by just jogging for 30 seconds and walking for 60 seconds. I kept doing that until I was able to do 60 seconds of jogging. Then I progressed to 60 seconds of running, etc. It worked well. On my "off" days, I would do walking, etc.... light activity, but no structured workouts.

Wow... that was a pretty long answer, but it's really simple. Let me recap:

DIET

1. Establish your Maintenance Level number.
2. Establish your Caloric Deficit by going under your Maintenance Level.
3. Monitor intake to make sure you hit that target every day (remove obvious junk food)
4. Drink 2 liters of water daily (at least).

EXERCISE

1. In the beginning, stick to just 3 workouts per week, non-consecutive days.
2. Do 45 minutes (max) per session.
3. Do weight training (Resistance Training) for 20 min (LCAB) followed by
4. Cardio for 20 min (HIIT style) followed by
5. Cool down of 5 min (walking)

Heading out to run some errands. Let me know if you have questions.
 
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Thanks for all of the information!
One quick question, how much was your calorie deficit?
If my RMR is 1,800 calories per day, what would be a good goal for my daily calorie intake?
Thanks again.
 
damn pablo when i commented first i did not see your before after pictures - i just saw them. You deserve more than a good work and congrats - that is amazing!!!!!!!!! I am just finishing up on the weight loss part of my journey and I can only dream to look like that when it is all said and done and I am probably 20 years younger than you. That is the best before and after picture I have ever seen. WOW!!!!!!!
 
lol just thinking to bad you didn't use some sort of product along the way - you show them your before and after pics and you could make some big bucks off that!!!!! lol :)
 
I just wanted to say awesome job!! Who knows what is more rewarding, being healthier or having your son be proud of you for being healthier??

Hahaha, it's BOTH, actually. =) *high five* Right on, dude.
 
@Everyone: thanks again.

@leaner:

To establish your caloric deficit, you'll need to establish some benchmark numbers that are custom to you. To clarify, these are:

ML = Maintenance Level
RMR = Resting Metabolic Rate (same as BMR)
LAF = Lifestyle & Activity Factor

Your maintenance level represents the number of calories (energy) your body needs every day, accounting for all the activities you perform, and at your ML, you would not gain or lose weight. Of course, this is an average number, since our energy needs fluctuate from day to day. However, it represents your energy output for an average day, given your routine. Your ML is also referred to as your "Total Daily Energy Expenditure" (TDEE) in some texts. Here is the formula for figuring your ML/TDEE:

ML = RMR x LAF

HOW TO FIGURE YOUR RMR

To figure your RMR, you can either have it measured by getting yourself tested at a facility where RMR testing is offerred, or you can calculated it based on some well known formulas. To have it measured, they will have you sit comfortably in a chair for 20 minutes while you breathe into a tube, and your nose is pinched. If you don't have access to this, the calculated method works just fine. (I've actually done both, and in my experience, the numbers are very close. So just use the calculated method to get started.) When calculating your RMR, it's best to use a calculator that takes into account your current weight, height, age and gender (this is a good one ---> ) For example, when I did mine at my starting weight of 225 lbs, height of 5'5", male, age 38, my RMR was calculated at 1,859 kcal per day. (I rounded down to 1800 kcal per day just to keep the numbers simple.) Your RMR, however, only represents the number of calories/energy that it takes to keep your body alive (heart beating, organs functioning, etc.) and does not account for any physical activity at all. Your RMR is the calories your body burns just by you laying there, not moving. So your RMR is just the starting point. Next you'll need to figure your LAF.


HOW TO FIGURE YOUR LAF

The various LAF are provided by the Harris Benedict Formula, to cover your daily activity and your workout routine.

1. If you are sedentary (little or no exercise): LAF = 1.2
2. If you are lightly active (light exercise/sports 1-3 days/week): LAF = 1.375
3. If you are moderatetely active (moderate exercise/sports 3-5 days/week): LAF = 1.55
4. If you are very active (hard exercise/sports 6-7 days a week): LAF = 1.725
5. If you are extra active (very hard exercise/sports & physical job or 2x training): LAF = 1.9

In my example, I have an office job (sedentary) and my workout regimen is 3x per week. In my case (and for most people), item number 3 from above is the one that fits. So the LAF is 1.55

So, at this point, we have figured the RMR (1,800 kcal/day) and the LAF (1.55)

ML = RMR x LAF

ML = 1800 x 1.55 = 2,790 kcal/day

Now I know that my "guestimated" Maintenance Level was roughly 2,800 kcal/day. That ML number is never perfect, but it's a starting number from which you back off your calories to create that deficit.

The deficit that you choose will be based on:

1. Your Goals
2. Your Current Weight

Your Goals - here is what I mean by this. One (1) pound of fat is approx. 3,500 calories. You would need to create a deficit of 3,500 calories for every pound of fat you want to remove. If your daily caloric deficit is 500 calories, then over the course of seven days this would equal 3,500 calories for 1 lb per week. Increase the deficit to 1,000 calories per day, and your fat loss is 2 lbs per week. Before I started my personal program, I had coincidentally been at my Doctor's for a routine yearly physical and I asked him what the safe rate of weight loss per week was. He told me that they recommend a safe rate of 2.0 lbs per week. So personally, I went with 2 lbs per week as my goal.

Daily calorie intake (DCI) to create a caloric deficit:

DCI = ML - 1000
DCI = 2800 - 1000 = 1,800 calories per day

So in my case, my average daily intake number was 1,800 calories.

Before deciding on your daily caloric deficit, please read below.

WARNING - THIS IS IMPORTANT - PLEASE READ

Okay, so no one ever told me this, but it's something I learned along the way through personal experience. Let me explain this just by using real-life numbers. The numbers below show my ML numbers:

ML = RMR x LAF
ML = 1800 x 1.55 = 2,800 kcal/day @ 225 lbs (when I started)
ML = 1500 x 1.55 = 2,300 kcal/day @ 155 lbs (my current weight)

Here's what I want you to notice: everyone's Maintenance Level changes as you drop weight. It's not like you have to figure it every week. You don't. But notice that in the beginning, I could easily achieve that 1,000 cal/day deficit, because my calorie intake was 1,800 calories. If I tried to create that same 1000 calorie deficit today, that would put my daily calorie intake at just 1,300 calories! How do I know that's too low (for prolonged periods)?

Because it's below my RMR.

IMO... staying below your RMR for an "extended" period of time is unhealthy and counter-productive. Even the major health and fitness organizations recommend that minimum calorie levels are 1200 for women and 1500 for men. The bottom line is that the heavier you are (excess fat, not muscle) the easier and faster you will lose weight just by the sheer fact that your body is carrying around all those extra pounds, which makes your ML higher. My advice?

Don't go below your RMR.

Keep in mind that your ML is an estimated number. Once you establish a daily intake for fat loss, try it on for size for a couple of weeks. If you don't drop enough fat, reduce your calorie intake by 10% and make sure your workouts stay intense. Also, make darn sure you are actually accurately tracking your caloric intake. I jotted everything down and added it up at the end of every day to see where I was. Of course, I didn't *have* to do it this way, but I didn't want to take 14 months to accomplish something that I could safely accomplish in 7 months. So I chose to track calories to make sure I was hitting my numbers. And I made sure to always keep my workout routine in place. (Remember that your ML is based on your activity level. If you don't work out, you won't be achieving the deficit you're targeting.)
 
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@Annn... thank you!
@fatboy... thank you! (The link to the pics is in my signature)

@Everyone:

I started this thread as a way for everyone to post what motivates you... what drives you...

There are so many awesome success stories here.. PLEASE SHARE.

WHAT MOTIVATES YOU?
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@Annn... thank you!
@fatboy... thank you! (The link to the pics is in my signature)

@Everyone:

I started this thread as a way for everyone to post what motivates you... what drives you...

There are so many awesome success stories here.. PLEASE SHARE.

WHAT MOTIVATES YOU?
.
.
.
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.
.

Congrats on the Weight Loss!!

Thought I would contribute with my motivation...

In November of this year I had a Life Insurance Medical, I weighed in at about 310lbs. I new that I wanted to get in shape, but I never seemed to have the time.

My baby Girl was born in January and things were pretty hectic (and tiring for the first three months). In March I got the results of my Medical and it showed that along with being obese, I had elevated Liver Function Tests and my tri-glycerides were on the high side.

I knew what I had to do, and On April 18th I started my program. I tipped the scale at 314lbs.

My plan... similar to yours, I determined my ML and subtracted 1000cal from that (2lbs/week), I started Jogging 5km - 4 times per week. I haven't started weight training but I will in September.

When I started running it took 38minutes to run 5km, now I run 5km in under 29minutes, and I have recently thrown in 2 -7km hill runs into the workout in place of 2 of the 5km's. I can run the 7km in 42min.

I am currently 263.4 lbs, a loss of 50.6lbs in 13 weeks, a little less than 4lbs/week average, which is quicker than I anticipated, but when you were as big as I was it doesn't take much to drop pounds. I have slowed down lately to a more reasonable rate.

I feel great now, I still have another 40+ lbs to lose before I am at my ultimate goal, but I am extremely happy to know that changes in my lifestyle will give me more time and energy with my daughter, and let me be a good example to her.
 
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