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RickFromMI

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Thirty five years ago, I was born at 9lbs 10oz...and my mother was about 110lbs...and she still really loved me! :smilielol5:
My dad came from a family of somewhat larger people, though. All my life, I've been chunky, to chubby, to a few extra pounds to downright fat. I wasn't like this huge blob kid, but usually the biggest kid in my class. I didn't necessarily excel at sports nor did I enjoy physical activity for the sake of doing it, ie PE. I did enjoy playing baseball with my friends, swimming in our pool, and riding my bike. As a kid, if offered a popsicle at a friends house, I was supposed to call home and ask permission to have one. Cool, huh? I remember the crappy diet pop (Tab), sugar free Kool Aid, and low sugar cookies etc. Yuck!
I wasn't teased too badly over the years for being overweight, but getting picked last for teams and stuff sucked. My hate for exercise grew, and my elementary and Jr High gym teachers did not help the matter at all. Once I started driving, I never used my bike anymore. I took a job at a gas station with junk food o plenty. Couple that with the newfound thrill of smoking pot, and I blew up like a balloon. I didn't have my parents watchful eye around anymore, and I ate what I wanted. It kind of felt good after being restricted for all of those years.
In my early 20's, I decided to do something about it and tried various things. Weight loss pills, fad diets, home gym equipment, and joined gyms and quit after a while. I've tried and failed many times to lose weight and get in better shape, but for the last 5 years or so, I told myself, why bother until I'm ready to get serious about it? I should also mention that the pot went out of the picture long ago, but I did start drinking. I LOVE beer, and it's my biggest vice. I enjoy sweets, but I don't think they are the biggest offender. I rarely have any in the house. My thing is eating big. I like cooking, and like making big meals and chowing down. I like getting pizza and going for Buffalo wings with the guys...have to have beer with those.
Well, I'm finally ready. I'm tired of being like this...270lbs, overeating and a borderline alchoholic.
Right now, I'm working on moderation. Trying to get back to drinking only on weekends and when being social, not getting home from work and having 6 beers every night. I am eating healthier, at least most of the time. Nothing is off limits completely, that will set me up for failure. Buffalo wings once a month, ok. Pizza every Sunday night, no more.
I bought a Gazelle 2 years ago and Tae Bo last year. I have starting using both, and even though it's only been a few days, I'm feeling better. I might join a gym eventually, but not until I've remained committed to my new plan for some time. I can lose a bit of weight with what I have, for "free".
My goal is to lose 40 pounds by mid June when I go to Florida. It's a little over the 2 pound a week rule, but not by much. If I lose 30, I will be thrilled, 35, even better. That's my short term goal. Long term is to stick with it and keep losing until I'm no longer chunky, chubby, a few extra pounds, or fat.
Good luck to all!

Rick
 
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Welcome :)

Arn't high school PE classes horrid? I think they do the exact opposite of what they're supposed to and can totally turn kids and teens off to exercise and leaving them asking "why bother?" once out of school!!

I hope you can get your drinking in check and tackle the weight loss full on!!

Good luck and the forum is a super help, if you read the stickies and look into all the subcatagories!
 
Yes. My elementary PE teacher was a real, and this is totally appropriate, C-word. Good thing I didn't know that word back then...
Instead of encouragement, I was accused of not putting forth effort.
There were some fun things, dodgeball, kickball, etc, but overall, it sucked.
The worst was junior high when we had to run sprints in the gym and whichever side was slowest had to do it again. So, about 50 kids totally hating me there. Great positive reinforcement, a-holes! But, I'm not bitter...
Freshman year, it was way more laid back and I had lost weight the summers between 7th and 8th grade, which helped. PE was an elective after freshman year, and I elected to never take PE again. Yep, the system works fine....idiots!
 
Oh gym class....It wouldn't be so bad if they kept the mind moving, in playing games, etc. By the time I hit my freshman year of high school I was 290? plus pounds and we were made to run for 15mins straight, if we walked even once, we failed the entire class for the day. I stopped caring after that, gym classes don't take into account that each kid is different. Some kids arn't good runners, some arn't as fast, some like to play actual sports. I always would of rathered play baseball and kick ball instead of running for 15mins. And of course, those who were already in sports were praised up and down and left off the hook.

Ugh. They need a better way of doin things! Exercise should be encouraged as something fun AND doable!
 
Hey Rick! Good luck with your weight loss journey. Of course it's hard, but mind over matter my friend. :D We can do this. I'm going to keep checking in with you because I also have a mini goal of losing 30-35lbs by June 22nd for my brother's wedding. :)

Keep in touch! I'm going to kick your butt if you give up. :p
 
I'm with ya, Paper. It was negative reinforcement. Terrible, really.
Thank you and Michelly for the good luck. You both have to be pretty happy about your 6-7lb losses so far. I will be the most thrilled with my first 10.
 
I am feeling really good about it lately. :D I didn't start keeping track until recently. I have lost almost 20 lbs so far but only registered the 6. ;) Woofda, long way to go but it's going to be so great!
 
Yes. My elementary PE teacher was a real, and this is totally appropriate, C-word. Good thing I didn't know that word back then...
Instead of encouragement, I was accused of not putting forth effort.
There were some fun things, dodgeball, kickball, etc, but overall, it sucked.
The worst was junior high when we had to run sprints in the gym and whichever side was slowest had to do it again. So, about 50 kids totally hating me there. Great positive reinforcement, a-holes! But, I'm not bitter...
Freshman year, it was way more laid back and I had lost weight the summers between 7th and 8th grade, which helped. PE was an elective after freshman year, and I elected to never take PE again. Yep, the system works fine....idiots!

I feel you there! I myself have had run ins with pe teachers. 6th grade sucked so bad. I was always one of the last ones to finish on the mile run! 6th-9th grade pe was the worst! When I was in 9th grade we had to run the mile in chilly weather. I was pushing as hard as I could at 200 or so lbs and all of a sudden I started tasting blood. I spit it out and ran to my teacher. I told her I needed to stop and she said "you have a nose bleed, you can go to the nurse when your done" I said I need to go see the nurse now and she said "I dont have time to write you a pass, your going to have to wait" So with a bloody shirt I stood up to my pe teacher and said I am leaving. I have never been one to stand up to someone older than me. but I did that day. I have always HATED PE. The only thing I ever liked was dodgeball and kickball as well!One year we made our teacher so mad that we had to run the mile backwards. We made her cry. We felt really bad, but I have gotten so much crap from pe teachers up to that point I was feeling kind of good about it...After 10th grade we didnt have to take it anymore and I chose not to.
 
Brutal! I got in trouble for skipping gym a few times in junior high. It was worth it. I hated it so bad, I would get sick to my stomach from nerves.
I should have never been like that.
Did I mention my female junior high PE teacher was fat? Hmmm...
 
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