Why can overweight women still look hot, but overweight men

hmm.. i find that overweight woman look less attractive than overweight men actually.. because.. i think people expect men to be "bigger" than woman, so they could put on more weight and still looks okay.. but then again, i've always been attracted to the skinnier side.. all the guys that i've dated or attracted to are ranged between 132-143lbs and they're about 6'-6'3 tall. yeah, i love REALLY thin boys, it's just so awesome when we could swap clothes!
 
yeah, i love REALLY thin boys, it's just so awesome when we could swap clothes!

...why are you on a weight loss forum?

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Sooooo, what you're saying is that, when a woman has a really heavy flow...it's because there's more of her to love?

No, women who don't ovulate still have periods, still can have a heavy flow in some cases (in other cases they stop mensurating all together- its a mixed bag). Actually being fertile requires a certain body fat percentage and its simply the release of the egg into the womb, you can still have periods without having the egg released, its actually not so easy to tell in many cases. What can happen is that the women tries to have a baby but finds she cannot get pregnant. The fact she is not releasing any eggs is then pointed out.

Ever think its "funny" how many celebrities suddently gain a little weight in a short space of time before becoming pregnant? they are trying to prompt the body into releasing an egg so they can get pregnant asap without gaining any more weight, tricking the body by gaining more then a pound ot two a week so it thinks everything is normal or going to be normal. Bit sick really when you think about it.
 
I'm bisexual and I find larger girls very sexy. There is just something hot to me about a woman who is voluptuous and plump. A lot of bigger girls just carry the weight better than a lot of bigger guys do. Many bigger guys mainly carry weight in their bellies, where as a lot of bigger girls have it in their butts, hips, breasts, and thighs and not just their bellies. Also women have a heck of a lot more fat cells than men, therefore it's natural for them to have more fat on their bodies.

Men have only 26 billion fat cells in their bodies. That sounds weird, using the word “only.” Women, on the other hand, have 35 billion fat cells in our bodies. In addition, the fat cells in a woman”s body are 5 times larger than a man”s (more room for storage!).
-Reference: Hormonal Balance: Understanding Hormones, Weight, and Your Metabolism

That's also one of the reason that, typically, men lose weight a lot faster and easier than women do.

So yeah, I have to be honest and say I definitely find bigger girls more attractive than bigger guys. But having said that I've had quite a few female friends throughout the years who really love and prefer big men. The big "bear" type of guys with the hairy chests and big bellies do it for them. Hey, whatever floats your boat! :)
 
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Hey Stacy, that's cool :) I'm a solosexual myself..... but a girlfriend, might not be such a bad thing right now either :)

To each their own. For me, the "opposites attract" thing is spot on. And since I've had a weight problem most of my life, I'm totally attracted to medium thin, to downright skinny girls (as long as I can still tell shes a woman from behind ;)). What some guys would call "healthy, or thick, or a little chunky" strikes me as down right fat. If a girl does have any noticeable meat on her, I'd prefer it to be lean, and cut / defined. {that's 10 X's better, than just skinny, alone}.

So then, for me to look at a guy, and be envious, the bigger, and more buffed, the better, but take away 1 point for every % of body fat, over say 10%.

.......but then, I'm a self described odd ball anyway :)

Peace,
Fish
 
I don't know, I think the hot women who are "overweight" are only a little bit so. Any healthy person is going to look overweight compared to models for example. (Like the supposedly overweight plus size models are just normal sized women.)

When a woman has a normal amount of fat it goes to her curves and she looks sexy, when a man has fat it removes all the manly muscle definition/tendons, and generally really takes away from his masculinity. But truly fat women lose the sexy female shape as well.
 
...why are you on a weight loss forum?

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Totally off topic: The Jon Stewart pic totally threw me off. Literally made me laugh out loud. love that guy <3

I've dated a few guys who like rounder women, and I still don't understand it very well. They never opposed my trying to lose weight, but they did like the larger breasts that accompanied my weight =/ Once found my ex's 'plump' porn and wanted to puke. Although he preferred larger women, he would often make comments about fattier food being gross and not wanting to get fat... yet for some reason it was ok for his girlfriend to be.. I find this attitude odd but whatever.

As for my attraction to men, I've noticed that so many factors come into play that weight is really not that important. Just the other evening, my eyes locked with a guy's, I found him really attractive for some reason, and eventyally noticed he was a but chubby. And he kinda looked like Seth Rogan but with darker hair (I didn't expect to find a Seth Rogan lookalike that attractive :p) ...As the night went on, we talked a bit and exchanged a few glances and smiles when we weren't... By the end of the night though, he had drank so much that he looked like a totally different, unattractive person. All of a sudden his beer belly seemed more prominent and his drunken smile totally repelled me. And his flirty glances had turned into a creepy stare... I doubt that I would have felt differently if he was thin... Thank god nothing happened, eh? lol

I also have a friend who has had health problems, so to him, a larger woman (overweight, not obese) is sexy because he associates it with strength.

So many factors come into play in the complex realm of attraction!
 
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