wrong, wrong, wrong!!! never cut calories to lose weight. that's why they are 'roller coaster diets' ... because you can't maintain the weight loss. I've posted this a few times, but here's what happens in a nut shell: a) cut calories b) body thinks you aren't getting enough food c) metabolism slows down d) you still lose some weight e) you start eating a bit more f) metabolism DOESN'T speed up, but instead stores the extra food as fat g) return to 'a'
You will actually find that people that are having problems losing weight but complain that they hardly eat anything will actually lose weight when they increase how much they eat towards the 'norm' ... the reason that there is a 'recommended caloric intake' is because your body needs that many calories to function normally.
Here's what you NEED to do. Examine the type of calories you are eating and remove useless ones. Try to split up your meals into 6/day with your heaviest meal being lunch, not dinner. You don't need a heavy dinner because you are just going to go to sleep ... calories are used for energy ... but you don't need energy to sleep.
Cardio: do it first thing in the morning before eating ... you won't have any easily accessible calories to burn, so it'll look at your fat stores and protein (muscle). Try not to eat anything for the first hour after your cardio as your body still burns fat even after you stop. If you are worried about losing muscle tone, then your first meal should contain a healthy amount of protein ... shakes are perfect.
Weight train: muscle is the most efficient fat burning mechanism in your body. The more muscle you have, the more fat you will burn.
... longer post than i anticipated, but it sounds like it was needed