twolilangels - a journal of a tired mommy...LOL

I'm sorry your going through all of that. Just remember its not just your story. alot of people go through all that. Try your best not to let it get too you, though I don't know how you can help it. Just one day at a time.............. If you ever need to talk or just vent I'm always around... well mostly.......
 
hillbillylee said:
I'm sorry your going through all of that. Just remember its not just your story. alot of people go through all that. Try your best not to let it get too you, though I don't know how you can help it. Just one day at a time.............. If you ever need to talk or just vent I'm always around... well mostly.......
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Thank you, you put a smile on my face...beleive it or not it isnt getting me down as much as it would have in the past...I think I have reached that indifferent point and the point I am at is protecting my girls...No longer will I allow him to get the better of me anymore but as you said it is hard to not let it get to you...I even offered to wiave child support if he would just walk away and sign away his rights...nope, he wont...he has never been a father, he left when she was 2.5 months and has maybe seen her regularly 3 times, like in installements...he is just a loooser...anyway thanx for stopping by...
 
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If I was you Hun I would go to court and get the whole mess sorted out then he can’t keep threatening you with it. Keep a record of the emails he sends and Wright down what he said in his phone calls ect... Every time he tries to threaten you with something just prepare for it and say thanks for the warning. You will do fine. I scared my ex off by trying to give him too much access of his kids; I haven’t seen him for 14 years. :D :D :D
 
Heya's 2LA,
Sorry to hear about your "POOPYHEAD" EX!
Just stay strong girlie and don't let him bring ya down,he sounds
like thats what he's trying to do because no one likes to go to
court if you don't have to.If you think he's serious then "ROSERED"
had a good point I would go to court 1st and straighten thing's out.
Keep 1 foot ahead of him! Try to have a better day tomorrow,Tammy:)
 
hillbillylee said:
I never did understand that. My kids are everything to me, even during their rotten moments lol....
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And so they should be...I know no different...I became prego at 15 have been a single mom since...was ina relationship with my X for 2 years...in that relationship I still did everyhtign and had his son full time on top pf that, even had his son after he left us...I have never known any different than to have my kids with me at all times and to care for them cuz that is my job...

As far as the court thing, Ive beent here done all that...last year I recieved sole custody...I couldnt believe it , it is so hard to obtain these days...and I also recieved a written letter, thanx to the judge, for his consent to change my youngests last name, cuz this I can not do without his consent...which I knew i would never have recieved...

He is mad cuz I wont allow him access...our court order states twice a week and he agreed to twice a week...he never comes never follows through something is always more important so there for I dont allow him to come due to her age, she remebers him now and asks for him and he doesnt come around...

I should elaborate a bit here on the not allowing him to come around...he will come once or twice and that will be it we just wont hear from him agian for months I just dont think it is fair to any of us...I also will no longer chat with him here...like on line, only contact through email if necessary...

He was also the only father my oldest ever knew and he couldnt care less, it screws us all up...he isnt a father never has been and I am prepared to fight for what i feel is best for the girls and I...

Thanx everyone and I am all good, this is how I know I am doing well...i was upset at first and quickly got over it...but what has me is he is threatening to invovle the ministry but I am a good mother and the girls have all they need and then some...so i really shouldnt worry there...
 
Well I did it, I bite the bullet and took a ride on my stationary bike...one hour...YES!!! Two installments of 30 mins, my longest yet...I was on for 30 mins and hten got a call so stopped and then went back on after abt 30 mins for another 30 mins...Im a little disappointed in myself however cuz I usually kick ass in teh exercise deptartment on the weekends...but I guess I have actually learnt to listen to my body...I just took it easy this weekend...
 
And that’s why im saying go back to court Hun I remembered you saying before that you had sole custody after a hearing… nothing has changed from the last time you went … you have got it in the bag. He gets to pay all the costs to no that he is a dead beat dad… (For the second time) then he will weigh up the cost before he tries it again. Some wankers (idiots) learn the first time… some are slow learners. Your doing great (even though it’s hard) so don’t ever doubt your self. Im Thinking of you…
P.S congrats on the bike
 
I wanted to tell you that I really appreciate the encouragement that you give!
I hope that you have a good day :) Sounds Like you have alot going on.
I wish you the best at every thing that you do. Stay strong sister,You CAN do this!:D
 
Ok...I've been MIA for a few days but I'm back. And I say let the bastard take you to court. Reply and say ok, I'll be looking forward to the papers. He knows he has NOTHING to stand on, he just wants to get a reaction out of you. He doesn't want to see them, you know that, he just wants to get you all upset. So call his bluff...say ok and if you do go...what is he going to say in his defense. The court system already knows he's a joke, that's why they gave you sole custody. Don't let the fool stress you out, laugh at his feable (sp?) attempts and keep on moving. *hugs*
 
Oh I did call his bluff...I said I will see you in court and in hell!!! LOL...I also suggested that maybe I should try to sue him for custody of my stepson, I was his parent for 2 yrs and his only real mother...we all know that I could do a better job raising him even his family...thanx gals:):):)
 
dariqueen said:
I'm in awe of your time on the bike...last time I tried it I made 5 minutes, then I had to quit. :rolleyes:
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HaHaHa...I really have to push myself...like totally zone out...actually my youngest was getting a bit mad at the time I was spending onit and not focusing on her...but the first time I used it I went like 5 or 10 mins and really had to push it to make 15, ive just gradually forced myself to do more...I really dont liek it, but Ive hardly done any exercising since Fri, so I had to do something...
 
Hey twolilangels.

Well done on the bike work... I can't use those things for long, I hate them! (It just feels like one of the worst cardio machines, they really wear your legs out.)

Anyway hope things are going a little better for you now. :)
 
Yesturday...OMG...Hanging head in shame!!! LOL :eek: :eek: :eek:

Okay so yeasturday my best friend and I decide to get together for lunch and such since her hubby is off for the holiday and I am home and so is my oldest and everyone else...

We went for lunch...to White Spot...DAMN!!! I was gonna be good and have a salad but we went to White Spot...I hadnt been there for so long or out to eat in a resturant in forever...so I cave and order the B.C. Burger...YUM!!! DBL YUM , YUM!!! I cleared my plate even all my fries...

Then we went shopping, nothing major, these new huge Dollar Store opened recently so we went there but due to no kids we took our time walking through and looking and buying, LOL. We also went to Wal Mart, it was so crazzzy!!! Kids and diapers...*GRUMBLE* heeheehee...I think I decided that Xmas marks the spot...I get a week off at Xmas so I will potty train my youngest then, I am so done with diapers plus they are so expensive...

My eatign day SUCKED ASS BIG TIME yesturday...I had noodles for breaky not too bad but loaded with sodium...like over a 1,000 and then I had White Spot for lunch and then I had a chocolate bar and I had cake later on and for dinner I had perogies adn bacon and alot at that...I did the walk by and graze thing ya know...walk through the kitchen grab a couple and so it goes on...

I went out in total for abt 5 hours I guess much longer than planned but I needed it...my oldest was in charge with my youngest and she did a great job!!! I came home to my youngest crashed on the couch...I cant make her nap...and my oldest making dinner...The house was a bit distroyed but all in all she did great...you see I dont live alone, I rent a suite in my Granny's basement and my aunt and bro and granny live upstairs...so aunty was home otherswise I would never leave them home alone but it turned out well...

Oh I did however get my exercise in...

30 mins on the bike
30 mims of core ball exercising and ball Yoga
30 more mins on the bike
 
Heyas 2LA,
I am so sorry for not visiting ya lastnight
during my zombie hours, your 1 of my fave people I like to
say hi to and check on!I hear that the resteraunt got you
2 yesterday I fell victim to and the thing is I don't even like
there food that much but I didn't eat break or lunch and had
to eat, my kids have like a cazillion free kids meal coupons
and they get a meal and a drink as long as you eat inside!
Aleast and I aplaude you that you got a ton of exersicing in
CONGRATS! I hope things are working out better for you
and the EX is not being a poppyhead to ya anymore! Have
a gr8 day Love ya to,Tammy:D
 
Thanx Nia...*SMILES*

So today I havent eaten much just not hungry...a slimfast meal replacement bar a banana yoguart and 2 or 3 mini sweet peppers...

Exercise:

30 mins @ Curves
30 mins of Tennis
Still going...
 
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