Too Few Cals?

You also know that the scale isn't a real reflection of how someone is doing - that it doesn't take into consideration waste etc.. your food plan is incredibly low in fiber and all the fat free stuff is high in sodium - so what's his beverage consumption like?

Has there been a change in measurements? or how his clothes are fitting

I agree, but like i said, i can't make him do anything else then what he's doing, i try to tell him to eat more, he doesn't want to hear it. He's only lost 12 pds so his clothes are still fitting him pretty much the same, except i think I can tell his shirt is getting looser, he says i'm crazy, lol.

um, drinks, he does drink some diet pepsi, water and coffee.

I hadn't thought about taking his measurements, maybe I'll try to talk him into that when he comes home?
 
So maybe he's eating other, 'healthy' things that you don't know about. Who knows....

My point is and always will be, until something exists that suggests otherwise, that there has never been a documented case (and there's a lot of studies/cases) where you put someone on a clinically controlled diet and they didn't lose weight. Period.

Thermodynamics always win.

That said, Mal is correct in saying that it's stupid to base all progress on the number on the scale. With that though, when you have as much weight to lose as he does, the scale should be falling, especially considering the intake.

I highly suggest you start taking measurements of the neck, arms, belly button, waist, hips, and thighs. I also suggest taking pictures.

All this said..... if he doesn't buy into the lifestyle mentality, he will fail.

Read that again.

The diet mentality never works. And my definition of 'works' is losing weight permanently. If you view this as a temporary endeavor and base all success on the scale reading, what happens when the scale spits back with the goal number?

Do you really think it will stay there?

He already proved it himself, when he gained all the weight he lost, back.

If I've said it once, I've said it a dozen times..... if you don't change the brain, you ain't gonna change the body. At least not permanently. How we think leads to how we live. This is a known fact. By changing how we think on a chronic level, we actually directly change the chemistry of the brain. You re-wire or re-program yourself to feel and behave differently.

Without this step, it's a fruitless endeavor in my opinion. Doing things without this step (and I don't like calling it a step, I should be saying without this component of programming) all efforts tend to lead to unhealthy habits and frustrations IME.
 
thanks for the input everyone, I agree w/ alot of what was said.....I will make sure Hubby reads what you wrote :)
 
This has happened to me a few times in the past 3 months as well, I was losing weight fast in the beginning and then hit a few days where nothing changed. I quickly figured out it had a lot to do with waste retention and water intake. My "ordeal" was almost exactly as you describe your hubby and I remember feeling really discouraged after a few days of the scale not moving. Then a strange thing happened, I dropped 4 lbs from my last weigh in the morning before. Don't trust the scale, if it hasn't moved it soon will.

That's happened to me a few times since that first time, I've learned to not let it get me down. Once the scale only showed a 2 lb loss over a 10 day period and I went down a pants size and two notches on my belt. Don't let the scale disrupt his focus, if he truly is cutting that many calories he will lose and lose fast it just might not be something you'll be able to measure every day.
 
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