Hi there to the skinny mum Cathy, the fat one is going for good this time, you can do it sister,it's time for YOU, it's time to find things that you enjoy besides eating. I think we all like food here and like to eat. But I find that when I get preoccupied with other enjoyable activities I don't have the thought space to obsese over food. I still plan meals but am not thinking about food between meals as much. Do you like craft or any sports, I reccomend that you persue an activity that you enjoy.See how you go. All the best from Suzy