I looked up Fuerterventura, and I'm super jealous! It looks so gorgeous. I bet you are having a wonderful time. Inspiring to hear of how confident you feel too - it's not bragging, you did the work and deserve the credit. Have a fantastic time (I don't see how you couldn't!)
Thank you!
I had a lovely time. LOADS of eating and drinking the wrong things, as per the picture below.
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I gained 2 pounds, which I’ll take given I didn’t monitor my diet at all. I got a great time and it was so nice to chill out with my boyfriend before the madness of Christmas begins.
Today was my first day of my new job, so naturally I didn’t sleep a wink last night. I was quite stressed about being late because I had to drive 20 miles and then get a bus into the city centre. I ended up being nearly an hour early. At least it gave me plenty of time to explore the area! Everyone seemed friendly enough

I meet the department I’m going to be working in tomorrow, so it will kind of be a first day all over again.
I also have had issues with my grandmother on my mind, which has kept me awake at night. She’s 85, physically disabled, has mental health issues, and can barely use a telephone because she has severe tinnitus. Unfortunately it’s not possible for my sister or I to check on her every day because we live about 1-2 hours’ drive away, so she has to hire cleaners and has to pay for an emergency alarm she can press if she falls down and can’t get up. I know she wants to live independently, so she would hate the idea of a care home. While she is quite vulnerable, I don’t think she doesn’t have any signs of dementia as her memory is very good for her age and she can handle long one-on-one conversations for hours at a time.
Before I went on holiday her doctor changed her anti-depressants, which turned out to be a terrible idea. She was meant to have a telephone (!!) appointment with the doctor while I was away to try resolve this, but this hasn’t happened and my sister has told me that she sounded very erratic and paranoid on the phone. I’m at a loss of what to do. I’m going to ask her if she’d like me to deal with the doctor on her behalf to argue that she should be put back on her old meds, but if my Gran doesn’t let me then I just don’t know how I can help her. Last thing any of us want is for something to happen to her and we don’t find out in time.
So that’s the beginning of the week in a nutshell. Hopefully will come to a more rounded and certain conclusion!