Time for some real inspiration

adollarwodbnice

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Well, I never really wanted to do this nor did I plan to but today I decided i'm completely sick of slacking and I think this will help me.

I'm gonna try to update when I can whether anyone cares or not (which I guess is the point anyway) but I feel this will be a good tool for me to get tips for what I could improve on too so I need it anyway.

Background:
I never used to be very big but I was not really in GREAT shape I just did alot of running round when I was younger so my weight never had a chance to catch up. When I got into highschool I was chubby but not BIG. My Sophmore year of highschool I was about 195 or so and I was very chubby and slow and lazy. A friend of mine who was really big decided he wanted to get into shape and joined the wrestling team. In like a month he looked like a totally different person and I was jealous so I joined up too.
So I weighed in around 195ish and I really only joined up to get into shape. I lasted until the middle of my Senior year...when I was done I weighed a solid 171 and I was in AWESOME shape... I was dieting, running ALOT, lifting, and enjoying life. When highschool ended and I stopped worrying about school and started working i gained some weight and I was probably around 200 but I was never fat...just not skinny anymore.
Fast forward to about 4 months ago...July 2010... I broke up with my girlfriend of about 7 years because things were just not working out. Now because I had a girlfriend that liked me for who I was I never cared about my health enough and I would just eat whatever I wanted and ALOT of it. I weighed in around 250 at this time and I clearly had a gut...still didn't look 250 but I was fat and HATED the way I looked.
I don't wanna brag but i've always been great with the ladies... never had a problem talking to them and making friends and all that stuff. MY first night on the town being a single man I was getting shut down left and right before I could even get a word out... these women would look at me and immediately give me the "no thanks" look. I was honestly pretty depressed about these things happening for a while... so much that it pissed me off.

My fuel:
A week had gone by since I had broken up with my girlfriend of forever and I was sitting at home with scruffy facial hair, a terrible lack of a haircut, a beer gut, and 250 pounds of unhappiness. I litterally looked at myself in the mirror from several angles for a few minutes and I decided then and there I refused to look this way anymore.

What I did about it:
So, conveniently my school gave everyone in my program a free gym membership and I had it for a year and never used it yet. I took a stroll down to the gym one day and it was the biggest gym i'd ever seen. Very fancy, tons of people in it, and TONS of equiptment, pool, nice locker rooms with showers, etc...
The very next day I came to school with an extra pair of running shoes and some basketball shorts and I set out on a journey to get into shape. From that day forward I went to this gym mon. weds. and fridays right after a big lunch and I would run 3 miles and do mixed weight before and after...alternating weights with ab workouts every other day. I constantly weighed myself and after the first week I had lost about 10 pounds which was obviously my water weight but this only made me happy so it didn't matter.
I decided I wasn't doing enough and cut out everything I drank that wasn't water and basically forced myself to drink TONS of it. This was also when I decided I needed to eat smaller amounts of food and eat things that were slightly better for me. Now I cheated every so often but compared to what I used to eat this was NOTHING.
In about a month I had clearly lost my beer gut and I was 20 pounds lighter... all I could think about EVERY DAY I was running and getting sick and tired of it was the look on the girl's face when she was just completely uninterested in some obviously handsome guy that was fat. ;)
This was the biggest fuel for me and it continues to help me...

WHERE I'M AT RIGHT NOW
Well unfortunately school tripled and I have 0 time to run however I have kept the same food intake so my weight hasn't gone back up AT ALL. I still do weights and things but I have no real schedule. That is where this thread comes in.

Whether you read my story or not I will log everything I do throughout my days on here in hopes others will see what i'm doing and correct my wasted time so I can maximize where I want to be.

Essentially i'm looking to just be skinny... I don't want to be ripped or big I just want to have skinnier legs, thin neck, flatter chest, and as little chub as possible.

My starting weight as of TONIGHT 11/8/2010 is 230.2

Tonight I did 2 sets of 20 crunches with 2 sets of 20 push ups.
Today I had a turkey and cheese sandwich on whole wheat with mayo, fritos, and water. Earlier before it I snuck an Arizona iced tea in...the BIG ones for 1$.
When I got home I had a big bowl of lucky charms with 2% milk.
Now i'm going to sleep.
 
I'm with you man. A breakup is definitely fuel for the fire and when you focus that energy into something positive, the results will speak for itself. Someday soon, we will make them regret that decision.
 
Yeah, not like it was a huge deal at the time because i'm fine being single but every time I think about quitting when i've only got a little bit left to go in my mile or set I just think to myself "Don't take shit from anyone you'll look great when all the hard work is paid off"

Also, when I wrestled what used to keep me from cheating on my diets and exercise to drop weight was a saying they had in our weight room... "Pain is only the weakness leaving your body" That ALWAYS helps motivate me when I think of it... great saying.

Soooo, for today..

I had a donut in the morning..., (I work in a hospital and this week is Rad Tech week so they are giving us lunc hand breakfast every day this week haha) Pink with sprinkles...love them.

Lunch time I had a ham and cheese with mayo on whole wheat with apple juice and fritos. Fritos bags are 160 calories to a bag so although they have a bunch of sodium from which my understanding retains water, they taste good and they help to add some yummy to my lunch.
Went to the gym and swam back and forth in the pool for about 40 minutes... felt great...trying to get into swimming since it's low impact, fun, relaxing, and good for you!
When I got home there was burgers made for dinner... I had one cheese burger with ketchup, then a brownie.
Weighed myself in at 229.6
 
you and i are around the same weight right now...
i'm 6' 3" and right now 224lbs but a week ago i was 235
since cutting out any drink but water and running/jogging/walking over 3 miles every day i've gotten good results in just a week..... i can hope that continues but i know it's gotta slow down.... when i can't go out i jog in place for an hour and keep the heart rate up because from what i read....heart rate is what it is all about when burning. i've found that because i'm determined now i'm finding time....before i would just say i had no time but i would still sit and watch a movie or something... when i could have been out running. i would be set if my school offered a gym membership.... but oh well... good luck..i'll be checking in
-sean-
 
Congrats on the 10 pounds and the kick in the ass to get shit done!

I feel that the first 3-4 weeks I cut out everything but water and ate less and did intense cardio I dropped weight REALLY fast but I did hit my block... I figure about 80% of this weight was water weight that I was stubborn to work off before getting serious and the rest was actual weight. However I kept all the weight i've lost off since then which also makes me pretty happy.

It's SOOOOOO easy to be determined and have great results from the hard work and see nothing so don't think that just because you don't see it others don't. Hell today I got 3 compliments from 3 different people about how I looked like I was losing weight and they were right outta nowhere.

But, you have to remember although you may feel like you have hit a block and stopped losing weight you could actually be losing fat and gaining muscle which WILL make you look better.

It was clear my gut went away and my face was beginning to thin out after I stopped dropping weight quickly...

If you keep up the hard work and have a possitive attitude you can get to your goal and don't let someone bullshit you and tell you you can't!


As for today I had a busy school day so I did have time to goto the gym and run but for brunch I had a Ham, eggwhites, and cheese on whole wheat with water, and some animal crackers :D

For dinner I had 3 eggs with cheese on whole wheat with some tea.

Weighed in at 228.0
 
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