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It seems like you have some great goals Wishes!! And I just linked over to all your pics and it is so amazing to me how much in the last set of pictures that you just seem stronger! smaller, but stronger! How do you feel internally since all the weight loss? Are you emotional at all?? The reason I ask is, I've know some people who lost over 100 pounds and they gained a whole new inner confidence, yet at the same time they became more vulnerable in some areas, do you find you have a lot of mix emotions that come along with losing so much and looking so different? Leave it to me to ask so many damn personal questions. LOL LOL Great job on the bike ride girlie! You'll reach your goal, I know you will!
Kim
 
Hey wishes, got a question for ya. As you know, I've just begun riding my bike...its been 3 dys in a row and let me tell ya...my ass is KILLING me! lol Does it eventually get to the point where it doesn't hurt as bad??
 
The reason I ask is, I've know some people who lost over 100 pounds and they gained a whole new inner confidence, yet at the same time they became more vulnerable in some areas, do you find you have a lot of mix emotions that come along with losing so much and looking so different?
Nah im the same person i was, in fact it annoys me greatly that other people treat me differently!
Ive had friends come up and say things like 'oh you've changed, you're a real bitch now and snob' etc and others who say 'oh you seem happier all the time now' etc. I think its all in their minds, i havnt changed *me* im still the same person. Only thing changed was the packaging.


Hey wishes, got a question for ya. As you know, I've just begun riding my bike...its been 3 dys in a row and let me tell ya...my ass is KILLING me! lol Does it eventually get to the point where it doesn't hurt as bad??
Yep it goes away, but feel free to find a better seat that is women specific! dont go for anything super strange looking - chances are its a gimmick (ie super oversized or strange shapes).

Heres me waving as i crossed the finishline of my last race.
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wow, what an AWESOME pic! I'm so proud of you!!

thanks for answering my question, I was saying in my diary that the problem (i dont' believe) is the seat, its fine while i'm riding it...but its the bruised bottom that is the problem. Is the pain an effect of a bad seat??
 
Super, Super cool, Wishes!

I'm curious... And I know it's a stupid question... But do you ever get nervous with all of those other bikers around you? Like, if one wipes out you're all gonna wipe out! Hehe.

I got on the excersize bike today (it's a real bike hooked to a machine) and it didn't hurt my butt at all! I was very pleased! :D I also found that thought it was more painful on my muscles at first than other times, I was able to go longer without getting too winded/achy.

Anyway, I just wanted to say I checked out your site, read every page (I'm still going through your blog) and it's awesome! I bookmarked it to look at whenever I need a little inspiration. I also wanted to add--Your hair is so cool! I have no clue how you got it to be such a nice blue. I've had blue-black, brown, red, indigo, blonde, and white hair myself! (It's white now) I noticed that in your recent pics. you had White on top and reddish/brown on the underside. I had the exact same hair for a while based off of my hero David Sylvian. Anyway, besides the hair the pictures are amazing! I think you look really really superb! I hope you'll be able to get the surgery soon (Even though it doesn't look like you need it!) I hope that when it happens, it'll go perfectly!

I'll reply back to your PM tomorrow... I just wanted to stop in and read some of your diary!

-N-
 
Hey wishes, got a question for ya. As you know, I've just begun riding my bike...its been 3 dys in a row and let me tell ya...my ass is KILLING me! lol Does it eventually get to the point where it doesn't hurt as bad??

I hear, ya. I got a really high end seat (Terry brand women's design) and it still hurts, though it is a lot better. That being said, I think if you bite the bullet and ride for long enough, your body will adapt. That's what one of my cycle-maniac friends says. I am hell-bent on getting my ass used to biking this summer. I see how Liz works her butt off cycling and it is hard not to be inspired. I am an "I want it now" personality type...

Liz, fantastic picture from the race. You are beaming. 1000km goal: that is crazy and incredible all in the same breath. I can't even fathom that. I love it! Glad to have you back in forum-land. I feel lost without you, even if it's only for a few days!
 
Oh i know! Liz is a HUGE inspiration! I don't plan on giving up biking at all...I'm just hoping the bruised feeling will go away...and soon! lol
 
thanks for answering my question, I was saying in my diary that the problem (i dont' believe) is the seat, its fine while i'm riding it...but its the bruised bottom that is the problem. Is the pain an effect of a bad seat??
Oh no, the brused bottom is normal for either extremely long rides or your butt isnt used to it. When i did the 160km long hilly ride i had a bruised butt afterwards also, but a lot of it is just your butt muscles being sore from clenching and supporting. it will go away within a few weeks.

Super, Super cool, Wishes!

I'm curious... And I know it's a stupid question... But do you ever get nervous with all of those other bikers around you? Like, if one wipes out you're all gonna wipe out!
Yes! most of the time its fine, but the race i did on the weekend was scarey because some of the bunches got so big.
Cycling in bunches has an etiquette, heres the general gist.

By following very close behind somebody you can go faster because you dont have wind resistance, so you get a group of 4-5 people and only the first person gets the wind resistance. So person in front rides as hard as they can for as long as they can, when they are worn out they move outwards and let the rest of the bunch go past and then they move back into the end of the cue, the bunch rotate all the time so the guy at front is always fresh and this way the whole group goes a lot faster than they could on their own. The bunch is referred to as a Peloton.
In larger bunches the same basic principals apply only you can be 2-3 riders wide (dependant on traffic and road etc).
So of course now because you are travelling fast and close together, you dont see any potholes or glass or even parked cars. So this is where general politeness and signals and calls come in.
If a car comes from behind the person at the back yells out 'CAR BACK!' the person in front of them yells, then the person in front of them and so on so everyone knows to move left a little or if they are sitting out move back into the line. The person in the front keeps an eye out for potholes glass or parked cars and will point to any potholes (sometimes they call them but often its just signals), glass is a palm down shaking signal (or rough stones), a quick hand behind the back pointing away from the curb means parked car or passing something slower/stopped (ie moving away from the curb).

Rules of the bunch are - no wobbling, no sudden turns, no sudden stops etc. If for some reason somebody gets a flat or chain falls off, that person will yell 'STOPPING!' and usually a few people around if they notice will do the same.
So when you are in super large bunches and wanting to move left or right to get to the outside of the bunch you can raise the fingers off the appropriate hand outwards pointing, look back out the corner of your eye and wait for other riders to gently slow so you can fit in, if they dont then you call out. Most cyclists and bunches are easy to ride in, and people are nice and polite :)
 
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nah its not to scarey unless it gets really big or if you have somebody who doesnt understand the pack rules and/or swerves all over the show. New people are best to sit near the back of the pack so if anything goes wrong they only get dropped (left behind) and/or dont take out the entire bunch of they fall for some reason :)
 
Official results are in,
I was 1056th out of 2499 people that raced that day.
I was the 143rd woman to finish out of 563
and i was 39th in my age group category (dunno how many were in that ... probably 39 lol!)
 
congratulations!!! even finishing that race is a huge accomplishment!!! way to go!!!

wooooooooooooohooooooo!!!!!!!!!!
 
congratulations!!! even finishing that race is a huge accomplishment!!! way to go!!!

wooooooooooooohooooooo!!!!!!!!!!

:iagree: You have already accomplished so much more than most people will in their whole life, Wishes. You have done great things! Thanks for sharing your ups and downs and being an encouragement to others along the way.

Cheers
ABBA
 
well my riding has been off all week - not even able to make normal speeds, Then i got my monthly thing, and i started my iron pills, then this arvo i kicked some mother ass cycling home and got my best time yet! :D
 
Official results are in,
I was 1056th out of 2499 people that raced that day.
I was the 143rd woman to finish out of 563
and i was 39th in my age group category (dunno how many were in that ... probably 39 lol!)

Finishing in the top 50 percent is an outstanding accomplishment -just think 2 years ago - you wouldn't have even been a spectator let alone a top finisher :)

Rock on lady!!

Olympics here she comes
 
lol - and next year i move up an age category in that particular race to the 35-45 :)
I reckon i can beat them all! mwahahahah!

So i have another race tomorrow ... i have to be up at 5am !

On the plus side i get to carbo load and not count calories the day i race and the day before :)
 
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im not even sure what a cougar is, i think its some sort of big cat isnt it ? or is this american slang for something im not in on?

Id rather kick leopard ass - they are faster anyway! :)

Kids are pissing me of MEGA! im sooo peeved off with their stupid fighting and bickering and then giggling over insane shit and not eating dinner ..... grrrrr!
 
The good 'ol North American definition for cougar...a woman in her upper years that preys after men that are under twenty-five. Didn't realize that this slang phrase hasn't crossed the ocean. Its definitely a good one!

Leopards...since when did they start biking. :)
 
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