This is the time

Oh Felici.....what a day!!!

I am feeling for you big time! So I hope you are enjoying a well deserved cup of coffee, and you know what? Sometimes you just need chocolate, and nothing else will cut it.

And your friend who popped round the other night sounded like a sweetheart, and doesn't a hug just do wonders?!


So here is another big hug coming your way,

Frankie
 
Thanks Cannon! I forgot I did that. :)



I just looked this up.


Though I guess it didn't say anything I haven't seen before, I did really get a feeling of recognition when I read that. I realize that what I felt last night was the need to move - my whole body - not my jaw!!!! I think it might be helpful to remind myself of what that underlying impulse is some time in the future. OK. I can't go for a run while I drive, but I could have gone for a walk around the carpark later - I can feel that my impulses would have gone with that. Or maybe even just narrowing the impulse down a little more and time shifting that would have helped. Maybe. :)
 
Oh yeah weight loss and stress, definate.

Also sleep i notice. I eat more when tired and get stressed more too probably.
 
Yes. It looks like stress and tiredness set off a similar bunch of hormonal reactions.

When I first came on here one of my goals was to try and go to bed at 11 pm - early enough to always get 8 hours sleep and still wake up in time to work (sort of). However, after tracking it for about 6 months and keeping it only about 4-5 times I gave up. It looked like I was going to be able to lose weight without an eleven o'clock bedtime, and I decided to leave that goal for some other time ...

I still see the value in it though. Maybe if I'd kept it, I would be at goal weight by now! LOL or maybe not, since being on-line encourages me to stay up late, and also encourages me to lose weight. :) Nah. I think that goal was too tight for me - but I definitely struggle a lot more with both food and exercise when my night's sleep sits at 6 per night for too long, or if I really try to ignore it and get even less.

Also, I find that a regular 8 hours makes things easier - of course when I'm getting that, it usually means that I'm on holidays - staying up late but sleeping in late too - so I guess you could debate which aspect is causal and which is just associated with the primary cause. :D

As far as yesterday goes, well I just remember sitting in the theatre thinking that I knew my irrational behaviour was stress related and that I should try to destress a bit and at least drop my shoulders and take deep breaths and stuff, and I did, and it helped a bit, but it was like a single ice cube in a boiling kettle. From the article, I was reminded that on the one hand the situation I was in wasn't just about "feeling stressed", it was about significant amounts of adrenalin and insufficient physical movement to shift it - I actually remember teaching people to use their large muscles to try and manage "butterflies in the stomach". Pacing is useful for more than burning calories in this sort of situation! At that time I didn't use that myself though, as it was in relation to public speaking, and I would just focus on what I had to do and on making my feeling excitement and not nerves. Of course when I myself am not the speaker or the dancer and am trying to interfere just enough and no more, that doesn't really work ...

Also, yesterday, I remember thinking that as the major stressors had passed I should be able to snap out of it - but it just wasn't happening. And that article reminded me that cortisol kicks in, in a longer lasting way than the adrenalin and also impacts negatively.

I don't think these things have to be controlling though. I just think that being more aware of what might be going on, makes it easier to deal with.


Wednesday December 12, 2007.

Breakfast: 7:30 Toast (70-80) with plum and cinnamon jam.(15) A boiled egg.(70) Weetbix (107) with soy milk (122) and tinned peaches (50). Coffee with a little hilo milk. (5)

Lunch
: 12:00 6 Vive crackers (157 cal) with 100 gm low fat cottage cheese (91), 2 small amorato tomatoes (20) and a med. Mushroom (4). Nectarine (45). Coffee with milk. (5)

Snack
: large diet passionfruit drink.

Dinner
: 7:00 100 gm tinned red salmon.(190) ~ 400 gm tinned asparagus (80). 100 gm tinned 4 bean mix (119).
200 gm diet apricot yoghurt (84). Small lady finger banana (50).

9:30 A peach (40).2 weetbix, tinned peaches, soy milk (280). ~ 12 almonds (85). Green tea.

(total 1700)

Still working on the new improved easy use specially adapted for felici calorie+ counter. There is value for me in actually paying attention to calories, and carbs remembering more about them, and knowing more about how much protein is in different foods and so on. I need it to be quicker though. I need to finish making my tool and practice using it.
 
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Hey, I could really relate to your last post. I think my magic number of hours sleeping is 7. I can live OK on 6, but if I can get 7 I'm that much better. 8 is a luxury, but not really a necessary one for me. I lived on 5 hours sleep for far too long.
 
i start work at 6.30 so im up at 6am every morning no matter what. Even if i dont have to be, i just wake up anyway :/

I do try and go to bed early though and get the 8 hours required. im in bed by 10 most nights.

Good call though catching yourself and realizing whats going on and doing something to help it. Its sometimes an extremely hard thing to do.
 
Hey, I could really relate to your last post. I think my magic number of hours sleeping is 7. I can live OK on 6, but if I can get 7 I'm that much better. 8 is a luxury, but not really a necessary one for me. I lived on 5 hours sleep for far too long.
I relate to the livining on too little sleep for too long as well. There's a lot of competition for our time, and I used to think I could treat my sleep as optional. I do a bit better than that these days but still have some pretty big lapses.

i start work at 6.30 so im up at 6am every morning no matter what. Even if i dont have to be, i just wake up anyway :/

I do try and go to bed early though and get the 8 hours required. im in bed by 10 most nights.

Good call though catching yourself and realizing whats going on and doing something to help it. Its sometimes an extremely hard thing to do.
Thanks wishes. I think catching myself is the skill I have to have!! I'm working on it. That gain of 5 kilos in 3 1/2 weeks that I managed while I was on holidays was a bit of an eye opener for me as too how fast the slide could happen.

I .:heart:. the world at 3am.

"I'll get all the sleep I need when I die" -Wade Garrett

(google the movie Roadhouse)

:)
Yeah! I :heart: the world at 3 am too. :) It would be kinda nice to stay up till I was sleepy each night, and stay in bed till I wasn't every day. I don't think days have that many hours though!!


Thursday December 13, 2007.

Breakfast: 7:30 Toast (70-80) with plum and cinnamon jam.(15) A boiled egg.(70) Weetbix (107) with soy milk (122) and tinned peaches (50). Coffee with a little hilo milk. (5)

Lunch: 12:00 3 fresh spring rolls 273 cal ( maybe a lot less!) I can't work out the amounts of noodles or chicken, in a roll so I can't guess properly, and I can't work it out from an online recipe because aside from their variability, they all (well the 6 I looked at), include the sauce and I don't eat the sauce.

25 gm beef jerky (71) cal

1:30 1 small lady finger banana 100 gm (60)

3:00 2 slices wholemeal bread (140 - 160) with
45 gm low fat cottage cheese (41)

6:30 Southern comfort 40 ml (112) & diet coke.

After that I lost my appetite.

10:40 20 almonds (200)

~ 1400 cal

It's frustrating trying to work out the calories/ carb serves/ protein serves in foods purchased away from home. I guess the short answer is that there no matter what, there will sometimes be ambiguity about the overall best options and that I might just need to accept that and make the best guess I can.
 
I forgot to write about my swim.

Woh! Well it seems it was a bad choice time wise today - should have walked the dog instead and gotten myself some credit that way. By day's end I felt like I needed one of those t shirts that says "I can only please one person each day. Today is not your day. Tomorrow isn't looking too good either."

Yet, I did enjoy the swim! I was at the pool for 50 minutes and actually swimming for 40. I counted myself up to 20 laps - a definite improvement on the one or two I was doing when I started this. Also, I decided my laps of freestyle one way and backstroke on the way back, didn't seem like as much of a stretch as they did at first, and so tried for the first time to swim back freestyle as well. Then I realized that it wasn't that hard and so finished my last 5 laps as all freestyle. I did all those last laps on 4 strokes a breath though, the others I have up to 6 strokes a breath now. I have quite a clear memory of when I was reluctant to try for half a length of that stroke not many weeks ago. :)

I have very little idea about technique... I must google. Not tonight though. :)
 
When I wasn't sleepign enough I felt normal. When I got the required ammount of sleep, it was like--Wow! So that's what I was missing?
 
Hey you!!! THANK YOU SO MUCH for all the great words and warm wishes. Also for the rep, you are always such a sweet and kind person, who I truly enjoy posting with. I hope you get the rest you need soon, I'm a bit sleep deprived right now myself and I feel like I'm walking in fog the last few days. I'm going to rest big time this weekend. HUGS TO YOU FELI!! I miss our talks!
Kim
 
When I wasn't sleepign enough I felt normal. When I got the required ammount of sleep, it was like--Wow! So that's what I was missing?
Hey! I resemble that!! :)

Yeah - sleep can be like that - like health or relationship issues - you can get used to things being wrong but afterwards you're like "oh this is what normal is really like!!" :D

Hey you!!! THANK YOU SO MUCH for all the great words and warm wishes. Also for the rep, you are always such a sweet and kind person, who I truly enjoy posting with. I hope you get the rest you need soon, I'm a bit sleep deprived right now myself and I feel like I'm walking in fog the last few days. I'm going to rest big time this weekend. HUGS TO YOU FELI!! I miss our talks!
Kim
I hope that big time rest has you snuggling down in a warm bedroom. :)



I will be glad when I have my own fog sorted out! This week is the week when everything is on so that "it's not too close to Christmas" I think. So now everything is still too much but the too muchness is early. I didn't even anticipate having as much on as I do, because some of these things don't happen every year, or are new events for the kids. I jumped out of bed on an adrenalin rush too soon today thinking that I had forgotten to do something important, (ack!) that I had actually done, (whew!), and now I am falling asleep here while it is still morning!! Silly season starting early in my body! :willy_nilly:

Right now I'm feeling guilty about an out and out clash of obligations tonight. I need to be like someone in a movie and run back and forth or hop in a time machine or something ...

Maybe this will have to be one of those days where I just say that at least I got my food and exercise right. :)

Maybe this thing will work! :chillpill:

oooo My son just came and rubbed my shoulders for a minute. Nice!!! :)
 
Friday December 13, 2007.

Well I thought it might be the food and exercise I got right – but I was lucky. Instead I was given a chance to keep everybody happy, including me. I was able to correct an oversight that was distressing me, and accept my mum's invitation without leaving anyone else feeling neglected, so I thought it was a good deal. The food and exercise turned out to be not too bad I think, all things considered. The function had its fun moments – and now I have learned (almost), how to sign a Christmas carol (that I had never previously heard of), in deaf sign language :D. Plus I got a nice lecture (with slides) about American Christmas traditions, which look unsurprisingly similar to my own ... and found out about how the tradition of Christmas canes started. (I know where most of mine have ended up – in my dog's stomach – as she has maintained her tradition of scoffing all the mistakes my daughter makes while decorating the tree).

The chance to go after all came up very much at the last moment so I had little time to prepare and didn't eat first, unfortunately. The food offered was not intended as a meal and there were no good food choices. It was eat unhealthy Christmas treats or wait till I got home, and I chose to just restrict the amounts and hope for the best. It took so long to figure out what the calories might be once I got home, that I think that might be quite a disincentive to repeating this!!


Breakfast: 7:30 Toast (70-80) with plum and cinnamon jam.(15) A boiled egg.(70) Weetbix (107) with soy milk (122) and tinned peaches (50). ½ C coffee with a little hilo milk. (2) Breakfast total - 446 calories.

½ C coffee with milk. ½ C tea with milk. (5)

Lunch: 12:30 6 Vive crackers. (157) 85 gm low fat cottage cheese. (77) 5 gm hard low fat cheese. (17) 2 (80 gm)amarosa tomatoes (11), ½ medium mushroom (2), ~ ¼ yellow capsicum (7). 1 small (90 gm) carrot (36) . 5 snow peas (5). Green tea. Lunch total - 312 calories.

Other

~ 5-6:00 Ladyfinger banana. (50)
Carton diet apricot yoghurt (84)

1 vege juice box that I found in my handbag while I was hunting for my make up during the drive up. (43)

8 pretzels. 25

9:15 ish 2 C instant coffee with milk. (20) A cherry. (5) A 1 ½ inch mince pie. (I picked the smallest, I could see with the thinnest pastry so I'm guessing (200) cals. A 1 ½ inch mini Christmas pudding. (Hopefully no more than (100) cal – perhaps 70) A 1 ½ inch marshmallow (23?) coated with chocolate truffle mix (probably 80 - (100) calories.) 3 cornchips (35) and dip (someone else's random 'corn” dip – who knows – but based on the 2 recipes I checked, probably 35- (50) cal). Supper at mum's function - 533 calories.

25 gm beef jerky (71) cal

Day's Total: 1569 calories.

Well not great food during that evening. I'm not too concerned though because I'm pretty sure the calories worked out and I didn't feel too hungry or overfull at any stage. I would have preferred to have eaten a light meal before going to the function tonight and then maybe just had one of those sweet items. As it was I regretted the third sweet treat! - especially before I had tried to count the calories, but I didn't really regret the first two.

Exercise: 5:50 30 minute walk. Local park with dog.

More of a token effort and real relaxation than a calorie burner but still very worthwhile just for that! I haven't been to that park in quite a while and I enjoyed noticing that a lot of the gum trees are in flower now. There was a bit of wind too. Just enough to be comfy on a warm day. It was rattling the leaves on the gum trees and soughing in the sheoaks. Very relaxing.

After a while we met my son and his friends on the way back to our house, and they were carrying an unopened packet of chocolates. Nina ran up to them, as she always does, then sat down facing her nose towards the chocolates, as she always will if there is a rattly bag to point at. We spoke and then they went on towards home and I tried to go on in the opposite direction – but nuh. She was not keen. She stopped following them when I told her to, but she didn't actually come with me. Just gave me the old ears back, feet planted look. I didn't really have time for more than 30 minutes anyway!! So home we went.
 
Lol your dog sounds very stubborn, and very cute!!

It sounds like you did well calorie-wise so don't sweat the small step.
What is a gum tree? After reading this, I am kind of wanting to go for a walk!! Lol
 
Good! Go walk!!

You may see some gum trees where you live I think. I guess you guys always call them eucalyptus trees and I expect they originated in Australia. I don't know how diverse the trees are that you see though. Here there are more eucalyptus/gum trees than any other kind of tree and there is a lot of diversity.

I am never all that happy with what I can find when I try to google this. I will try to take some photos of my own.
 
Oh we have lots of eucalyptus trees! In fact my tree house was built amongst two of them when I was little. I love the smell of them :)
 
My dog had a cast iron stomach and anything the came into contact with the floor instantly became her property. I remember one time when she ate a huge bag of Hershey's kisses, complete with tin foil and didn't get sick.
 
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