This is It - I am doing it NOW

Okay, did the water and having a diet ice tea w/ dinner.

Lunch,

spinach salad w/ grilled chicken, red onion, cucumber, sundriied tomatoes, mozz cheese - balsamic vinegarette
a dinner roll w/ butter (( I know, I know) but now i can look back and see the truth here.

snack organic wheat crackers w/ pb - it was the sugar craving.
need to get protien bars.
that is my bad time when I return home from work.

dinner

90%lean burger w/ amer cheese on a whole wheat roll
spinach couscous.

Okay, no more eating for the night.

tomorrow is the gym day.
Thanks all for reading as i know if i was by myself here, probably wouldn't be as good. I know if u r reading this u r probably thinkng Good!!!
Read my Stress Diet above, not too much of a joke here w/ me. lol that's y it cracked me up so much. Crap really got out of hand here.

So, thanks to all! Hopefully will see some movement on the scale but wont dispare if i don't. Will review diet.

Want to have a GREAT workout tomorrow. Can't oversleep. But honestly this morning was kind of easy for me to get up.

I like that money jar - will look into iit for myself.
 
Just stopping by to see how your Wednesday is going. Do you have your meals planned? Remember one day at a time. Heck I take it one meal at a time!!

Traci
 
11/28/07 - Wednesday

Okay, made it through yesterday, w/out a snack after dinner. I know this might mean nothing to some of ya, but I am telling ya between the snack and wine after dinner - probably easily another 1200 calories. Not good right before going to bed!!!

So, woke this morniing and found out I lost 1.5 lbs!!!! So, happy didn't get discourage yesterday when I saw the numbers were up on the scale! or should say I started higher than I thought!!!

I am sure this was do to all the water yesterday. Which remiinds me, let me get my 40oz mug now and fill it up!

Today's Diet

Breakfast
Tea w/ half & half - maybe next week, i'll go to 2%.
3/4 cup Kashi cereal w/ banana
1/3 cup 2 % milk

Lunch
Haven't decided yet as I don't know if I have any healthy food for lunch.
Maybe tuna w/ lettuce.

Snack
Apple
want to buy the protien bars. Have to piick up more whey protien shakes. Eas or Esa can't remember the spelling. did i mention i have AADD lol. No wonder why i can't stick to diets, half the times i forget i am on one!!!

I know I will need something before dinner - maybe more water. Have to get out of the habit of wanting somethiing sweet at that time of day. I've trained my body sooooo bad at that time. Kind of reminds me when my daughter was a baby and would wake up at like 4:00am and we would give her a bottle, so by the time she was 8mos, she was still wakiing up for this bottle!!! We finally had to break the habit. Have to do the same here.

Dinner
Steak
Broccoli & cavatelli

Ah, a good steak, how a love a good cabernet w/ it!!!! Oh wells, aint happening!

Didn't workout this morning, which kind of has me pissed at myself. but now i must make myself go this afternoon. I hate working out at that time, but have no choice!!! Next time get my butt out of bed. Anyone wanna giive me a wakeup call. Kind of surpriised i was tired thiis morning. Oh wells, as long as i go this afternoon and i will.

as for my hubby being supportive, crap yeh. The question is, does he think this time will be any different than the other times. lol, He'll see. Actually haven't even told him. He usually cooks dinner and he actually is a better eater than I am. I like cookiing u know w/ the sauces and butters! He will just steam a head of cauliflower sprinkled w/ a few spices. No butter, no cheese sauce. Funny thing was, I use to be that way. Always used chiicken broth for sauces or flavor. Guess those days r coming back. Again, don't want to go crazy this week w/ denying myself everything, but just want to track my eating habits this week, get back to the gym and then review things next week. Next week will have healthier snacks - again possibly cut out my half &half on my tea and switch to 2% milk. I know I have to get off the sugar cravings - otherwise could end up in big trouble there.

K , let me get that water.
 
Hey loseit -

Thanks for posting in my diary - it helps keep me honest! Dont fret about not making it to the gym this morning. We all have those days. It is called life. You cant always be perfect.

Just do not let one day of missing the gym turn into two, then three, then four etc.

You definitely need to get to the grocery store asap! You need to balance out those meals more. I would be eating every 2.5 to 3 hours and you want a protien, healthy carb, and a veggie at lunch and dinner and fruit for snacks.

HOw is the water today? I am slacking but will reach my goal. I got busy and FORGOT to drink my water. So far I am down 45 onunces and starting on the next 20.

Good luck on the rest of the day.

Traci
 
Okay, made it to the gym, yeh!!!

Went at 4:30pm.

Kind of did my wts. a little different and I will say, felt as if my hr was definitely raised.
Did first set w/ 10 reps - struggled sometimes for the 10 rep depending on exercise
2nd set raised the wt another 5 lbs - Usually made 8 reps
3rd set raised another 5 and pushed to make the 6 reps.


did
chest 3 exercises each
back 3 exercises each
shoulders 3 exercises each
Ran - 3.11 miles in 30 minutes - kind of did interval where i ran for 6.1 rate and then went up to 6.7 back to 6.1, towards the end, pushed it to 7.5 mph.
Had my Hr up to 169, miniimum hr was 150, pushed it.

the wierd thing was that I was tired, thought crap, don't think i will make it. don't know if it is because I don't have as much carbs in me??? Not sure but it is not like me to feel such little energy.

though, screwed up dinner. had the damn wiine, hubby opened a nice bottle!!! Crap!

snack before dinner

wheat crackers w/ pb
had my water 80 oz for the day plus the water w/ my workout.

Dinner
about half pound shell steak,
cavetelli w/ broc, lots of broc
3 4oz glasses of wine!!!

Didn't eat after 8:00. Though had my last glass of wine at 9:30
 
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Feeling Good

Okay, was a little nervous when I woke up this morning and thought, man u r going to pay for that wine!!! But to my surprise, lost 1.5 lbs.
Now, I know that's good, but then I think, okay well maybe I can have wine!

No, ain't going there. The wine isn't bad, it's just usually the chocolate that I like to have w/ my wine.

The other thing was last night, imo, had too much pasta. Probably had twice the portion that I should of.

Okay, heard a new study today on the radio which makes absolutely no sense.

Are you sitting down for this one, well if u r, u better stand up. According to some scientist today, the enzyme that burns fat is not working when u are sitting down!!! Come on, what gives?

Anyway, happy about the weight loss! Now, today, going to really try and be good. Feeling a little fatigued on the muscles, not as much, since I did work them out about 10 days ago. You know where I always get myself, is the damn flys. The machine u sit in, not so bad. But then I lay down on the bench and hold my arms straight out on my side and don't bend when coming up! When I did that one about 10 days ago, the tear right above your boob toward your armpit, oh man, what pain. Could barely put on a coat, forget about back hooking bras!!! Thank God for front hooking bras.

Anyway, feel good.

Breakfast:

42gram protien shake - like these EAS myoplex creamy chocolate.

Lunch:
Broc & pasta
rest of my steak

Snack
maybe I will run to the store and pick up fruit. That's my tough time.

Dinner
Spinach salad w/ grilled chicken.

Continue to drink my water.

hey Geam, RP, Mal & Traci, thanks for the posts.
Do u guys have diaries? I know u do Traci.

RP, when's the knee surgery, soon, right?
 
WTG on the 1.5 lbs lost. Just dont make a habit of the extra pasta and enjoying wine. That will catch up to you!!

Also how many meals a day are you eating? You need to have at least 5 but should get in six. For your snacks here is a suggestion:

Cottage Cheese and LF yogurt
Natural PB and Celery
String Cheese (LF) and a fruit like an apple

You need to balance out with a protien and a carb and try to incorporate some veggies and fruit.

Each day gets easier right??

T
 
Drank my water, up to about 65 ozs and the day ain't over yet!

Gees, will say, my body is sorer than I expected. Maybe there is something to the HIIT. Not saying I hit it the way they say. But my hr was up to almost 170. The other thing was must of not had enough carbs in me, because it felt tough, right from the getgo! Didn't really allow a warmup, had someone next to me that was running strong and wanted to equal him. Damn sometimes tooooo competitive that way. But also, for me, who use to run 7 minute miles, tough for me to see the treadmill above 10 min miles, even that, to me, sounds soooo slow.

Had my protien shake from 7:00 am - 9:45 am. I don't drink it all at once. It's about 24 ozs, and it is real thick. Really do love 'em. If I had a blender at work, I'd mix one up for the afternoon snack.

I think the shoulder exercises hit my bi's & tri's, they even feel a little tight this morning in a good way of course.

U know this diary stuff really does help u to stay focus and realize what you eat and how much!
All the support helps too! Thanks again Traci.

Maggie.
 
Hey Maggie,

Sounds like you are going great - congratulations.

I don't know if I could ever get up at 3.30am to exercise though - I am generally up between 5.15 - 5.45am and out there walking with my dogs and that's way early enough for me.

And I understand the love for the protein shake - that's what I normally have for breakfast and I love it. In fact - about to have one in a minute.

I am sure at this rate you will meet your goals in no time,

Best wishes,

Frankie
 
11/30/07 - had an oops

Okay, as usual breakfast, lunch, right up until dinner is fine.

My problem is the emotional eating when I get home. Struggling here.
Last night, I know it was due to my business venture which isn't doing so well. So, as I sat there w/ no customers, yep, consumed some not so good stuff. Popcorn. I mean as I was doing it, I knew what I was doing. Then when I got home wasn't sooo good either. Everyone had already went upstairs to bed and I felt blue about the biz still, and that I blew it. So, yeh, had two glasses of wine & the small bag of m&m's from my kids halloween bag. Shit, same damn habit. I really have to figure how to release these feelings. Okay, not going to beat myself up here tooo much as it wont help me. Need to release these emotions otherwise, I will definitely struggle w/ my life change.

Couldn't bare to get on the scale this morning. Figured I didn't need to kick myself when I am down.

But, since I fell off, will get back today. Have my gym clothes and will go after work. Told ya, hate going in the evening, but not going to get discouraged and let old habits take me over. Yeh, anyone know a good therapist. lol. Honestly, I thinkthat is the reason for sooooo many of us that are overweight in our society. We have learned to use food as a drug to soothe us.
I am being very open and honest here and man, hope it doesn't come back to bite me in the arse or if it does, the arse is small at that time.

Now to me, that would be a good trainer, one that yeh knows about nutrition/exercise/ but also psychological - emotional sport therapist.

Well, have my protien shake. Will have my water.
 
Maggie,

First I am sending you some hugs. Second lets address the emotional eating.

Where does that eating junk food late at night get you? Even more depressed and down about it. You defnitely need to find a way to handle your stress OTHER than food. You have to break that habit. I am not a stress or emotional eater so to speak so I cant give you the best advice in that department.

But I can try to help ya along. When you feel you need to eat junk, why not jump on here if your at home and look at the before and after pictures. Read some post. If you can't do that, just grab something healthy to eat. Have some rice cakes at hand, or some of those 100 calorie packs that taste good but are still not as bad as if you were eating M&M's. And steer clear of that wine!!

Just remember - stuffing yourself with junk is not going to get you anywhere. It is going to make you even more upset that you gave into temptiation. We are here to break those habits and to lead a healthier lifestyle. GIRL I know you can do it!! Maybe some vets will have better advice for you.

OR another suggestion - take a before picture of yourself in your undies and bra. Post that around your kitchen. When your tempted to eat junk - you will have a constant reminder of why your doing this. OR post up pictures of WHERE YOU WANT TO BE and post those up so you can see what your working towards.

Come on chicky! WE CAN DO THIS!

Traci:grouphug:
 
Hey Maggie,

Congrats on picking yourself up and carrying on. I hope the gym was good, and bet you felt better. At least you only had one small packet of mandms. I am an emotional eater as well, but I don't reach for sweets, I reach for carbs. Mmmmmm mashed potato..... So that has been my focus. And like you, when I do stuuf up (like last night with my wine with dinner) I just get back into the good routine the next day.

Please don't beat yourself up, and hugs to you on your work stress, I hope things get better.

Frankie
 
New Week, New Day

12/3/07 -
thanks Frankie. Yep, trying to get over the beat yourself up thing. But also want to be honest here and not allow myself to just say, "it's okay, there is always tomorrow, cause I've definitely been doing that for quite a few years. :willy_nilly::willy_nilly::willy_nilly: That's me, all those years.

Okay, last week was a good week for me. Maybe not necessarily iin the department of diet, but life change and evaluation of me and my eating patterns. Wt loss ended w/ 2 lbs down. But really was very aware of my emotional eating. Not saying I conquered it in a week, but at least there were times, where i knew why I was eating as I was eating. So, now I need a switch for this. The good thing is I didn't beat myself up over it, which is a first.

Weekend was tough w/ the water and food. Not sure I ate anything healthy or unhealthy. Well, part of a spinach salad. Honestly didn't have it mapped out in regard to a eating plan and man, makes a big difference. I did start of Saturday getting my bottle out to make a shake but I had to award ceremonies for soccer, my daugher had a cheerleading game, I had to run to the biz iin btw all of this, never was able to make my shake or get to my water.
Literally, up at 7:30, did some things around the house, then ran to pick up my daugher & friend at a friend's house to bring them to the awards at 9:30am, the awards were over at about 10:50, ran home to get stuff for the biz, back from biz, arrived late to the cheerleading game, at 12:15, stayed there, bs w/ parents afterwards, arrived home at about 2:00pm. Had 3 of my daughter's friends come back to the house, made them lunch. It is now close to 3:00pm and finiished laundry, only to round them all up and bring them back to the second award ceremony at 4:30. Then off to the biz, arrived there by 6:20pm. Didn't leave there until 10:15pm. Never ate properly and had nowhere near the level of water. Diet wasn't overeating but just not healthy or planned.

Sunday, was not too much better. Took the kids sledding. We were out there for about 2 hours. It was a ton of fun. They were snowboarding in their sleds. Can't wait to see 'em ski this yr. Though, better drop a few pounds otherwise if i go down, might be for a while before I can get my fat arse up. lol
Okay, back to the diet thing here. I have to stay focused and plan. Yikes!
Actually need to go get the water right now.
 
That sounds like a fabulous weekend, and considering all the places/ events you had to go to, it seems like you handled it really well.

The sledding sounds like awesome fun - it has been ages since I have been to the snow. Maybe next year.

Good luck for this week!

Frankie
 
Hi Maggie-

I just wanted to check in on and see how today was. I hope you had a great Tuesday. Have you planned out your meals for the week? What is that scale saying these days?

Are you staying away from that wine you love so much? hehehhehe

Sending hugs
Traci:grouphug:
 
Thanks Frankie & Traci,

Today was a great day.

Breakfast
24 oz protien shake 42g P,24g C, 2g F 280 cals
20oz 2 /% milk 24gP, 36g C, 15g F 390 Calories
40 oz of water

Lunch
6 oz of grilled chicken 27g P, 11g C, 11g F 250cals
2/3 cup of wild rice w/ string beans

snack
Protien shake 42g P,24g C, 2g F 670 cals w/ milk

Dinner
6 oz grilled chicken 27g P, 11g C, 11g F 250
2/3 cup whole wheat pasta - 28g P, 18g C, 1g F 160
1/3 cup veggies 3 p, 10g C, 2g F 60 calories

Total P/C/F & Cals for the day protien 175g P, 134 C, 44g F cals 2060

I am going to ask one of these guys/gals "experts" about my ratios. My cal expenditure should be 2085 for my ht & wt.

Workout

Hiit - Warmed up at 6.0 for 5 minutes, then did 1 minute at 6.8, 2 mins at 6.1, alternated that to up to 25 minutes. Kicked my arse. Very surprised, but then I realiized that I hadn't any carbs in me. Need more carbs.

Had another 32oz of water.

So, yeh, a good day.

Oh & NO Wine. LOL Going to replace it w/ my workouts.
 
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Good Morning All,

wt today, 170. Happy w/ that especially after my weekend.

Breakfast
1 cup kshi cereal 3g F, 36g C, 9g P 190 cals
1/2 cup 2% milk
1/2 banana
1/2 cup tea w/ 2% milk

Snack
1 protien shake

Lunch

1 cup brown rice
1 cup cabbage w/ hamburger meat in a red sauce.
 
I found this in a thread by Tomo and want it here to refer to it.

Calculating your maintenance calories

There are two important concepts here: BMR (basic metabolic rate) and NAMR (normal activity metabolic rate). Your basic metabolic rate is the rate at which you burn calories by just living. This is an important number, because it will account for most of your calorie expenditure. There are many calculators online for BMR, and here is one I use:

BMR Calculator.

Use any one you like; they all have pretty much the same formula, and just because you have your BMR, doesn't mean you're done! The real challenge is to calculate your NAMR, i.e. the calories you expend every day doing what you do normally, without exercise. A lot of calculations take your BMR and use a multiplier for the level of activity you have. A good example of this is the Harris Benedict Equation. The problem is, as you can see if you look at this link, it includes your exercise activity.

What I do is this: I take my BMR and use the "sedentary" multiplier of 1.2. In my case, my BMR is 2,059 calories. Using the multiplier of 1.2, I get 2,471 calories. Since I have a sedentary job, this is just about right for me. However, if you have a job that requires a lot of walking, e.g. a school teacher, you would probably bump up this number a bit. My wife walks around 5 miles a day in her job as a teacher, so I would multiply her BMR by 1.2, and then add another 500 calories to that.

Now we want to get a weekly NAMR, so we multiply 2,471 calories x 7, which is 17,297 calories a week.

Next step: calculating your exercise calories. The best way to do this is with a heart rate monitor. Polar makes one that will also measure your calories, based on your heart rate, for around $80 US. It's much more accurate than the machines. If you can't get an HR monitor, then you'll have to use online tables or the machines. Just keep in mind that machines typically overestimate calorie expenditure, except in the case of heavy interval or HIIT cardio, in which case they typically underestimate it.

The key here is to get your average exercise calorie expenditure per week. For me, a typical week looks like this:
Day 1: HIIT Cardio, 600 calories
Day 2: Weight Training, 550 calories
Day 3: Interval Cardio, 1000 calories
Day 4: rest
Day 5: Weight Training, 550 calories
Day 6: Interval Cardio, 1000 calories
Day 7: HIIT Cardio, 600 calories
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Total: 4,300 calories

Now I have my weekly calorie expenditure: 21,597 calories per week.
This gives me a daily maintenance expenditure of 3,085 calories. In other words, if I consume about 3,000 calories a day, and keep exercising the way I do, I won't lose weight and I won't gain weight.

Since I want to lose weight, but not lean muscle mass, I want to set the right calorie deficit level. For this, I use body fat percentage.

Calculating your Body Fat Percentage

I think this is one of the most critical components of your plan. Forget about BMI, which is just a convenient index for insurance companies, and one that will penalize you severely for holding onto your muscle. (I'll give you an example of this later). Short of immersing yourself in a tank of water and paying for a scientific test at a lab, there are many less exact ways to do it.

One way that is a complete waste of time is buying a scale that measures body fat. These scales work by sending a light current through your legs. If you are male, and don't have a lot of fat on your legs, you will appear to be totally ripped. Another way is to get a cheap pair of plastic calipers online, and measure your skinfolds. This works well if you are consistent. I've actually found that the handheld devices give me a fairly accurate reading.

The key here is that you'll have to find a method that works for you, and then stick with it.

Once you know your body fat percentage, you can use it to calculate two important things: your "ideal" calorie deficit, and your target weight.

Currently, my body fat percentage is 25.8%. Not good, I know, but that's what it is. From this, I can get my lean body mass and my fat body mass, using my current weight of 237 lbs.
Lean Body Mass = 237 x (1 - 0.258) = 176 lbs.
Fat Body Mass = 237 * 0.258 = 61 lbs.

My formula for a safe deficit: 10 calories per pound of fat body mass. In my case, this would be 61 x 10, or 610 calories. In other words, if I set my average daily deficit at 610 calories, this will give me a healthy rate of weight loss that does not cut into my lean muscle mass, and one that especially doesn't trigger the "starvation" response in my metabolism.

This formula scales well, too. As you get closer to your target weight, your deficit will have to go down a bit; if you are really obese, it allows you to set a much higher deficit level, at least in the beginning.

Calculating your "Ideal" Weight

As I said, forget about BMI. Instead, use your Lean Body Mass (LBM) and your Target Body Fat Percentage (TBFP). My goal is to get to 12% body fat. (If I were a woman, this would be higher, of course) The reciprocal of this is my Target Lean Mass Percentage (TLMP). In my case, this is 88%. My target weight is my current lean body mass (LBM), divided by TLMP:
LBM/TLMP = 176 lbs. / 88% = 200 lbs.

I think you would agree that a 58 year old, 6 foot, male with 12% body fat would be pretty darned good, right? Well take a look at the BMI for this: it's 27.1, right in the middle of the "overweight" category. This is a good example of how worthless BMI is in setting your goal, and how silly it is for anyone who has any muscle mass whatsoever.

Fine-Tuning As You Progress

One of the reasons I go to all the trouble of getting these calculations is that they're good measures to have as you go along. For example, I change my Normal Activity Metabolic Rate into a rate per pound, which in my case is calculated as:
NAMR / Weight = 2,471 / 237 = 10.4 calories per pound. This is important, because as you lose weight, you have to adjust your NAMR. For example, when I weighed 270 lbs., my NAMR was 2,808 calories per day; when I am at my target weight, my NAMR will be 2,080 calories a day, a difference of 728 calories a day!

This, by the way, is one of the reasons people "plateau." They forget to adjust their NAMR after they've lost 20 or 30 pounds, and the difference of 300 calories a day, which comes to 3 pounds a month, causes them to maintain rather than lose weight.
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I think my BF must be high! I know one time I tried to figure it out w/ measureements, but I have a feeling it is about 40%, could it be?

Using his calculations:

say lean mas at 80% and back into my numbers.
If I say my BF is 35. 171 * .38 = 65lbs
lbm would be 111
LBM/TLMP = 111lbs. / .82% = 135 lbs - see I have weighed 135 and could show u a pic and definitely had more than 18% BF, so this would mean my 35%BF number is probably higher, like 37
If I say my BF is 35. 171 * .38 = 65lbs
lbm would be 106
LBM/TLMP = 106lbs. / .82% = 129 lbs - yep, sounds like I am 38% BF.

Yesterday, screwed up a little and didn't even realize it. Was great all day and night. Then I started cleaning carpets, machine was broke and I wouldn't give up in regard to fixing it. Yes, I did. Had to do w/ the water pump. don't ask. Anyway, did at least one carpet and hallway. At this point it was late and decided to do some paperwork. Okay, let me sit and relax a while, sat down w/ a glass of wine and two cookies. Not even realizing what I did. I was sooooo pissed. U have no idea. Thought, go to the gym now. Don't be nuts, it's after 12 and u have to be up early.

Then I stopped myself and said u know what. Okay, u realize now u have to stay focused. Can't fall into old patterns. Back today. look this is the best I have ate probably in about, uh, 3/4 years. I don't know if it was because I was tired, or what. Couldn't believe I did that.

Breakfast
2 cup of teas w/ half & half
Protien shake

lunch
1 1/3 cup whole wheat pasta w/ veggies
Olive oil & garlic
 
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