The Tyranny of the Bathroom Scale/ Why People Give Up Exercising

I have been on a slow gradual weight loss program for almost 9 months now. I run 20-25 miles per week and do a few free weights as well. For the most part, I have achieved my goal, having gone from 175 pounds down to 145, basically losing around one pound a week using about a 500 calorie per day deficit. As you can imagine, progress seemed painfully slow at times but I convinced myself that this was the best way to achieve permanent weight loss. I also lowered my blood pressure, raised my HDL and lowered my LDL.

Last weekend I travelled to a family wedding and didn't exercise for three days. My calorie intake was higher than usual though nothing particularly excessive, and my alcohol intake was definitely higher. Imagine my shock when I stepped on my bathroom scale the first morning back home and found I had gained five pounds! I was shocked to say the least. How could I gain in three days the weight that took me 5-7 weeks to lose?

I went back to my usual exercise and nutrition regimen and a week later my weight had returned to what it was prior to my three day holiday. My theory for this was my higher than usual sodium intake during my break. This caused my body to retain water and artificially inflate my weight reading. I can easily see how something like this might cause many people to throw their hands in the air and abandon their fitness and nutrition programs. I didn't because I have seen this sort of thing before and I firmly believe in the general rule that it takes 3500 extra calories to make a pound of fat.

Maybe its time to stay away from that bathroom scale, at least after deviating from your usual habits for a few days. I am a 51 year old who has learned his lessons about fitness and nutrition through decades of trial and error. If I was a beginner at this it is quite likely I may have given up my healthy ways. I hope my example can be of some benefit to someone who is struggling to get slimmer and healthier. Don't let one weekend torpedo your goals.
 
the last time i weighed myself, i was 16. i've had no desire to do so since then.

i look really great. so, numbers (including inches, sizes, etc) are irrelevant to me.

also, i eat a high sodium & high carb diet (i teach group fitness classes...gotta have lots of carbs for that ish. i sweat every day. so, salt isn't an issue for me, either. ... & 1 gram of protein per pound of lean mass & a bit of fats for hormonal reasons/etc). so, i'm always retaining a ton of water/in a constant state of bloat. it always goes down whilst i'm sleeping. but before i go to sleep, i look like a bloated mess; makes me lol & "o__O" every time.

if you're still @ the beginning of your body recomposition journey (i.e.: fat loss & muscle gain), then the scale # can be a good way to make & then achieve little goals for yourself to keep you feeling confident, happy, etc. but even still, i'd use inch/measurements/sizes goals. water weight doesn't affect those goals as much as it does w/ the scale # goals.
 
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dutching kicking aas steps on a scale ver7yday and she is doin great.

I dont; and I think it is risky, but she is doin well.

FF
 
I found this particularly interesting to read as I have found from a very young age that I am a perfectionist.
When I first started my weight loss endevour I didn't want to look at the scales at all as I found it too depressing stepping on and seeing 103kgs @ only 5"7. Since I have started it has been some time and I'm now down to 80kgs (was the last time i tried the bathroom scales 2 weeks ago). I have started a whole new fitness circuit as of last week because my motivational overdrive kicked in once again and I decided I want to jump from 80kgs down to 77 without seeing the 79/78 coming up. I don't know why I think like this but I just want to see the improvements in chunks and not in weekly loss as it feels like im weighing myself too frequently and may become tired of the slow progress.

Just like you 5OSI I had a big night on the sauce one weekend and looked at the scales and saw that I had put on 1.5kgs and was completely devistated by it, funny enough by the end of the week my body was back in my fitness sync and my weight was were it should have been + maybe half a pound.
 
Everybody has his/her own preferences. If it makes you feel bad to see fluctuations in weight, you shouln't weigh yourself frequently. I am used to stepping on the scales daily and the fluctuations don't affect my mood. Than, I simply like to measure, I also keep track of my exercises for the fun of it.
 
Everybody has his/her own preferences. If it makes you feel bad to see fluctuations in weight, you shouln't weigh yourself frequently. I am used to stepping on the scales daily and the fluctuations don't affect my mood. Than, I simply like to measure, I also keep track of my exercises for the fun of it.

yeah I agree.

To the OP: But I would suggest if it is something that bothers you then don't step on that scale. Give yourself a bit of time between weighing if you feel you even have to weight yourself.

I don't like scales, I consider them a secondary source. I prefer to go by my shape more than my weight. I've said it many times before, you can be 130 lbs and look like a blob, or you can be 130 lbs and look like a body builder. Basically it comes down to what you look like not how much you weight......
 
S-C-A-L-E is really a 4-letter word with a silent E on the end ;)

I use one.. not religiously, but as a measuring progress tool. I don't live and die by it and I certainly don't wrap my head in the numbers because as Dutchy and NoLove mentioned - they (numbers) can be deceiving.

Once a month is all I do and it's only because the nurse @ the doctor's office tells me to step up.. HA!!

If you still need numbers to chart progress, use a tape measure instead. Inches add up too ;)
 
My scale is right where it should be: in the trashcan. I think it's now buried deep in the earth somewhere by now. Maybe an ant is using it.
 
I weigh in every now and then, but try not to get too fanatical about it.

Technically I hop on the ol' scale every Friday, but that is because my wife and I are having a fun little contest.

There are cooler things to obsess over. Best of luck!

Dave
 
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