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Well I figured I'd start a journal to keep myself honest.

First some details/history.

I am a late 20's M 5-8.5 and weigh 225. With the muscle mass I have I will be satisfied at 190-195ish.

History:
I slowly put on weight through college until August 2006 when a couple of things made me decide to change. 1st I saw a picture of myself in Hawaii with a tank top on and it was not good. 2nd I was unable to go skydiving because of my weight. Sounds little but it was the first time I hadn't been able to do something because I was too fat. At the time I was close to 230.

I went through a long spell where I was working from home (I travel a lot) and used that time to join a gym and eat right. I tend to be a binger (can be good or bad) meaning that I will commit to something and really go all out for a period of time. From August to mid-November I got down to 200 pounds through the basics eating better and working out. I really got into decent shape through a lot of intense 1.5-2 hour workouts 4-6 times per week.

Holidays rolled around and I did pretty good, maybe put a few pounds back on. Then I got lazy and dropped my workouts to 2 times per week and started eating the old way. I am now back up to 225. Good news is that I'm still working out enough that I'm in pretty decent shape and can still hit a workout pretty hard. While much of my weight is back, I am much healthier and still 2-3 inches smaller on my waist than I was 14 months ago.

Challenges I face
1. I can be very lazy
2. My wife is pregnant and is tired a lot, which sort of discourages me from hitting the gym hard myself
3. My job requires a lot of travel, eating well and exercising on the road is incredibly difficult. Try ordering that chicken salad instead of the Seafood Chowder and Filet Mignon on expense account.
4. My body type will never be "skinny". I seem to have a choice of being fat or really muscular (not horrible).
5. I don't cook virtually at all. This makes eating healthy more difficult. My wife cooks dinners and overall cooks balanced pretty healthy meals which is great.
6. I have great discipline at the grocery store and no discipline eating at home. I tend to overeat even the healthy dinners. If my wife ever buys snack foods I'll find myself finishing it quickly.


Things In My Favor
1. When at home I have a ton of flexibility. I can really hit the gym hard from 9-11AM which is a time I am motivated and have a ton of energy.
2. I am a young healthy guy and when committed can lose pounds which helps with motivation.
3. I have a membership at a good gym and feel good about my workouts when I try.
4. I am not that concerned with weight figures, more concerned with look of body, fit of clothes etc.
5. If I keep bad food out of the house, I can eat well and not suffer from ridiculous cravings. I can go forever without sugar or desserts as long as there is not a chocolate cake sitting on the counter or anything.
 
Diary Entry Oct 9th

Yesterday October 9th went well.

Food
Breakfast: Slim Fast Low Carb Shake (this is the only breakfast I have ever been able to make myself consistently do, seems to work). Note I am not on a low carb diet, but the sugar in the regular shakes seems silly.

Lunch: Apple and Muscle Milk Light (basically a moderate calorie protein shake)

Dinner: Great fresh stirfry (no rice) consisting of mushrooms, tofu, fresh broccoli, baby corn, and some shrimp. Moderate decent stir fry sauce.

After Dinner: Some fat free no sugar chocolate pudding

Total for day, estimated 1500-1700 calories

Food Notes
Probably screwed up a couple of things
Total Calories was probably a bit low but not horrible.
I felt a little light on the carbs. Did great consuming low fat and high protein though.
Baby corn is great, super low calorie compared to regular corn.

Exercise
Had a good hard gym workout today about 90 minutes. Did my typical routine which is.
1. Stretch
2. 2 sets of core exercises, abs, obliques, then lower back
3. 20 minutes aerobic (normally HR from 150-165 throughout) - this time it was the Cybex machine which is like the elliptical from hell (much more arm exercise)
4. Weights (I sort of do moderate intensity weights covering all major muscles). Combination of machines and free weights.
5. 20 minutes aerobic - pretty tired by this point. Alternate 2 minutes of walking at 4, 1 minute of running at 7.5 or 8.

Lingering questions
1. I work out at 9 or 10 AM, really hard for me to tell how much to eat prior to going. I normally only have a slim fast shake in the morning. My goal is to lose weight, not bulk up, but sometimes I feel as if I am short on fuel for a hard workout.

2. I really like to take dry sauna after a hard workout. I sweat a tremendous amount while I work out. If I am drinking a lot of water while I work out is it dangerous to sweat another 20 minutes in the dry sauna after sweating hard for 90 minutes?
 
Question about meal times

Following is one of my biggest challengs. Anybody deal with something similar?

My wife and I are on VERY different sleep patterns. She wakes up at 430AM to be at work by 6. I generally wake up at 830ish and don't go to bed until Midnight or 1AM.

Because of my wife's schedule, pickier stomach, and the fact that she does all the cooking, she is generally ready for dinner at 5:30ish.

This is all well and good until 10 or 11pm when I am famished and this tends to be my worst binge eating.

Anyway I know the answer is probably to eat a snack or 4th small meal at 9ish or something. This just tough and my biggest downfall. I think I can make it till I go to bed then I end up polishing off a stack of crackers and half a thing of peanut butter!
 
eating at night isn't a bad thing - just make the calories work within your daily plan... budget for them... and you'll be fine...
 
Oct 10th

Diary Entry Oct 10th

General Comments
Good day, ate well and exercised. Tomorrow I fly to LA which poses lots of challenges. I am taking clients out to lunch. I will also have to avoid my most favority hotel food which is chinese delivery. If I can do this and work out at the hotel it will be a success.

Food
Breakfast: Slim Fast Low Carb
Lunch: Chipotle Chicken Salad (no dressing), extra salsa 600 cal total
Dinner: Spaghetti with lean ground beef, whole wheat noodles, and green beans, one slice of garlic bread.
Total: About 1500 calories

Exercise
Full complement
Core work - abs, back, and obliques
20 min on stairmaster (that kicks my butt!)
25 min of weights
20 min on elliptical at constant HR
 
Hi RC! :)

My name's Valerie, and I feel exactly the same as you when it comes to food....pretty much been a binger since puberty, wtf is up with that? Anyway, I can't even have snack food in my house, and it's a struggle everyday to keep under 2000 calories.....um, but yeah, I'm admittedly not overweight, probably since I'm an exercise maniac. Still I was for a few years, off and on. Either way, I completely feel everybody on here in their struggles to maintain or lose weight, and my body "likes" to pack on fat as often as possible.

Your questions are tricky--you may want to pop into Steve's diary for assistance on the "Lingering Questions"...

And hell yeah it's hard to follow a plan!!!

Anyway, best luck to you, stick around, this place is great!
 
Entry Oct 11

General Comments
I am travelling today, uh oh. Travelling wears me down so much both physically and mentally. Plus being on expense account doesn't help. Today I did just OK, better than my usual horrible travel days but not great either. Didn't get in a good workout, was just too exhausted and had too much work to do in the hotel. Ate good compared to normal travel days, bad compared to home days.

Food
Breakfast: Slimfast on way to airport

Lunch: Took clients out to lunch at a nice restaurant. Had tableside guac (OMG!) and an Asian Chicken Salad that probably wasn't as healthy as it seemed on the menu. Still decent though. I bought 3 salads, 2 cokes, and one appetizer total cost: $84!

Dinner: Bad bad bad. First the good news. After a long day on the road I frequently used to order a loaded medium pizza and polish off the whole thing in the hotel. This time I was a little bit better and had some Thai food with noodles, chicken and veggies.

Exercise
A little bit of jogging and pushups in my room, but nothing worthy of note.
 
Entry Oct 12

General Comments
This day was doomed from the start. Early meetings, quick trip to the airport, not arriving back home until 9pm. No exercise but I did eat a bit better than normal road days. Flew first class on the way home which was great in most ways, but I cannot pass up free wine after a long day:(

Food
Breakfast: Banana (awesome job here, passed up the amazing muffins in the executive lounge)

Lunch: Been craving sushi, feels so light and healthy, but I love it. Found a place on my way to the airport and had a spicy tuna roll and a yellowtail role with some edamame.

Dinner: Salmon and some kind of noodle cake thing on the plane with a warm cookie. Salmon had some kind of sauce so probably wasn't great. But portion size was reasonable so pretty decent here as well.
 
Entry October 13th

General Comments
Confession time. I guess these diaries are of no good if I ignore the bad. I am horrible at weekends, no other way to look at it. I have this trap where if I start to eat bad I just say "screw it" and the whole day is shot. Knew I had no shot for a good workout today, very busy, and ate horrible.

Food
I'm probably leaving stuff off

Breakfast: My pregnant wife was craving cinnamon rolls, ouch! Here's where I have no control. There's 3 fresh hot cinnamon rolls that have been baked. I could eat one, but I don't, I eat them all. Kryptonite.

Lunch: Taco bell on the way out to party another no-no

Dinner: Had a bonfire party with some friends so just ate a lot spread out over many hours. Had a hot dog, a smore, some brownies, some chips.

Exercise
No formal workout but greatly exceeded my normal activity load for the day. Had to do a lot of bonfire setup, including hauling a bunch of cinderblocks to make a fire pit, and other general labor stuff for probably 2 hours. Also got in a game of kickball.
 
Oct 14th

General Comments
Trying to hit the trifecta of weakness in the last 3 days (travel, weekends, and leftover party food). Biggest problem today was business and recovering from a very long day on Saturday. Had to spend almost 8 total hours at church also which cut into any time for anything else. We still have so much leftover party food. Choices are to throw it away or eat until it is gone? Not good choices.

Food
Breakfast: Krispy Kreme at church - came soooo close to passing up but was starved, should have eaten a big healthy breakfast before leaving but had no time.

Lunch:
We have tons of leftovers from yesterday. Notably hot-dogs and smores stuff. Had hotdogs and turkey chili for lunch. Not great at all.

Dinner:
More hotdogs and smores. Bad bad bad!

Exercise:
Does a 90 minute nap count as exercise?
 
Weekly Summary Oct 8-14

Weigh in Oct 15
Scale showed 220 this AM, down 7 from last week. Encouraging progress despite a horrible weekend.

General Evaluation
Mixed bag this week. Had some really good hard workouts and some great eating days along with a couple of what I call "give up days" where things get so out of hand that I give up on the day. Definately feel a bit skinnier even after just a week.

Goals for Upcoming Week
I want to have 3 "perfect" days to start the week (M-W) with good long gym workouts and healthy eating (still have to solve the party leftover problem in the kitchen). Travelling wed night and all day thursday. Will be happy with decent eating will not have a chance to workout. Hopefully Friday when I'm back in town I can have one more excellent day and do better going into next weekend.
 
Breakfast: My pregnant wife was craving cinnamon rolls, ouch! Here's where I have no control. There's 3 fresh hot cinnamon rolls that have been baked. I could eat one, but I don't, I eat them all. Kryptonite.
Sympathetic pregnancy cravings? I hope you left one for her...
 
Sympathetic pregnancy cravings? I hope you left one for her...

lol, she started it:) the hardest part of her pregnancy is her eating less and always trying to give me her leftovers. I am not good at saying no to those:confused:

And if any of you have some magical brain blocker that allows you to wake up on a Saturday morning to the smell of freshly baked gooey cinnamon rolls and pass up you need to send it to me.
 
if cinnamon is the smel you crave -have something you can eat - there's a recipe posted in the recipes section that might fill your need...

Or just plain old cinnamon toast...
 
Wow--SEVEN pounds! Figures, since you were recording 1500 cal days. Glad you stuck on here! A la Stacy, "Have a goal reachin' day!" :D
 
Entry Oct 15

General Comments
I was encouraged by losing 7 pounds last week in my first "on" week despite travel and a crappy weekend. We'll see what happens this week and if I suffer any consequences from 2 days of poor eating this weekend.

Monday was almost a perfect day. I say almost because I fell to chocolate temptation last night. We have a giant bag of leftover hershey's mini candy bars. They are sitting on the kitchen counter. They called my name....come to me.....come to me. I ended up eating 5 ouch. Since there's still a bunch left I have to either throw them away or have my wife hide them.

Other than that snafu I had a awesome 90 minute hardcore workout, and ate something like 1400 calories other than the chocolate. So probably 1800-2000 including the chocolate.

Food
Breakfast: Slimfast

Lunch: Apple and Muscle Milk Light

Dinner: Tuna pasta helper (no butter, good job me)

Bad Judgement: 5 mini chocolate bars

Exercise
35 minutes on cybex
30-40 minutes weights and core
1 mile alternate walk and sprint
 
Chocolate is great, you still had a deficit, good for you! You're a super star with this weight loss regime, keep it up, we like hearing about it :)
 
Ongoing problem

I have a real ongoing problem with dinner.

When I work out and eat very good for breakfast and lunch I tend to be very hungry for dinner at 5-6ish. This works out well because this is when my wife likes to eat dinner.

Problem is then if I eat "normal" portions for that dinner I am insanely hungry again at 8-9 (I don't go to bed till midnight or later). Then I tend to turn to snack food because I don't want to eat another full meal. But often these snacks are worse than a balanced meal.

I assume it is better to eat a 4th meal/healthy snack than to overeat dinner. But it is hard to get into making another healthy small meal or snack.
Alternately I could eat a snack at 4-5 and eat a late dinner. But this doesn't really work with my wife, hence the problem.
 
I understand. I'm usually working out at 5-6:30 or so, so I have a late dinner and it helps me from snacking.

Total calories overall is what matters; however, the body's ability to process carbohydrates slows with the end of the day. If you're hungry, have a high protein (body uses more calories to digest protein than enything else) snack like turkey breast or tofu. Protein supposedly quells hunger, too.
 
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