The first day of a difficult journey

regko

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Hi my name is Regina, I'm 61 years old, mom of two, with one grandaughter- currently all living with me and my husband at this time. I really did not want to start this journey, with all of the stress in my life and health problems it seemed like a hopeless journey to start but i imagine there will always be stress of some sort in my life. I am currently 225 pounds and about 5'4 (I use to be around 5'6 gotta love aging), i have hypothyroidism and type 2 diabetes, as well as chronic back pains and what seems to be the start of arthritis. Due to my pain, i rarely get enough sleep- which is when most of the snacking occurs unfortunately. My poor grandaugher has also been dragged into this lifestyle and is overweight, so I am hoping that the changes will help her as well. My youngest daughter has been begging me to lose weight and she believes it might help with the pains in my knee and my back. She outlined a diet plan for me and introduced me to this site where i am hoping to get some support and give some as well (although that i will admit i am not too computer savy and have required her help throughout the day in setting this up). I feel a little silly and a bit too old to be doing this but there are many inspirational stories on here.

When i was younger, i was always very skinny, probably 120 pounds or so, i was very active and played sports although i never worried about my weight or any particular diet. I grew up very very poor and with four siblings, my mom dieing when i was 15 and my dad an alcoholic. When i got older and married my husband, shopping for food always made me feel secure, my daughter calls me and my husband minor food hoarders and our freezer and fridge always tends to be packed to the max. I have tried a diet recently and lost 10 pounds in about three months or so but i was very frustrated and i was expecting to lose more. I also cannot exercise due to my back and knee pains but i guess my goal for now would be 180 pounds or so. Any advice or tips would be much appreciated.
Thanks for listening!
 
Hi regina, welcome to the forum, I don't think we ever get to old to start living a healthy lifestyle. As far as the computer skills, you will learn, so don't feel silly. I turn 63 tomorrow and I believe there is at least one more member on here, 60 or in their 60's.
 
regko!!

*big hugs*

You've made a great first step coming on here :) You seem like you have a wonderful supportive daughter, that really wants to see you succeed! And you've joined a community that wants to help you research your goals! We'll be here to encourage you, motivate you, and add cute little smiley faces to our posts to cheer you up :) :) :) :)

You sound like you live a very busy life, with a lot of stress- you also sound like you're a very caring and giving person, which sometimes leads you to put yourself last. My life is not nearly as stressful as yours, but we all have some stress in our lives. I have found with my choice to take this on that it's actually one of the few things I have control over in my life! I can choose my diet, and I can choose my exercising. And when I combine them, and accomplish my goals- i feel great!

You're daughter is right about the benefits of losing weight. Weight loss will help decrease the pressure on your joints, which will in turn ease some of the pain in your knees, hits, ankles, etc. Also, weight loss will help with your diabetes and arthritis. With diabetes you have to be careful about circulation, and other side effects like hypertension- regularly exercising AND maintaining a good diet will help you feel better, have less pain, and control your current health concerns! :)

ANNNNND I think it's fantastic that you also want to do this in hopes that your granddaughter follows a long as well! That's fantastic! It always helps to have support and someone else to join along in the journey!

regko- congrats on making the choice to lose weight! We're here to help you!!! I hope to see you post more :) *hugs*
 
Hi Anna Gail,
Happy Birthday, I hope you have a wondeful day! It was so nice to hear from you. This is my first time doing any kind of blogging. It is good to know that there are people around my age that are able to make lifestyle changes, and i could see that you have made some progress on your journey- congratulations! I hope to chat again, and hopefully i will have some of my own progress soon.
 
Tik,
Thanks for all the kind words and thoughtful suggestions and support.
I could always use some hugs. I read some of your diary and from
the sounds of it with a grueling Phd program and recent end of such
a long relationship that you have been through a lot of stress in your
life as well. My daughter is getting her Phd as well and her hours are so long that it is hard for her to eat healthy and exercise at times. You seem like a very sweet girl/woman and i hope that you continue to make positive changes in your life. You hit the nail on the head with everything you said about the weight and my health, which is why i feel that it is so important to get started. You definitely know your stuff. I hope to talk again soon.
 
Day 2

So a little update on now starting day two. I went shopping yesterday with my daughter to buy more healthy and low fat foods to help me with this journey. I know that exercise is important but i am in so much pain that i could harldy sleep at night. My daughter has been trying to research exercise that would be helpful considering i need surgery on my back because there are screws embedded in the bone from a previous surgery and there is a great deal of arthritis in my left knee and my back. So i guess for now, diet will be the main part of this journey.

So far this was my food intake for yesterday.

Breakfast: English muffin with jelly

Lunch: Salad with tomatoes and olives and oil and vinegar dressing

Dinner: Baked doritos with salsa and low fat cheese and sour cream (i have a softspot for chips so this will be a difficult elimination)

Healthy choice soup- cup and a half

Approximately 1300 calories
 
regko!

You sound like you had a fantastic day! And it's great that you and your daughter went shopping together!! Your salad sounds lovely!!!

Hopefully you'll be able to find some form of exercise that you can do...hmm...have you tried swimming? I know it's not the easiest thing to access, but swimming is low impact, and easy on the joints! You may even want to look into water aerobics! I hear they're fun, and a great source of activity (and easy on the joints!).

Good luck!!! And keep us updated! You're doing fantastic!! :)
 
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