Thats it, enough %@#$ing around!!

bweh

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Gonna get this started while I'm still in the shiny new motivated phase ;)

-- How much weight do you want to lose?
I don't really know. I've set my first target at 300lb's and I'll see how I look and if I'm comfortable slowing down there.

-- What is the timeframe for reaching your target weight?
As long as it takes. Planning on doing as much exercise as I'm comfortable with and eating what I want and as much as I want, keeping in mind what my goals are.

-- How do you want to accomplish your goal (what methods do you want to use)?
Sustainable methods. Finding a diet and exercise regime that fits in with what I want to do. There's alot of things I want to do, that would be unhealthy at my current size/level of fitness so I'll be looking to introduce these as it becomes feasable.

-- Who or what can support you in reaching your goal?
As this is the internet I feel comfortable saying it, but I'm typically the helper and simply can't amass the cajones to show weakness or ask for anyones support (in real life, that is ;)). Also when someone asks if I've lost weight I want it to be based on their honest perception, as that'll give me much more of a personal buzz to keep myself motivated.

-- How realistic is your goal?
Well thats a depressing question! Um. I'd like to think its realistic, probably because I've kept my goals vague at this stage.

-- When will you start?
Talked about it weeks ago, swung into action 3 days ago.

Other Questions:
1. What is your current height and weight?
6'10" (207cm?) 400lb/181kg

2. If you were at an ideal weight now, what would that weight be?
It's more a look for me, I want to look healthy (with my shirt off amirite)

3. At what weight would you like to be at four months from now?
At this stage if I were to set a goal I don't know how realistic it would be... any indication that I was heading in the right direction would be very satisfying, as I've been this weight for a long... long time.

4. Why do you want to lose weight?
I feel like I use my weight as an excuse to prevent me from doing alot of things. I've been told I put the pro in procrastinator. Looking good is high on the list, but I would put that alongside self confidence as they're more-or-less the same thing as far as i'm concerned.

5. Do you want to lose weight for a specific life event such as wedding or reunion? If so, when is that event?
The catalyst for this life change is my plan to blow all my savings travelling accross europe. Because of my height I would have alot of issues fitting into things on my travels - busses, tents, bunks, flimsy chairs, cars, rides, boats, planes, restaraunt booths... the list goes on. This would likely still be the case even if I was a healthy weight, but they wouldn't embarass me.

6. What obstacles could get between you and your weight loss goals?
My own motivation, although this has changed alot after kicking a 5 year daily dope smoking habit I picked up in college and I feel like I can really make a difference for my own benefit this time around.

7. Why do you think that you now have a weight problem?
I'm 400lb's. I have a weight problem. Yes I have a large frame but theres no need to line it with so much insulation ;)

8. What lifestyle changes do you think would help you lose weight?
Moved back home with my parents, quit smoking, purchased my preferred pieces of exercise equipment and finding ways to enjoy using them.

9. Have you lost weight in the past? If so, what has worked in the past to help you lose weight?
Never really stuck with them long enough or tracked my results as I was always in denial that I had a problem worth focusing on solving.

10. Why do you believe that you did not lose weight or you gained the weight back?
Not motivated enough. Not willing to make any real change to my habits.

11. What, if anything, has not worked for you in the past in helping you to lose weight? Why do you think it did not work?
Half-assed attempts to 'ease myself into it'. Trying to do it while surrounded by a group of stoners who sit around after work doing nothing, playing poker, video games and watching TV. They're still my best mates but they all have physical jobs and rediculous metabolisms :icon_bs:

12. Would you try writing down all food and drink consumed for a given period of time?
Most definitely.

13. Do you cook at home often? If so, what do you cook?
As I said above, I flatted with stoners. We rarely cooked, and when we did it was a massive feed of spaghetti bolognese (essentially beef mince, tomato sauce, pasta, garlic bread) or something equally easy and unhealthy. What are fruit and vegetables?

14. How often do you go out to eat? Where do you go?
Prior to my move back home it was 5+ nights a week, healthiest would've been chinese or subway - but never the healthy options on offer.

15. What are your three favorite foods?
Mums lasagne, Mums vege soup aaaaand... just to be fair - dad's cooked breakfasts (bacon, poached eggs or an omelette, corn fritters).

16. What are your three favorite restaurants?
Never been too fussed with any particular restaurant...

17. What are three things you can do differently when it comes to food?
HAVE BREAKFAST, in fact - have 3 square meals a day with healthy snacks in between. Prepare my own food. Don't leave dinner until just before bed.

18. If you woke up tomorrow and your body was exactly the way you want it, what would be different?
I would have a point to maintain. I would know the weight can be lost and I would regain my freedom, but believe me - would be monitoring it religiously and if it started heading in the wrong direction it would be off to the gym!

19. Do you eat when you are not hungry?
I used to.*

20. Do you binge eat (large amounts at a time)?
I used to.*

21. Do you hide your food or eat in secret?
I used to.*

22. Do you eat when you are sad, nervous, or depressed?
Quite possibly the opposite. I will explain below...*

23. Do you eat as a reward?
I used to.*

24. Do you eat while watching TV or using the computer?
Yes, and probably still will.

25. What do you normally eat for a meal?
Breakfast? I don't really mind if I spoil myself a bit here, as I can compensate for it later in the day with either more exercise or less lunch/dinner as by all rights I should be less hungry... or at least that's the plan... Lunch I'll walk down the road and buy a sandwich (brown bread, light meat like turkey, shaved ham or chicken with salad and light dressing) and whatever mum cooks for dinner!

26. What type of snacks do you eat?
Sticking to fruit or low fat yoghurt. Maybe a muffin or biscuit if someones shouting at work.

27. In terms of exercise, what, if anything, are you currently doing?
Mixing it up with boxing, rowing and running with the mutt down at the back beach (hard sand, less pain!). One short session in the morning maybe 10-15 minutes before a shower then a couple of 20 minute sessions on the rowing machine in the evening usually one before and one an hour after dinner.

28. Where do you go for exercise? A local public gym? School/work gym? Home?
Home. Will look at personal training sessions once I'm happier with my own level of fitness.

29. What, if anything, are your three favorite types of exercise?
Rowing, dancing around a punching bag and... god It was hard enough to think of two and even they're simply seen as a neccessity - but that may change...

30. What is your daily/weekly/monthly/yearly motivation to move towards your goals?
I'm not too fussed with speed, but as long as I see progress in the right direction I'll be happy and am confident I'll be able to stick to it.

31. Do you have rewards for certain goals?
I'm putting off booking my trip to europe until I'm at a weight where travelling would be more comfortable. At the moment that's 300lbs but could be lower. Tis a decision I'd be more comfortable making as I progress.

*= All these points can really be summed up by the fact that (and I've never admitted this to anyone, not even online) that for the last 4 or 5 years my super secret favorite thing to do... the thing that I would think about during tough days at work as my reward for getting through it... was to wait until like 10-11pm when everyone had gone out or gone to bed, go to the supermarket or fast food joint and buy $30-40 worth of food, go home, get really stoned and eat the lot over an hour or two while watching tv. I'm talking 4000+ calories almost immediately before going to bed. I realised how atrocious it was for my own health but I'm convinced between the drugs and the overeating it was my own hedonistic paradise addiction as outside of these binge nights I percieved myself as a fairly regular individual. This would result in absolutely no appetite for breakfast the next morning and often lunch the next day which may have made me hungry but I could ignore the hunger as I knew what reward would be waiting that next day...

WELL. Even if noone ever reads that rediculous wall of text it's nice to get it out on... well.. e-paper ;)

AND SO IT BEGINS....
 
Yesterday:
3k row before breakfast
2x poached eggs on grain toast w/ canola spread
banana
6" wheat ham subway, cheese, lettuce, capsicum, onions, a rediculous amount of jalepenos and sweet chilli sauce w/ a double shot espresso (black, no sugar) for lunch.
apple
5k row after work
Was my turn to cook.. picked up chinese takeout ;). Had black bean beef & veges, some chicken chow mein, but passed on the wontons and sweet'n'sour pork.
5k row after dinner

Today:
3k row before breakfast
2 egg omelette w/ capsicum, mushrooms and red onion on grain toast w/ canola
banana
spinach & ricotta canneloni at a cafe w/ leafy green salad on the side. Gotta have the double shot espresso ;)
apple
7k row after work

10m box after dinner


mum picked up a subscription and some back issues, what a legend!

Have got guests over tonight and my rowing machine is in the guest room, so I did a bit of a longer row than usual and hung up the bag after dinner for something different.

Starting tomorrow - weigh-ins!
 
That you can do 7km on a row machine shows you have a dent enough level of fitness. Since you seem to be attacking the exercise end fairly vigorously you should keep track of the calories to ensure you are eating enough to keep the energy levels high enough to keep it going. It might be useful to use Fitday.com or somewhere similar to log your food and count the calories, it's a bit of a pain but not that time consuming.

Best of luck with the project.
 
hey thanks for the comments folks. I'll be sure to check out fitday.com - looks quite complex but I see there's some guides on how to use it most efficiently.

Saturday was a weird day, had some guests turn up out of the blue and whisk me out of the house pretty much immediately after I got up, and as I'm not quite at the stage where I'm comfortable saying to my mates "hey guys, im trying to eat right - lets stop at a salad bar" I ended up not eating until getting a footlong version of my standard sub about 4pm (are you seeing a trend here?).

Scored some leftover veges when I got home and did another 7k row while watching part of a movie.

One thing of note was the night before when I woke up just after midnight with some wicked cramping in my right calf, likely after all the sweating I did on Friday. I drink heaps of water throughout the day but picked up some after-exercise electrolyte replacement stuff which seems to have done the trick. Throw back a glass of this after exercise now.

178.9kg/394.4lbs!

Even before the weigh-in motivation was still way up there, so I'm happy with that.
 
1. What is your current height and weight?[/B]
6'10" (207cm?)

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Aaanyway!! lol! I just wanted to say Hi and good luck on your weight loss(Oh, and you're really, really tall, but you probably already knew that..lol)!! See ya around! :)
 
Yep, I can't say I see some one 6'10" very often, nor would they be able to see me way down there with the weeds.

Glad to see you're making the steps to a more confident you. As it's be mentioned before, if you're able to row 7km you should get into see that personal trainer to get you geared up asap. The problem with cardio is that it gets boring, and you lose motivation. In the gym there's such a variety of things to do, that it's much easier to stay focused and on task. Also, if you do too much cardio, you'll just get more hungrier than what's necessary to lose weight, and could be counter productive.

Now I also suggest looking on google for what your average calorie expenditure would be, based on your weight, height, age and activity level (just google weight loss calculator), and it will give you an approximate value for how many calories you consume in a day to maintain body functions. Now taking that value it may calculate out a number of calories you should consume in a day. My guess is for someone your size to be around 4000 calories. Just undercut that by a small amount, and let that minor deficit as well as your exercise create the weight loss.

Now when you eat, you should try and make sure that you're getting almost half of these calories from protien, and about another 25% -/+ of fats, and 30% +/- of carbs.
You don't have to be precise, just look at labels and be approximate. This is just at the start, until you start having energy problems, then you can start increasing the carb percentage a little bit, and lowering everything else.

A few things i've noticed that really helps me control my hunger is avoiding sugars, breads, sodas, and diet sodas are really bad too (even if they're 0 calories) Pasta is definitely not that great neither.

Good luck, stay at it big man, go pick up those euro chicks. Literally.
 
Hey cheers for all the tips, I'm still blown away by how helpful everyone on this site is and how many people have stuck around after their weight loss to offer advice and motivation. I'll be sure to pay it forward!

I'm off to a large family gathering at the end of the month but I'll call the personal trainer once I get back. By then I'll have the 2 week food diary I promised I would make before I stopped going to the gym last time...

I do drink plenty of coffee (It's part of the job!) but have sworn off instant, as this is the only stuff I need to 'enhance' with milk and sugar. Besides that I do drink a lot of water, but this is a change I made (and felt the huge benefits of) long before I started exercising and watching what I ate. I'm going to try a bit of green tea in place of coffee, but won't be too concerned if it doesn't work out.

I'm going to grab some before photos later on as well, but think I'll be keeping them to myself until I've got something to compare them to :)
 
Glad to hear it man. Tea is good because of it's anti-oxidants but even switching to decaff and using milk instead of cream, and not using sugar would be a big improvement.


You don't need to sacrifice everything to lose weight. just modify things a little bit :)
 
Welcome!

I'm a (part-time) stoner girl so I feel your pain with the munchies. It's my guilty pleasure too. Both of my flat-mates are hardcore stoners so hanging out with them and watching them smoke and then eat their own body weight is hard but I've managed to smoke a little bit and then have something healthy to binge on afterwards. Not ideal though. I just love the reefa ;)

Anyway, now I've made myself sound like a moron, I'll be off.
Also, you're insanely tall. nom nom nom.
 
haha good on ya sunflower, you dont sound like a moron at all - i could actually see everyone sitting around in the lounge red-eyed eating from a bowl of celery and carrot sticks because i dont think anyone actually gives a sh!# what they're eating :p

I know I've been slack with the posts but have been keeping at the rowing. Yesterday was my first day off since I started but I got back into it this morning and weighed in at 177.7kg/391.7lb! A long way to go but like I said, happy with any progress in the right direction. I do wonder a little bit about my scales though... most go to 180KG these ones I bought for $200 go to 200KG but I'm still not entirely convinced by their accuracy. Once I get to below 170 I think I'll look at buying some other ones, or at least comparing my results to a high quality analogue one to see if they're accurate.

Food diary keeping is terrible, but I do think about what I've eaten during a day. I know this makes it easy to lie to myself though, so had some 2010 misprint diaries at work that I've been using to jot it down. I'm also terrible at counting the calories in my meals so may begin taking photos of my plate, at least until I start preparing more of my own.
 
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