Tamm'y diet diary

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Hiya Tammy :D:D:D I hope today is a good day...why did you say it was gloomy what went on - I glanced inhere yesturday but dont really remeber much - lol - at least I am honest - ha ha ha
 
Howdy everyone,
Well i don't feel like I gained from yesterday I did
somewhat have control and trust me even tho I was stuffed I could have
went for that desert they call the "COOKIE MONSTER" lol. I am hoping
no more rain so I can get my butt out and walk later.Weigh in day tomorrow
so I am really hooing for a no change or the 183 I saw on Monday :rolleyes: !
WAVES HOWDY TO EVERYONE THAT STOPPED BY AND THANKS FOR BEING HONEST CERELLA I SPEED READ TO MOST OF THE TIME.

MY MENEUE
1 90 cal special K honey nut bar(90 cals)
1 chciken club pinnini(320 cals)
me and my little guy shared a banannah(100 cals)
1 piece chciken breast
1 baked potatoe loaded with fat free toppings(180 cals)
1 peanut butter spoon(80 cals)
1 pk special K vannilla snack bites(90 cals)
TOTAL CALORIES 940 HMMMMM I ATE
EXERSICE WALKING LATER 3 MILES :)
 
I forgot until I was telling someone about this but I wanted to share with ya and any advice would be great.My 1 daughter yesterday got student of the month (she's in 2nd) meanwhile in the same day I had to have a meeting with my other daughters teacher,special ed teacher,speech teacher ,assistant principle to discuss rather or not she has a learning disorder.The teacher said she is the only one that is failing in her class,that she sits there in a daze spacing off and simply can't get it like the stuff they are teaching her doesn't stick up there so they are going to test her for several thing's 1 being ADHD? This breaks my heart because they said the reason why they passed her last year was not because she went to summer school but becasue her sister was going into the 2nd grade and they thought that would have a major impact,basically I think she is going to have to take 3rd grade over again it's a big mess I feel bad showing my 1 daughter YAY way to go and having to explain to my other daughter why she never gets student of the month and it may not even be her fault?
Plus not to mention I notice her cousin and her sister starting to make fun of her so here comes low self esteem ontop of everything,I about bit my daughters head off(youngest)I asked where did the rest of your granola bar go and she replied"I gave it to the big fat cow over there"I told her I better not ever hear you talk about your sister like that ever again that is your sister and that is not nice to say that and I made her time out for a while,the other day I overheard her lil cousin saying big fat moomoo so it is starting all over again now through my daughter which is worse.I AM SO SAD! TAMMY
 
OK I WALKED 3 MILES TOMIGHT WITH MY DAYGHTER WE CHIT CHATTED WOW I CAN'T BELIEVE NO ONE STOPPED BY AND SAID HELLO OR HELPED ME OUT WITH SOME ADVICE??:eek: OH WELL HOPEFULLY TOMORROW WILL BE A BETTER DAY EMOTIONALLY,TAMMY:)
 
Hey Tammy, I only just saw your post about your daughters. I am sorry, that must be really difficult. I'm not sure I really know how to handle this situation. With the self-esteem problem I think positive reinforcement is important for both daughters but with slightly different emphasis depending on their abilities. Praising her for finishing assignments and any progress she makes is important. From what little I know of children with ADHD and other learning problems (if she does have a learning disability), it's definitely not that they aren't smart, they are often highly intelligent, it's just they have trouble applying themselves to things. I think it's probably important to talk to her and your other daughter about that. I hope you get some more support from the school - they are trained professionals and obviously this is really just my opinion and I have no background in this area. It's hard when children are so cruel to each other. I hope you find a way to explain to get through to them how hurtful words can be.
Being a parent is tough and I think you are doing a great job. I know several people on here are teachers and parents, I hope they can stop by and give you some advice that's based upon experience. Hope you feel better tomorrow and the day is easier for you. Take care, x
 
Ooo Tammy - well - siblings are mean - and girls are mean also - girls can be pretty nasty...My step son has ADHD and OCD...it was hard to deal with - I had my daughter who was great in school and listneing and behaviour and a step son that was always in trouble and actually got suspended form school - I htink all I did was make them as equal as I could...but it is hard b/c my step son would never do anyhtign and get farther or earn stuff and my daugher did and that created problems b/c I wasnt beign fair and blah blah blah...

Honestly Tammy speakign form being in this situation...having the school test her and such is a good thing - althoguth the testing sheet they ise is ridicculous - I swear based on the check list they use my children could be adhd - but if she is diagnois she will get the help she needs and from their her self esteem will grow...

Havign girls is rough - they are so emotional and so snotty and so mean and so the list goes on - but oyu are a great mom and you will figure this out

The most imprtant thing is to find out if there if a problem...things will get better form there...

Sorry Im not much more help...Im tired but I wanted to make sure i posted for you...when I was with my X - I told him if he didnt make an effort to get his sons behaviours looked into that I would leave him - b/c I could no longer handle it...so I was with my ste son fromt eh beginning with getting diagnoised, Ive also been through all teh judgements and bull shit of arrogant people nad teachers who didnt give a shit - I lost alot of respect for Kaylea's school with how they treated my step son...

*BUG HUGS*
 
ok, wait a minute here...

they are saying that she sits off in a daze, but they are wanting to test her for ADHD?! that isn't right. ADHD is a hyperactivity thing... if she had ADHD, she wouldnt be staring off in a daze. i have students diagnosed as ADHD, and if they aren't on their meds, they absolutely cannot sit still. you would NEVER catch one of them staring off into space.

i'm not an ADHD expert, but this just doesn't seem right...

ADD/learning disorder/low IQ, maybe... but not ADHD.

and i'm in no way implying that your daughter has any of the others i mentioned... i'm just saying that those seem more likely for a child that stares off into space and doesn't grasp the concepts.

maybe she is just a slow learner and doesn't have any of the above. some students just learn slower than others!

but i obviously don't know anything about your daughter or what she is capable of at this point. all i do know is that i am so sorry that you two are having to go through this.

positive reinforcement will really help. make a big deal of all the little achievements to try and help build her self esteem.
 
Good morning Tammy :)

I'm glad you got that chat in w/ your DD :)

I'm sorry I didnt respond to your post yesterday, i just didnt' know what to say, i don't know anything about adhd.

I hope today's a better day for ya ((Hugs))
 
Howdy everyone,basically overall she is being tested for "A learning diasibilty"I was a slow learner in school and she reminds me of me just like my hubby is very book smart but I would last longer if I was stranded on a deserted island lol! She is the same way,I have been questioned about during my pregnancy I had to have a cyst removed which required being put to sleep then a morphine pump for a few days?I was 4 months preggers at the time.Well I am eating pen station for lunch and thats all I am having ALL DAY that will be all my calories lol anyway Tammy:)
 
Hi!

Just wanted to say Hi!

Good luck with the team challenge. Here's hoping we actually do become bikini babes by the end of it! :)
 
Howdy everyone Thank you MOON we will be a knock out goodluck
like I said today I am taking it easy i feel I have been giving it 110%
and 1 day won't kill me,I will try not to go overboard!!Have a great weekends
all my friends.......................Tammy :)

This eater picture I found is cuite take a peak lol
 
lol, cute cartoon!

Have fun at lunch today, and don't worry about it! You've done GREAT, one day won't hurt a thing!!

Hope your getting out and enjoying the BEAUTIFUL weather!
 
Hi Tammy,
Just had a few moments of conciousness;) lol thought I would read up a bit. I am sorry to hear your situation with your daughter! I am so worried about mine going into school because of all the contact with kids that will hurt his feelings!! As a teacher I would love to give you a pearl of wisdom but my kiddos are highschool and by then they know what thier issue is. some of me wonders if she sits and stares off into space... is she bored? What are her thoughts on the class, teacher, work? What do the tests say.. when she takes them? and kids are sooo mean! I remember those days:( It sucks not being able to protect your little ones from the mean things other kids say:( You are doing great and being supportive is soooo important. Giving her the tools to cope with kids who feel better when they are putting someone down is important.
I hope everything works out and you guys get some answers!
You are doing great so far! 183:D I am very excited for you! Hope you have a great weekend:)
 
Howdy everyone Thank you fro the kind words and the tema
spirit we are doing GREAT! I am off today from here exersicing
everything but tomorrow I will be back going stronger than ever for the next 6 weeks I accomplished alot in 3 weeks I can imagine 6!!!
I have ate a couple good meals but no late night eating and I did have 1 reesee peanut butter egg for a sweet but other than that.We are going to olive garden tonight since we only have the baby and my 5 year old son then off to play some cards and to search for a SPONGEBOB t-shirt for my son whos turning 1 and having a spongebob birthday part this TUESday,
No one seems to have it in sizes 12 months-2T so I am checking the consighnment shops.
Anyway last day of bad eating plus this is my last gift certificate lol.HAVE A NICE WEEKEND AND GO BIKINI BABES! TAMMY
 
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