SwampBillies
New member
I already posted an introduction in the newcomer section that tells most of my details. The short version is as I see my 50th birthday fast approaching I felt the need to make serious changes. So on March 1st 2008 I laid down a 35 year long, pack and a half a day, smoking habit. It was tough to give it up. I love smoking
I thought that would be the hard part but then I realized that I was 60 pounds over where I was comfortable with my weight. This is the hardest. I have lost weight in the past. 20 pounds came and went over the years. But after menopause it was a much bigger hill to climb. I have lost almost 20 pounds of it so far but it has slowed way way way down. So here I am. I am shooting for a lifestyle change that I can continue into old age. Hubby has joined me and we are really excited to start this new phase of our lives.

I thought that would be the hard part but then I realized that I was 60 pounds over where I was comfortable with my weight. This is the hardest. I have lost weight in the past. 20 pounds came and went over the years. But after menopause it was a much bigger hill to climb. I have lost almost 20 pounds of it so far but it has slowed way way way down. So here I am. I am shooting for a lifestyle change that I can continue into old age. Hubby has joined me and we are really excited to start this new phase of our lives.
How depressing. I just don't know what to do. I was at 198.5 for like a week, then finally dropped to 196 for a couple days. Now back to 198. I increased my calories from 1000 to 1200-1500 thinking that I was not eating enough. But now I am worried that I am eating too many. I am tracking my calories in fitday and I make sure to put in everything. I enter most of it straight from the labels and I think I am accurate in estimating my homecooked dinners. I thought maybe it was added muscle since I started working out, but I can't be adding this much muscle. I should have gone back to losing by now. I was losing so good to begin with. I don't understand what could have happened. Every instinct I have says cut my food back more. I am afraid to cut it back and afraid to keep them at the higher level. I have this wedding at the end of the month and I soooo wanted to be in the 180s by then. But most of all, I just want to figure out where I need to be to get this diet back on track before I lose my motivation!