Sophiyya's diary

Sophiya

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Hello there

I am a person who was always overweight after my mum decided to plump me up when I was 5yrs old. I was a skinny child and in my culture (back then) being skinny was frowned up on. I am now 284lbs heavy and i am 5ft 8. When people look at me they wont believe that i am 9stone overweight. But they think that i have couple of stone to lose. To me this sounds like massive mountain to climb.

However my ambitious goal is to lose 10-14lbs a month. I know it is bit much but as long as i am losing something, I am happy.
I have tried tried every diet under the sun. I have lost some weight but always put them back on as they were so unrealistic to keep for life. I have tried Cambridge diet, lighterlife diet, Atkins, Slimming world, Weightwatchers, pills etc. I was thinking of stomach stapling surgery, but the thought really scaries me. As i was about to call my doctor, i read a newspaper on my dest at work. The article was this lady who tried every diet but couldnt lose anything. She finaly resorted to surgery and died at the table. This stopped me calling my doctor. Speaking of doctors, they have told me that with my weight, it is hard to conceive. I have been married for 6 years now, trying for a baby, but nothing so far. I have tried this to motivate me and stick to healthy lifestyle, but i cant control my cravings and love eating sweets. Many friends ask me "what do you love most? Sweet or having a baby"? How could they ask me that question :( But they did have a point.

Anyhow...i was watching a tv programe and a guy called Mckena came on. I listened to him for 30min. He had a whole merchandise to promote but the essence of his system is quite simple and common sense: only eat when you are hungry, put your knife and fork down between mouthfuls, Eat Conciously. This is the biggy. Eat slowly taking notice of every mouthful. If you do this you will enjoy your food, and then you will notice. When you’re full, stop eating. Don’t worry about leaving food on your plate, don’t worry about getting hungry 10 minutes later.

I am not here to advertise this guy however i tried to do this without exercising. I forgot all about him. But 2 weeks later, I weighed myself and I found that i lost 12lb. Mostly was water of course but this spurred me on to change my lifestyle. Eat healthy food and execrise and dont stress too much.

I have a lovely family who struggled with me over the years with regards to my weight. They have done everything humanly possible (from cooking my family' s food to going walks with me). They will still be here to support me but now they got tired of me getting excited over the latest fad diet.

I have joined the March 2lb challenge. Hopefully this will encourage me and having a diary is great to keep track of my journey.
 
Hi Sophiya. Like you, I have tried every diet in the book, but probably over a much longer time period than you have -- 40 years!

Congrats on your loss so far. You're on the way.

Frankly, I think you will find much better advice on this forum than you will from any TV show. Read through Steve's and Leigh's comments -- they are full of no-nonsense, good advice.

And don't beat yourself up if you don't lose 8 or 10 pounds a month. Losing only 1 pound a week can be an extremely healthy way to do it. Of course, my perspective may come with age, too. After trying and failing so many times, I don't think much of "quick loss" programs, and they don't work on my body anyway.

Keep us informed about your progress.
 
welcome t the site and to your diary - your "Eat healthy food and execrise and dont stress too much" is a very sound approach... just give yourself some patience and you'll get to wehre you want to be.
 
Hi

I am back. I cant believe I am still at the same place, trying to lose weight 3 yrs later. But here I am. My starting weight 3 yrs ago was 280 pounds. NOw my starting weight was 296 from August 2009. I now weigh 266. This time I am determined. Well, this really doesnt mean much as I have said it thousand times before. But I will take it easy and change my lifestyle. Hopefully.

I am now gonna look for some sort of challenge to join. I now use Fitday to log my food and it is proving to be amazing tool to keep track.

I am not much of a writer but I will use here to record my weekly weigh ins.

PS. This website and its members are life saver. I have been lurking for the past 4 months and without it, I couldnt have lost 28 pounds. Thank you guys for your amazing support. You have no idea how it helps me forget my craving and increase my motivation.
 
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3 Years... goes so quick!?!!?

Hi Sophiyya

In a strange sort of way your post is inspirational. We often put off until tomorrow what can be done today. Then 3 years goes by in the blink of an eye!!!

You have motivated me to stop putting things off and get on with it.
 
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