i started smoking as a teen b/c i thought it was cool (i'm an idiot) and quit about 5 years ago b/c even though i was addicted i honestly couldn't stand the taste and how my clothes smelt anymore, tired of coughing and being out of breathe, and on top of that my father had heart disease and so does my mother, so i felt i should try to prevent this from happening to me b/c honestly i don't want to suffer like i saw them suffering w/their diseases. when my father passed away it really made me not want to go near it at all. i guess when people actually see others suffering from illnesses it really gets stuck in your head, plus my daddy always wanted me to quit and i did when he was alive and i'll never go back to it now that he is gone. i quit cold turkey as well. i have to say though that i did cheat in between here and there like when we went out for some drinks, etc. it was kind of hard not to have a butt w/those drinks. i haven't smoked at all in a very long time and haven't even cheated. what also actually inspired me to quit was when my brother quit, then i realized wow maybe i could do it to then and i just went for it and it worked. i think you really have to want to quit in order to be successful.
also, my hubby just went on the nicoderm patch. i can't say it is totally working for him. i think he has like two more steps to go and sometimes he still will have a butt in between here and there. he quit one time for 6 months, another for 9 months, and now is trying again, so i guess it is much harder for others and some it's easier. he also eats a lot of altoids to help w/cravings. i think it's mostly stress at work and such that makes him grab for another butt. i just hope he is successful in the end.
good luck to all of you that are trying.