just sit down, look at your feet, and give em a good talking to.

Tell them "I expect you to do as your told and get to steppin!" Just like that. hehe.
Thanks for saying that about the kids. I lucked out and have pretty amazing and wonderful kids. Only one rule in the house. Respect. Them for me, for themselves, and each other. Seems to have worked out ok. Then again, Ive only 'raised' two teenagers, with 2 more to go.
Dancing...oh man. Girl after my own heart! My H wont do it. Luckily he doesnt mind my dancing with others on the rare occasion we go out. Lots of times Ive danced with the girls on the even RARER occasions I get to do that! And funniest of all, I raised all my kids on AC/DC, Metallica etc, and love love love heavy metal hard rock old rock alt. rock....though I can be content with classical and even some hip hop!(funnest to dance to!) I grow tired of the same ol Pink Floyd and Led Zepplin, but it seems like my peers are all still stuck there and dont give anything new a chance.
Now I have a son who plays some mean guitar and is in a local band, 16 yr old daughter who is hearing impaired but plays flute, and 13 yr old son is taking up the trumpet. Youngest daughter of almost seven sings OPERA -type songs, and sings like a bird! Im biased though.
I swear I think Im the only head-banging-42-yr-old mama driving down the road where I live! And why not!!!!! Having fun is part of my life, and if it doesnt come to me, I make it happen! That's what I was missing about being thin. I got big again, and forgot to dance!!!!
Well no more! I wanna REALLY live!