Sex Drive and Weight Loss

On the average, before a person loses a substantial amount of weight, their sexual organs are covered up with layers of fat. As they proceed to lose this fatty tissue, the sexual organs become more uncovered, and as the progression of weight loss contiunes, they may tend to stick out and become more prominent. This means that they can be felt more often; for instance, when coming out of the shower, the cool air from their wetness can cause a sensation, thus making the person become somewhat aroused, especially in women with shaved pubes. When dressing, drying off. or even passing through a narrow space, they can be felt. When a large amount of weight is gone, they will stick out. This, in turn with the added feeling of looking good and feelings of newfound self-confidence will almost certainly boost one's sex drive. I have received this information from a number of people who have experienced a vast amount of weight loss, including myself. However, I would like to issue a warning regarding this matter. Be careful, especially if you are married. I have also seen this scenario end up in scandal and divorce. Just because you have a new, super-sexy body, remember who you love and belong to. If you are single, it's just going to be that much harder to find the right person; they may only want your body. Think about it.
 
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I don't have a sex drive. But, if I did, it'd be in neutral right now because my car's been stalled for quite a while...if you know what I mean aaaaand I think ya do.
 
yaya365 said:
On the average, before a person loses a substantial amount of weight, their sexual organs are covered up with layers of fat. As they proceed to lose this fatty tissue, the sexual organs become more uncovered, and as the progression of weight loss contiunes, they may tend to stick out and become more prominent. This means that they can be felt more often; for instance, when coming out of the shower, the cool air from their wetness can cause a sensation, thus making the person become somewhat aroused, especially in women with shaved pubes. When dressing, drying off. or even passing through a narrow space, they can be felt. When a large amount of weight is gone, they will stick out. This, in turn with the added feeling of looking good and feelings of newfound self-confidence will almost certainly boost one's sex drive. I have received this information from a number of people who have experienced a vast amount of weight loss, including myself. However, I would like to issue a warning regarding this matter. Be careful, especially if you are married. I have also seen this scenario end up in scandal and divorce. Just because you have a new, super-sexy body, remember who you love and belong to. If you are single, it's just going to be that much harder to find the right person; they may only want your body. Think about it.
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Boy I hope my sex drive increases as I lose weight. My fiancee and I only make love once a week, because I don't feel sexy at this weight. I know I have some body issues, but when you are out of breath from sexual activity (and not in a good way), it becomes very unmotivating to continue.
 
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My name is Brandon I'm 23 years old and I"m a gale male. I started at 295lbs and after 20 days I'm down to 280. I do fell more confident about myself, but still don't find myself attractive. However, I have noticed that I'm more eager to check guys out. I tend to imagine more. I tend to daydream. I mean I did that when I was like 15-17. I mean I love sex, I just didn't think about it every minute. Now, with just the 15 lbs of weight loss I find myself much more interested. I don't think about it EVERY minute. But when I'm idle it usually comes to mind. Which I can understand if you feel more sexy you would be more interested in sex. But I don't find myself "sexier" at all. So I really don't know what is causing me to think about sex quite more often than before.
 
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Hi all!

I am starting this thread to discuss sex drive and weight loss. Has anyone noticed a rise or fall of their sex drives with the changes in eating/weight/exercise? I looked all over the forum and did not find anything related to the sex drive and think this is an interesting topic to bring up. I am noticing difference for sure, but was not sure if it was just because I feel better about my body or because of something medical.

I looked it up online and found this interesting little article dealing with the subject:

Better Sex: What's Weight Got to Do with It?

Let me know your thoughts and experiences. I am interested in hearing about the experience of others and your possible reasons...
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My sex drives dives when I gain and perks up when I lose.
In turn having sex/orgams diminishes my interest in eating, so its win win when I'm in a relationship.
Its after you get dumped and your self esteem goes boing! straight down like a slinky down stairs that
the binging begins and never seems to end. Thats why I am trying to address my psychology as well as my
eating habits. Its so not about food for me. Its about getting high or conversely eating so much food/protein
that I feel too sluggish to care and just numb out of the world. It all stems from my crazy family but thats
all told on my thread or at least an inkling of it so I wont divulge all that here.
Bye for now. A.
 
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I have definitely had a very notable increase in my sex drive after losing weight.
It is not just about drive, but my performance was much better with less weight.
 
I'll echo the notion that sex drive doesn't change much... but the joy of having sex is increasing vastly with every kg lost and with my improving cardio health since... well... being out of breath really tends to fuck with my ability to focus on enjoying having sex :)
 
maybe its the testosterone kicking up from exercising, or losing mass and its not getting thinned out or just more self confidence or hell, maybe even not needing a mirror to see my willy past my stomach, but after losing a noticable (in the mirror) amount of weight, I'm pretty much like a sausage with feet.
 
Quite the reverse

My sex drive has plummeted with my weight. As a redhead im expected to be hot blooded & now im all burnt out...im only 30.
When i was big i was still very curvy and femme (and i was a demon lol :reddevil:), and now that ive lost over 75lbs in the past year, my drive has nearly flat-lined.:leaving:
Im still kinda curvy...sort of...i mean im not built like a boy now or anything, but i used to have this juicy spank-able bum and a pair of DDD's to play with...now ive got the bum of a 10yr old boy and my chest has deflated to a pair of sad little C's (sad cuz i cant get them to perk up for anything)
Im glad to lose the extra pounds from my legs and arms and just about everywhere else, but i wish i could put some back on my T&A id feel a lot better.
For years i was the randy one, and i had to practically beg...now its the other way..my hubby is begging..and i cant seem to get up the urge.
5'5" and 138 im hardly a stick or sickly....and i get hit on a lot as im close to that "ideal" build...37-25-37 ....but i have No interest anymore. (not even in animated porn...and i used to love manga porn.....so sad.)
 
Not the tentacleeeees!! My house-mates all want me to watch the manga film "Spirited away" but I'm too scared in case it turns into tentacle rape half way through!!
 
I can assure you that Spirited Away has no tentacle action whatsoever. It's for kids, I promise!

You should also watch Howl's Moving Castle, Princess Mononoke and My Neighbour Totoro!

I love anime :) *dork alert*

Also, what's with the thread resurrection?

PS my sex drive has never been affected by my weight - just my self confidence.
 
well i had a date and some sexin last nite and lost another pound, i cant say if my sex drive was higher but i deffinatly felt more comfortable in the flirting stages and stud around and stuff. the feeling of loseing weight is great.
 
Hmm...hopefully it'll increase. I'm just starting to get rid of the weight (Down 22 lbs already after 3 months yay!) but I'm still feeling kinda apatheic about things. I think I'll feel more attractive and ready to get down and dirty and all of that jazz as I progress.
 
My sex drive has definitely steadily gone up as I've lost. I don't know if it's my new confidence in myself, or what....and I guess I don't care. I am enjoying myself more than I have in years and that's what counts.

I'm pretty much obsessed with sex....which my boyfriend finds completely adorable- so it's working out pretty well.

(BTW- ITA that "Spirited Away" and all things Miyazaki are definitely worth watching! But my real love is "Fruits Basket". Any other fans out there?)
 
LOL @ how this topic went from sex drive to anime. I don't notice a difference but then again sex has always been secondary for me.

Fruits Baskets seemed to be geared towards girls, but my little sister loves it so I got her a bunch of the DVDs. I'm currently watching High School of the Dead but haven't had much time to make a dent in in.

There's way too much anime out there these days but my all time favorite is Elfen Lied (very depressing and graphic but at the same time, strangely touching). I LOVED the original Naruto until the filler episodes kicked in. I just couldn't do it anymore.
 
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