AYour story makes me so happy because you've done what I've always wanted to do... although not to a husband, but to my old boyfriends, lose the weight and simultaneously give them the finger! For some reason it's always been associated in my head (although maybe not in real life) but when my old relationships would end, I would somehow end up binging and eating a lot and feeling depressed about myself and wondering if it didn't work out with them because I have always been kind of heavy. And now that I'm in a happy relationship and I'm happier and happier with my figure every day, you'd think that desire to look super hot and make them jealous would go away (because they'll probably never see me again, and even if they did I'm sure they wouldn't be jealous) but it doesn't. Sometimes when I'm pushing super hard on a run or at the gym, I think, I'm going to look so hot and show what's-his-name what he's missing out on, even if I never see him again in my life. I don't know why I think thoughts like that, because I don't even care about those people, but it is DEFINITELY motivating. I know I don't know much about your situation with your husband or ex-husband, but I hope when you're working out and looking super hot, you think to yourself...."Who came out on top!?!" Because it is definitely you. You look so great!!!