Quote of the Day

Steve

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I do this quite often in my journal along with a "random thought of the day." Many people don't come into my journal. Haha, I don't blame em! And certainly don't expect them too. However, I figured some of these random thoughts could drone up some interesting conversation. I think I'll start posting some of them in this thread. Today's was:

Quote of the day

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People who say it cannot be done should not interrupt those who are doing it.

Read, every day, something no one else is reading. Think, every day, something no one else is thinking. Do, every day, something no one else would be silly enough to do. It is bad for the mind to continually be part of unanimity.

Power is the faculty or capacity to act, the strength and potency to accomplish something. It is the vital energy to make choices and decisions. It also includes the capacity to overcome deeply embedded habits and to cultivate higher, more effective ones.



Random thought of the day:

Do you ever wonder how others perceive you? I never gave much of a care about whether or not others like me or not. I've done my best personally and I think people respect me for what/who I've become.

But I still wonder how I'm perceived by those who don't know me as well.

Do you ever wonder this? If so, why? And how do you believe you are perceived from the outside on-looker? Do you wish people would tell you how they really feel?

Also, and kind of related, a recent PM led me to post this:

Here on the forums, I think the "professionals" including myself have set up an atmosphere where people may be intimidated to approach us. We speak so much about optimal training that the average members believe we expect EVERYONE to be doing things optimally. The believe that there is a right and wrong. And this isn't good.

I'm going to try and change that, if possible.

I know I've written about this before in here, and speaking for myself, I truly understand that there are different starting points for each individual. Also, I think a good trainer finds the right balance between educating and leading. Ideally you help someone understand. But also, I think it's critical that you find the balance between where their personal starting point is and where optimal is. Keeping both things in mind, you develop a plan of attack that best suits the individual.

Keeping in mind that it's hard to be *wrong* on the subject of fitness, don't be afraid to ask questions.
 
But I still wonder how I'm perceived by those who don't know me as well.

Do you ever wonder this? If so, why? And how do you believe you are perceived from the outside on-looker? Do you wish people would tell you how they really feel?
I thought this discussion had been had already here but maybe it was elsewhere on the web. it's an interesting discussion...

Perception is really in the eye of the perceiver.. and people tend to see what they want to see about a person - regardless if it's reality... and people's experiences with that person often cloud that perception... No different than the real world, however the internet is a little different...
 
I understand what perception is and all the stuff that can cloud it. That still doesn't stop me from wondering.....
 
Conscientious

We are all conscientious, wanting to be accepted, relating to others. We have the desire to be desirable. That is a human need as Maslow discussed in his hierarchy of human needs.
Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs

* Self Actualization Needs
(full potential)
* Esteem Needs
(self respect,
personal worth, autonomy)
* Love and Belongingness Needs
(love, friendship, comradeship)
* Safety Needs
(security; protection from harm)
* Physiological Needs
(food, sleep, stimulation, activity)
 
Do you wish people would tell you how they really feel?

I don't think you'll ever get the 100% truth from someone. I think people are always either guarding themselves or you when giving opinions about who or what they think you are or do.

Whether they are afraid of hurting you or hurting themselves by expressing their feelings, there will always be a form of inhibition in all things we do and or say, except perhaps by children who have not yet discovered the holding of the tongue.



Perception is a powerful influence on action.
I agree 100%!
 
"Life is like photography, you use the negative to develop."
~Unknown

I try to remember this one... & need to daily it seems.
 
The only man who behaved sensibly was my tailor; he took my measurement anew every time he saw me, while all the rest went on with their old measurements and expected them to fit me.
 
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