Problems with my body shape

[safar]

I'm overweight 95kg and 180 cm, and I don't like how fat is distributed on my body. I don't have a manly figure, my lower body is wider and bigger than my upper body. Even when I was 15 kg less I was like this: relatively narrow shoulders, big ass, large thighs. I don't know why this is. I don't like that I look this way and I want to change this. I think this is not a healthy look beause no other man look like this: their upper body is usually as big as or bigger than their lower body.

I could post more pictures but I think one will be enough

 

[Trusylver]

I don't see any problem with your basic body shape, but you do need to look more at body re-composition rather than just fat loss, just simply loosing weight is not going to help change your problems.

What sort of exercise are you doing, and what is your current diet ?

do you know your current bodyfat %