Pleiades' Diary - support welcome!

pleiades

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Hello! I have decided to start up this diary because I have been inactive (on the forum, I mean) for a while and I think it will be a really good tool to help me continue my progress. So, here we go.

I decided to start losing weight and getting fit back in January, new year's resolution style. I'm 24 years old, female, my height is 5'5" and my initial start weight was 194lb. I did NOT want to go over 200lb so I made some changes. Between January and April 2011 I lost about 2 stone through eating more carefully and doing more exercise. I have been maintaining (not plateauing - the maintenance was deliberate), since April, without any difficulty, between 165-170lbs (depending on my hormonal fluctuations!). I would like to get down between 140-150lbs to get my BMI into a healthy range.

My starting measurements were 44" (bust) - 34" (waist) - 44" (hips) and they are now down to 39.5"-28.5"-40". I have had lots of compliments and am happy with the progress so far but still have some work to do. As the measurements indicate, I carry my weight quite well and evenly, so I might find that I get to 155lb but have a 26" waist and don't need to lose any more weight! We'll see.

I enjoy exercise and am lucky that my husband motivates me too as we go to the same gym. However, lately, due to work commitments and travelling, I've fallen out of my routine of exercise and would love some motivation to get me back to it! The activities I usually do throughout the week include swimming, cycling (to work and back every day), cross-trainer, belly dancing, and running. I have never been able to run until now but up until the last few weeks I have been running for half an hour 3 or four times a week, sometimes more! I usually do 4-5 km in that time. It's one of my biggest achievements since I decided to change my lifestyle. I have also been doing resistance work 3-4 times/week, both with machines and free weights, which my husband has been teaching me how to use safely.

I'm a good cook and I am knowledgeable about what I should and shouldn't eat but sometimes I'm less disciplined than I ought to be and this is the other area I need to work on to get my weight loss going again. My main weaknesses are chocolate and creamy things - but other than that I have a mostly vegetable-based diet (I eat fish on average once or twice a week, chicken once a week and red meat once a fortnight at most). I eat lots of lentils, beans and other legumes for protein, as well as milk, cheese and yoghurt. I am not a fussy eater at all and have no allergies.

My main motivations for losing weight are, in no particular order: wanting to be fitter and healthier now and in the future, wanting to be at a healthy weight to start a family when the time is right, wanting to look and feel really good about myself, wanting to be in great shape for a couple of family weddings that are coming up in autumn, wanting to be more disciplined and conscientious in my life generally, wanting to have activities I can enjoy with my husband who enjoys exercise too, wanting to challenge myself to learn new skills like the dancing and running I've been doing, wanting to lower my risks of some of the illnesses that run in my family such as type 2 diabetes, heart disease and high blood pressure, wanting to sleep better and generally feel happier day to day.

To continue towards my goals, I think I've identified a few things I need to work on. Here they are:
1) Reset my body clock to fit exercise into my mornings again - I need to battle the urge to sleep as late as possible. Discipline woman!
2) Be a bit stricter about portion control and treats - I don't want to forbid myself anything but I want to feel totally in control of my eating habits.
3) As an extension of 2), restart my food diary, which I found really motivating during my weight loss. I will try to do it online here daily, which might keep me accountable!

My goals are:
1) Continue steady progress to a healthy weight that I can be happy with and maintain.
2) Continue to improve my fitness, increasing the weights I can lift, the dance moves I know, the laps I can swim etc.
3) Work towards running 10k once a week.

Your comments, support, motivation and interest will be warmly received! Thank you in advance and for reading this mammoth first post!

x
 
Hey and welcome back to the active side :)
I think your story is very inspirational, thank you for sharing it pleiades!
One way I keep myself motivated when doing exercises is setting some mini goals. Constantly pushing myself, but not over my limits! I also imagine myself, my figure after I'll loose the weight, etc.

Anyway here's one great trick for easier control of the portions. It may sound a bit stupid at first, but it actually helps! Beside the "usual trick", devoting your full attention to your meal (not watching tv, ... you probably know this already; don't just eat with your mouth, but also with your eyes), try to eat your meals from smaller plates. Portions look bigger on smaller plates. That way you will trick your eyes and mind into thinking you're actually having a nice, bigger meal. Since I've read this in one magazine I use it in practice almost every time, when I prepare a meal myself!

I hope this was of any help!
Lot's of love,
Az xx
 
Hi Azara! Thanks for the lovely, helpful reply, I'm amazed that anyone would find my rambling post (having now re-read it...) inspiring but it was a nice thing to say! Lol. I love the eating off small plates trick - I did it a lot at the beginning especially, when my stomach was initially adjusting to the smaller portions, and I may have to start with that again! Good call. I also like the idea of mini-goals. Two more laps of the pool, two more pounds on the dumbbells, keeping that shimmy going for another ten seconds...it all adds up and you're right, it's really motivating. I already feel like going for a run! My husband has the weekend off work so I can rest assured he will get my lazy backside to the gym and get me all competitive...such a good influence...I should really harness my competitive nature again and strive to keep beating my personal bests! That may be the way to succeed!
x
 
Thank you Sunflower - you've obviously got a lot of experience on here so any tips you want to contribute along the way, feel free! x
 
I'm glad I was able to help, even if it's just a reminder! :)

Btw dear, what does your diet look like, if may I ask?
xx
 
Well, I eat 3 meals a day, snacks in between if I'm hungry. For breakfast I always have a portion of Fruit & Fibre breakfast cereal with semi skimmed milk. If I'm exercising in the morning before breakfast, I usually eat a slice of malt loaf or half a banana before I go out so I'm not running on empty, but I have my proper breakfast at my desk afterwards. For lunch I usually have some sort of salad provided by my work - but they're really well balanced, i.e. today it was a pasta salad with tomato and roasted vegetable sauce - more veg than pasta - and two "coins" of mozzarella. Other examples are spicy couscous salad with lemon chicken or prawn and avocado salad with vegetable rice. Basically around 3-400kcal with carbs, protein, veggies and good fat. In the winter I eat lots of veggie soups with brown bread and avocado instead of butter! With that two pieces of fruit/a piece of fruit and a low fat yoghurt. For dinner it's always a balanced meal based on carbs, veggies and protein, around 500kcal, and if i've been good I'll allow myself something sweet like a couple of squares of chocolate. Snacks if I'm hungry are usually fruit, and I drink LOTS of water, black coffee unsweetened with breakfast, the occasional peppermint tea or english tea unsweetened with milk during the day. No fizzy drinks except the occasional drop of fruit cordial with soda water for a treat. I drink very little alcohol. Hope that helps :) x
 
Oh - and I always eat when I'm hungry and I'm trying not to eat if I'm not hungry...I have a tendency to eat when I'm bored so I am trying to avoid letting myself get into those situations.
 
Fantastic, thanks so much! :) I have the same problem, eating when bored or overeating when under a lot of stress. For example if I'm studying I have a strong urge to munch on something.

Question about coffee..once I've read somewhere that the French drink a cup of coffee after dinner. It is supposed to help you with your digestion. What do you think about that?
 
I rarely drink coffee later than lunch because it stops me sleeping, so I never drink coffee after dinner except at a formal dinner or something. And I certainly wouldn't drink it for digestive purposes - if anything, caffeine is a mild irritant to the digestive system! To help with digestion, peppermint tea or ginger tea are good options, as is green tea (which you can get with peppermint or ginger!). Also they're naturally decaffeinated so they won't keep you awake! x
 
Well I'm not really a fan of tea, but I'll try it! :D You drink your tea with milk and sugar or something similar? I don't think I'd be able to drink it without sugar :/ I just don't like that bitter-like taste. :(
 
Hey again guys! Oh i hate monday mornings...
OK so - this weekend was pretty much bad in terms of diet. I kept getting really powerful cravings for salt and sugar and seemed to have no resolve to resist...but it all became clear on sunday night - turned out I was (unexpectedly) PMS-ing really badly, hence the cravings and feeble will power. Do you get that too? I find just before my period I am totally desperate for salty food, which is very unusual for me because I actually avoid salt most of the time. I salt cooking water for rice, pasta and potatoes but that's basically it. But then at TOM I just go mad and need salt and vinegar crisps, salty chips, that kind of thing. Weird.

Anyway...

Saturday:
Breakfast: Fruit and fibre with 7 strawberries and low fat apricot yoghurt (I had run out of milk)
Lunch: 2 egg omelette, an avocado, a wholemeal pitta
Snack (!): About 20 pringles and 2 chocolate cookies (eek pms binge...)
Dinner: 1/2 a margherita pizza (if it helps it wasn't a big greasy takeaway one, it was a thin crust, italian style one with very little cheese...)
Exercise: Gym in the morning - 30 mins resistance work (legs and abs) followed by 30mins jogging on the treadmill; Spent 4 hours walking around town in the afternoon; total of 35 mins cycling - to and from town and to and from the gym.

Sunday:
Brunch: 2 slices french toast with fresh fruit and cinammon (naughty treat not a regular habit! Just fancied it...)
Lunch: None. Started to feel all bloated and icky.
Dinner: Wasn't going to eat but having moaned about my period pain to my husband on the phone, he brought me a shish kebab to eat when he came in (lol) because he knows I need the iron (I tend to get a bit anaemic). But it wasn't too bad - don't panic - 4 cubes marinated and grilled lean beef with a big raw salad and a pitta bread. No sauce - just lemon juice.
Exercise: Basically didn't move all day - was planning to go out for a run but it started pouring with rain in the morning and didn't let off...and then the pain came...
Oh and it's still here.

So far today is not so bad...I didn't make it to the gym because I overslept (fail - someone please tell me how to be less tired in the morning?!) but I have my bellydance class tonight so that will be an hour and a half of hard work - it's quite an intense class. I had my usual breakfast of fruit and fibre with semi skimmed milk, it'll be a salad and fruit for lunch, and i'll try to be good tonight and avoid the urge to eat a big bit of deep fried salty red meat followed by a whole pot of chocolate ice cream...keep your fingers crossed for me...argh sometimes i hate being a woman...xx
 
OK, so, Monday ended up being a funny day. I was really really hormonal and grumpy and sad and irritable and also mega clumsy so managed to do lots of knocking stuff over, tripping over things, dropping stuff etc etc. Diet wise was tough, I was ravenous all day. I ate:

Breakfast - fruit and fibre with semi skimmed milk and a black coffee
Snack - elderflower and poppyseed cake
Lunch - Nut, vegetable and grain salad with a soy and ginger dressing, an apple, a banana
Snack - 3 squares of chocolate
Snack - a grapefruit, unsweetened
Dinner - chicken satay with noodles and a chocolate eclair (hmmm...oops)
Exercise - Belly dance class for an hour and a half. It was a pretty hard workout! I was terrible because i have missed two classes in a row due to travelling and then being ill, so I had no idea about the choreography and I was really out of practice. Combine that with being totally malcoordinated (i always am when i'm on) and i was pretty hopeless! Oh well. It was quite funny. And I've got the choreography sheet to work on this week...

I've been to the gym this morning - did a hard 30 minutes on the cross trainer - and I'm feeling much more cheerful - the PMS is over. Yay! Back to normal.

Hoping to keep up the exercise...keep your fingers crossed for me and my willpower!

x
 
Hi! Tuesday went well.
Breakfast: fruit and fibre with semi skimmed milk and a black coffee
Lunch: Nut, vegetable and grain salad with a soy and ginger dressing, an apple, a small low fat yoghurt
Snack: White chocolate cookie
Dinner: Pea and mint soup, bread roll, avocado
Exercise: 30 mins on cross trainer at the gym; 20 mins cycling (commute)

Don't think I've got time to go to the gym today - got a lunch date with friends and a skype date after work. But you never know...and at the very least I've got my cycling commute as usual.

Anyone have any tips about forcing themselves out of bed early to get to the gym and not feeling tired? I am a light and restless sleeper and often the prospect of an early morning is enough to keep me awake thinking about it! Any suggestions for improving the quality of my sleep?
Thanks! x
 
OK, Here's wednesday:
Breakfast: fruit and fibre with semi skimmed milk and a black coffee
Lunch: Asparagus, cream cheese, red pepper and basil sandwich
Dinner: Dinner: Pea and mint soup, bread roll, meringue nest with strawberries and 2 teaspoons of cream (naughty but nice...)
Exercise: as predicted, only had time for my 20 minute cycle commute. Rubbish. And it looks like I'm going to have the same problem today. Grr. Roll on the weekend so I can fit in some proper exercise...
x
 
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