Pequin Weight Journal

Uh, pequin.
That friend sounds horrible and not like a friend at all. I wish you could get rid of her as easily as changing your shoe! If you are not the confrontational type then maybe you can just stop calling her... You shouldn't keep friends who put you down just because then can and who you don't really want to spend time with anyway...
 
I used to have a "so-called" friend like you. I did what Mahatt suggested I just stopped calling and then when she would call I didn't seem all that interested in what she had to say. After a while the communication became less and less and now I haven't spoken to her in about 3 years.

Good like with your personal. I think it's a great way to meet people. When I used to post I always felt like they were picking me, they could see me in all my glory so if they didn't like what they saw they didn't have to contact me.

Keep up the great work, your food looks great!!! Have fun at your dentist appointment :)
 
pequin said:
As much as she infuriates me sometimes - can't dump the friend.. tried. She's like stuff on your shoe (no not gum)... you can't scrape it off so you just leave it and hope it goes away soon. She lives in Indianapolis, so we don't talk that often thankfully.
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I have a friend liek that as well...i hear ya there, I cant get rid of her so I just put up with her...she lives in ALberta adn I am in Vancouver so I rarely see her, LOL...Just stoppin by to say hey and thanx for droppin by mine nad for your words of encouragement and such :):):)
 
Hi Pequin! Thanks for the *hugs*.

Old friends aren't necessarily good friends, just old. Bleh to her.
 
She's not a good friend but we have history, I've helped her through some very hard times (hmm, pretty one sided - most of my problems are met with, "I'm sorry, that sucks *subject change*" I really do need to start standing up for myself. The more I think about it the more it burns me - what kind of friend says something like that?? Gah. And no - she's far from "all that" - lets just say that she once had a mullet (for many many years actually) and her nickname in high school was 'squirrel'. I figure her digs at me are just a projection of her poor self esteem.

Just got back from the dentist... better than expected but worse than I had hoped. Ton of cavities between my teeth, but I knew about those. No tartar build up, no gingivitis - great job at brushing but I need to floss more.

I go back Monday to get the first of my fillings. I have a cap on my insurance ($600) - he said that all the work I need to have done is going to eat it up pretty quickly. Guess I need to put my nose to the proverbial grindstone and find a job. Otherwise all this work is going to go on the credit card. :eek:

But the worst part of the visit: He thinks he's funny. He thinks he's Robin freakin' Williams... but he just comes of as an asshole. I felt so sorry for his nurse. In the 5 minutes he spent in the room with me, he insulted her at least 3 times just trying to be funny.:rolleyes:

Welp kidos - another MIA day. I have to sew half a dozen cupcakes, walk & lift weights.
 
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Hello Peq,

Oh my when I read that about the so called"friend" I couldn't
believe she would say in that such of way there are many more nicer
ways of putting things!Does the friend think she's all that to? OMG,
have you ever seen the movie "phat girls"it is so funny I like the
part where they take the skinny hott cousin on this carribean type thing
the heavier lady won and she likes this fit muscular guy,lol turns out
where he's from heavier women are more like goddesses and the skinny
woman are looked at as malnutrioned lol!I can't explain but funnnnny!
Anyway sorry about the friend and I hope your day is going better!
Tammy:D
 
Hi, pequin just stopping by to say hi, sorry you had a hard time with your friend, try to have a good day.
 
Hi Pequin,

Sorry about your friend. I had a friend like that once...and well, I haven't seen her in a very long time. She used to make me feel like crapola. But no more... If you can't get rid of her as a friend, then you should try to say something back to her.

Hope all goes well today....
 
pequin said:
Wow does she have a funny way of making me feel like crap without even trying. She said, 'Oh, he's not into fat girls'. I take offense at that on soo many levels, partly that she'd think I'd lie to anyone about being fat - it's right there in my profile, my shining chubby face. And partly, how dare she talk so me like that, especially when she knows how hard I'm working not to be fat. It's like she thinks that just because we have 19 years of friendship - she gets a free insult pass.
What the H@**! Who does she thing she is! I dont' care how much history you have. Your feelings are more important than that! I mean what do you have VICTIM tatooed on your forhead. Absolutely not! Listen I had a friend that called me fat during pregnancy and she is a big girl herself. She found it neccesary to call me huge every chance she got. Well one time she said you are so fat. I said "at least I have a reason". Well that killed that! She never said it again.

Nothing wrong with telling someone off a bit because the respect YOU in the end!
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Oh Pequin - what a jerk she was to say that! I always get those type of insults flung at me (especially from my sister-in-law) and I wish, oh how I wish, I had something witty & eloquent to strike back with but it never happens. I'm usually in shock...and then I just get hurt!
 
Nice friend you have there. I have one of those myself so all you can do is take it with a grain ummmm make that a pound of salt and not worry about it............

Just remember there is a reason why some of those people are on personal sites lol be carefull.....
 
WOW! I cant believe she said you were fat! You should do something evil like have someone put sugar in her gas tank..lol oh maybe not but it sounds fun.

oh the wonderful world of the dentist! I hate going to the dentist. Sure is nice to have insurance. I got my first cavity at the age of 22. I was really disapointed in myself. I had such a good record going. Got my wisdom teeth out in Jan 24th and it cost $2,200. We didnt have insurance. BLAH. It took me 1 month to recover too..lol Im a loser.
Thanks for poppin in my diary ...the support really motivates me.

Good Luck with that firend that is stuck on the bottom of your shoe..lol. :)
 
Lol Hun I have had friends like that, hell girl ive got family like that but I don’t think im much better, my daughter in law has put on a bit of weight in the last 12 months (she works at kfc) the poor little bugger, and she said to me about a month ago I need to buy new cloths mum these aren’t fitting me and me being the bitch I am said no you need to go on a diet…. Just come out of my mouth before my head even had time to think. No wonder girls hate there mother in laws lol. I hope your having a wonderful day.
 
HAHA~~ Sorry, i dont know if this is more funny or sad, but just realized ur name is pequin not penguin, lol, wow, im stupid! Anyways, just wanted to drop by to see how ur doin! :) Hope all is well~ :)
 
Please don't make me bring out the diagram again! ...lol.

Ok - big apologies everyone but I'm not going to make it to everyones journal tonight. I'm soo tired! Plus I've gotta get up early to dog sit my aunt's english bulldog - she has a weak bladder. (the dog, not the aunt ;))

Had a great day again - I went for my walk later because of the dentist appointment. I got stuck in another downpour. Ya know, there really is something sexy about the rain. I don't know why but I just love it!

Went to the sister's house for supper - brother in law made stir-fry, rice & egg rolls. It was yummy but the poor guy just doesn't grasp the fact that you can't make sticky rice with minute rice. It just isn't chemically possible. Calorie wise I'm just going to guess and call it a night - it can't be that bad, he used lean meat & bagged veggies. I know that I'm within range because I only ate 555 cals. through the day.

Food & Activity:
Breakfast: 1 babybel light, 17 pepperoni slices, 5 melba crackers
Lunch: 3/4 subway 6" veggie sub, 1 c. cream of mushroom soup
Snack: baklava
Supper: 1c. stir-fry with sauce, 1c. rice, 1 egg roll

Totals:
Calories (Goal 1640 - 1990): 1,491
Carbs (Goal 184 - 323): 200
Fat (Goal 36 - 77): 65
Protein (Goal 41 - 174): 51

Water: 65oz
Exercise: 1.41 miles
Chin Stretches 50
Bicep curls 50
Dumbell Rows 50
Hammer Curls 50
Leg Curls 50
Tricep Curls 50
Wrist Curls 50
Tricep Kick Backs 50
 
Glad you had a good day Pequin! Sorry about your insensitive friend...reading stories like that make me realize just how great all my friends are...:)
 
Ya know, there really is something sexy about the rain. I don't know why but I just love it!
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I feel the SAME way about rain. I looove it. It's one of the reasons why I love Fall because it gets rainy and damp, and the orang-y colors and the smell of halloween and holidays coming. LOVVVE IT.

Anyhooooo, glad your day was good. Relax girl, relax. :)
 
What is it with friends? I think almost everybody can think of a friend who is easier to just semi-ignore than actually break up with :0)
 
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