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hello all. im new as of today. i started my "diet" oct 23rd. i want to lose weight for my health, i have been overweight since the age of 15, and obese since i was 17. im not going to lie and say i dont want to lose because of people. i am the mother of 2 children and they both make fun of my being large. i think its sad but they are being kids. i also think im single because im large, i dont want to go anywhere, and when i do go somewhere i look so "rough" and dress so "unattractive" no one wants to look at me. i just want to regain my life since i feel i wasted important years of my life being large, not caring, drinking to forget, and not doing anything for me. i so far have lost 11 pounds.... and im happy for that. i wish you all luck! and remember if you have a lot of weight to lose like i do, i advise making daily, weekly,monthly and then yearly goals to keep yourself sane!
 
aww!! sorry to hear your kids make comments about your weight! I have 2 also, both girls. My oldest doesnt' seem to notice my weight ever and my youngest does. She's only made a comment or two about it, but it does hurt!

well this is the beginning of a new life for you though!! we're here for you! let me know if you have any questions :)
 
Hi and welcome. You should not be so hard on yourself. It doesn't matter what size you are, you can still look and dress attractive. Just keep in mind that you have to care about yourself. It sounds like you have made the choice to start changing your life.
This is a good forum for support. We're all here for the same thing to lose some weight and start getting healthier.
Best wishes to you, Lynn
 
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