New Year, New Thread for Those who Weigh 200 lbs/90 Kg or More

Goodjob pink! And guys!! My face is breaking out!! well it's not huge acnes just tiny annoying little pimples! they annoy the shiz out of me!! how to get rid of em besides washing?
 
Ummm......I do not know how to tell you this....but u r waaaaayyyyyyy prettier than this woman


Aww... thanks! :blush5:

Hmm... I think I can get my body to look like her if I stand all awkward and wrap toilet paper around my body to make it look like her bathing suit. LoL. Ooolala sexy!

WE ARE ALL BEAUTIFUL!! NO MATTER WHAT SIZE. COLOR. ShApE.

Every day I look in the mirror and find one thing to compliment myself on. I honestly do believe that if you believe you are beautiful everyone else will too. Yeah, the scale may say otherwise, but then I think... Why am I taking beauty tips from an object that's only designed to spit out numbers?
 
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Thanks to everybody for the welcome, and pink_clouds, ty, but I'm actually not that proud of myself.

You should be proud of yourself.
You've accomplished something great!
Yeah, your number may not be the ideal one in your mind but dont let the 2xx's dissappoint you.
Just getting out of the higher number is always something to celebrate and be proud of.
 
Aww... thanks! :blush5:

Hmm... I think I can get my body to look like her if I stand all awkward and wrap toilet paper around my body to make it look like her bathing suit. LoL. Ooolala sexy!

WE ARE ALL BEAUTIFUL!! NO MATTER WHAT SIZE. COLOR. ShApE.

Every day I look in the mirror and find one thing to compliment myself on. I honestly do believe that if you believe you are beautiful everyone else will too. Yeah, the scale may say otherwise, but then I think... Why am I taking beauty tips from an object that's only designed to spit out numbers?

She is standing awkward isn't she LOL

Well Veronica, me personally I do not think that we are all beautiful, "we" meaning mankind. There are many people I do not think are beautiful, and I am sure there are some weird creatures on this earth that will not find me beautiful as well :p There are very few people who I think are ugly, and more often than not it is because of their attitude / behavior / personality.

I know I am beautiful and see many beautiful things about myself. Eh some days I feel a little fluffy and some days not so cute, but that's ok. I think that's normal...probably part of being human. I cannot think of anyone else on this earth who I would want to be besides myself, and those not so cute days are few and far between ;) I am one hot mama :D Sometimes insults from others can hurt, but when it really boils down to it, it does not change the view I have of myself. If others think I am not beautiful...that's really okay with me....so long as they still treat me with common respect. And let me clarify...if someone tells me, "I do not find you attractive," i do not think that is an insult because it is their opinion expressed with common respect. But if someone says to me "MY WORD you are UGLeeee" I would think that is an insult. I think insults hurt me sometimes because they catch me a bit off guard...normally it comes from people I have either been nice to or least expect it from. Its pretty rude to insult people when they have done absolutely nothing to you. Sometimes I am still surprised at the things people say and the ill-will people harbor in their hearts towards other men and women. This is what hurts me the most.

Inner beauty really supersedes outer beauty for me. Someone can be physically unattractive and once I know them and their beautiful soul, i can honestly not see that person as unattractive anymore. I cannot think it or say it. I also cannot stand dishonest compliments, I will never tell someone they are pretty or beautiful unless I mean it. There are some people I can say are pretty even though they are ugly inside. It's true they are physically beautiful...but it stops there LOL If people reject my compliments or think nothing of them, that's cool....I'm definitely not the ultimate authority on things:hat:

So yeah...I think this world has beautiful people as well as ugly people, physically and personality-wise. From one person to the next opinions differ, and beauty truly is in the eye of the beholder. To me an ugly personality is one of the ugliest things in the common era :p
 
Thanks to everybody for the welcome, and pink_clouds, ty, but I'm actually not that proud of myself.

Why is that Tamwalt? It's such a huge accomplishment!!!! If I lost 15 lbs I think I would be doing some breakdancing....like one of those headspinning floor worm things...

You are doing awesome darlin' don't let anything or anyone take away from that! It took a lot of strength for you to start this journey and you have already crossed a major milestone. Allow yourself to enjoy your victories :hurray: you are so worth it....and even more :) :grouphug:
 
Goodjob pink! And guys!! My face is breaking out!! well it's not huge acnes just tiny annoying little pimples! they annoy the shiz out of me!! how to get rid of em besides washing?

Thanks Kevi! Believe me I am happy about every pound lost :willy_nilly: I do not have any really good advice on pimples. My only thoughts are maybe it is diet related....have u been eating greasy stuff? Any recent changes in your diet? Could also be hormones.
 
I'm a very impatient person, lol... I guess that's one reason, and secondly, I just want better results, I know I'll be proud of myself when I reach 250, 200, and definitely 140, but *shrugs* in due time I suppose.
 
yes I understand that all too well lol I am giving myself 20 months to make this happen and the first month is almost over. Not a bad month so far i lost three pounds. We will get there :D:D We have similar goals....I am waiting to hit 135 :D my ultimate goal.
 
Yeah, I understand.

I wish this would all happen faster for myself too. I just know that if I dont feel proud of myself for my little losses that I will just give up.

My first goal is to get down to 200 by the end of the year. I hope it's possible. That's around 45 pounds I need to lose within 7 months. Eh, I'm not so sure anymore. Maybe it is possible for me. This month has been awesome for me, the weight has been comming off quickly compaired to when I first started and wasn't losing anything.

The goal weight I want to be at is 165. I think that'd be an appropriate ideal weight considering my height and my bone size.
 
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She is standing awkward isn't she LOL

Well Veronica, me personally I do not think that we are all beautiful, "we" meaning mankind. There are many people I do not think are beautiful, and I am sure there are some weird creatures on this earth that will not find me beautiful as well :p There are very few people who I think are ugly, and more often than not it is because of their attitude / behavior / personality.

I know I am beautiful and see many beautiful things about myself. Eh some days I feel a little fluffy and some days not so cute, but that's ok. I think that's normal...probably part of being human. I cannot think of anyone else on this earth who I would want to be besides myself, and those not so cute days are few and far between ;) I am one hot mama :D Sometimes insults from others can hurt, but when it really boils down to it, it does not change the view I have of myself. If others think I am not beautiful...that's really okay with me....so long as they still treat me with common respect. And let me clarify...if someone tells me, "I do not find you attractive," i do not think that is an insult because it is their opinion expressed with common respect. But if someone says to me "MY WORD you are UGLeeee" I would think that is an insult. I think insults hurt me sometimes because they catch me a bit off guard...normally it comes from people I have either been nice to or least expect it from. Its pretty rude to insult people when they have done absolutely nothing to you. Sometimes I am still surprised at the things people say and the ill-will people harbor in their hearts towards other men and women. This is what hurts me the most.

Inner beauty really supersedes outer beauty for me. Someone can be physically unattractive and once I know them and their beautiful soul, i can honestly not see that person as unattractive anymore. I cannot think it or say it. I also cannot stand dishonest compliments, I will never tell someone they are pretty or beautiful unless I mean it. There are some people I can say are pretty even though they are ugly inside. It's true they are physically beautiful...but it stops there LOL If people reject my compliments or think nothing of them, that's cool....I'm definitely not the ultimate authority on things:hat:

So yeah...I think this world has beautiful people as well as ugly people, physically and personality-wise. From one person to the next opinions differ, and beauty truly is in the eye of the beholder. To me an ugly personality is one of the ugliest things in the common era :p



I completely agree with what you are saying. I'm an inner beauty person too. I've known way too many beautiful girls and handsom guys who spew hurtful and shallow things which makes them totally ugly to me.
 
I'm a very impatient person, lol... I guess that's one reason, and secondly, I just want better results, I know I'll be proud of myself when I reach 250, 200, and definitely 140, but *shrugs* in due time I suppose.
I'm feeling you, and I have a problem with getting excited over losing a pound or two and eating crap until they come back.

Also, what a cute avatar pic! You look nonplussed. :)
 
I'm also very impatient! I keep telling myself to run, but end up not running lol. I do lift weights and play basketball afterwards so yeah. I think that's normal, just keep doing what your doing and you'll be fine.
 
Also, what a cute avatar pic! You look nonplussed. :)

LOL!! Thanks! :D ... to you too pink.

When I get to my goal weight of 140, I'll decide if I want to lose a bit more or not, but 140 would be right on the border of being a normal weight... according to online BMI calculators... but, I'll adjust it when I get to that point :D... I;m hoping with in less than 2 years... is that even realistic? I don't want my Son to remember me as morbidly obese... but as the fun, healthy, fit cool Mom! :D He's one, I still have some time....:willy_nilly:
 
Tamwalt, I totally believe that you can lose the weight you want to within 2 years.

I bet your son is probably having you chase him around the house since he's walking/running now huh?

Kids are so cute. I dont have any of my own but I can't believe how fast they grow up.
 
Do you guys ever want to just wake up at your ideal weight. lol... What would that be like, without all the work etc.. I don't know random thought, but I think it would be pritty weird and it wouldn't feel like me..

Oh my, the minute I read this part in your post I was reminded of this episode of the original Twilight Zone series. (LoL... I'm such a Sci-fi channel nerd)

I haven't seen that episode in forever, but I believe the girl in it got to a certain age, so her mom sent her to this factory type of place where they sat you down and while there you got to choose what kind of a body you wanted based on the pictures of what they considered to be the "beautifully perfect" women in the world. I might be telling it wrong... but that's pretty much my take on what I remember from that episode.

I think that'd be crazy to just wake up your ideal weight. Ha, I remember when I was in high school I went to sleep one night and prayed that I could wake up looking like J-Lo. LoL, boy was I disappointed. What would also be weird is if you could wake up and just like choosing your clothing for the day, you can choose what size bottom / bust / other body parts you wanted to have for that day. LoL.
 
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Pink I loved your post about being BEAUTIFUL.. Love it, totaly get it and agree...

Thanks Hope....I thought i was maybe coming off a bit bi##hy, but its really how I feel and I am a bit conceited regardless of what others think of me:blush5:

Do you guys ever want to just wake up at your ideal weight. lol... What would that be like, without all the work etc.. I don't know random thought, but I think it would be pritty weird and it wouldn't feel like me.. I think we need to earn that body back, so we can "own" it when we get there... It will come, like with all things, in time. Patience is a verchue, although it's really anoying to have to wait.. lol

If i woke up my ideal weight i would call in that day and request an immediate vacation....I then would hit up Bloomingdales, Macys, some other stores at the mall, and the Dooney and Bourke outlet. Before i go anywhere, I honestly think I would spend like 3 hours in the mirror, one hour in the shower, and one hour putting on lotion. It's a good thing the malls are open late :D:D:D

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What would also be weird is if you could wake up and just like choosing your clothing for the day, you can choose what size bottom / bust / other body parts you wanted to have for that day. LoL.

:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
This is wild!!
 
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