Little John
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I'm back, I'm back. I have a big goal for this year, way out of the scope of anything I've done before this thread. I want to lose 100 pounds over the course of 2017. I know it won't be easy, but this is my plan:
I know I've dropped the ball on my own game several times in the past, but I will succeed this time. The wallet-sized breakdown list is:
*Any Stern fans?
- Stress is a big contributor to my issues, and I need to do more than just step away from triggers for a deep breath. I found this article for "reprogramming" the triggers, so I will start using them religiously, especially the first two items. I've even condensed the pointers into a wallet-sized guide (list below). As a natural-born cynic, it won't be easy to rely on inspirational guidelines, since I usually like to make fun of them, but I'm going to work on it.
- If my mantra plus tantra doesn't equal yantra*, I'll talk to my doctor about other approaches.
- My registered dietician has recommended I take their stress-management seminar, so I'll do that, too.
- Exercise the minute I get home, before I even talk to family. I need that "door" between work and family times that the commute just doesn't resolve. Exercise will include lifting, rowing, and now yoga. Did yoga for the first time last night and I'm not good at it. But I was sweating heavily, heart was racing, and I felt good afterwards, which is the point.
- Adhere to using MyFitnessPal to track my intake. I am currently on 2000 calories a day.
- Weigh in twice a week.
- Check in here with status as often as possible.
I know I've dropped the ball on my own game several times in the past, but I will succeed this time. The wallet-sized breakdown list is:
- Say to yourself, “Feel compassion for myself” “Feel compassion for others” “Feel compassion for all living beings.”
- “How do I feel?” “What do I need?” “Do I need support?”
- “I feel angry that…” “I feel sad / afraid / guilty / grateful / happy / secure / proud that…”
- “I hate it that…” Pause and take a few deep breaths, then say the words: “I feel sad that … I feel afraid that … I feel guilty that …” “OF COURSE I could overeat because my unreasonable expectation is…” “I cannot get my safety from food … I can get my safety from connecting to myself”
- “Do not judge. Minimize harm. Know it will pass. After all, it’s just stress and it will fade.”
*Any Stern fans?
