Stefani1
New member
I agree with everyone else that you look great just the way you are but I understand wanting to keep going. Your BMI is very close to mine and I'm only a couple pounds away from my goal weight. I will never wear a bikkini because of my stretch marks and I'm so shocked you were heavier than me at your highest (mine was 224) but you don't look like you have a single mark on your belly.
I blame it on not trying to lose weight till all the damage had been done and I was older. I think because you decided at a young age to start getting healthy you made the best decision of your life! I totally understand the hard battle and hard work you put into it and you should be really proud. I also understand the skewed body imagine thing. People tell me I look great just the way I am and I'm starting to believe them but it takes time. I saw some girls this weekend that looked too skinny and my hunnie kept saying don't lose more weight - sure I might not look amazing in a bathing suit but I'm happy the way I look with clothes on and I never want to be one of those girls people say are too skinny - it's not healthy looking and guys really aren't attracted to them. Keep it up and whatever you decide will be the right thing.
I'm really thankful that I do not have any stretch marks on my tummy, but I do have them on my thighs, breasts, butt and lower back. They have faded somewhat, but they'll always be visible, unfortunately. So I still have some damage done lol but I am glad that I started losing weight when I was so young because I probably avoided any further marks like you said.
After joining this forum I am slowing starting to realize that my body image is skewed, because I have only gotten positive feedback from everyone here. I was truly shocked by the response! I have never gotten so many compliments and support in my life!
Thank you in particular for your support and feedback! It always makes me feel like I'm not alone when people understand the lengths to which I've gone to reach my current weight.