My body--screwed either way?+Stuff

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Usagi.Love

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Well, there are a few things I'd like to address here. Number one is my goal weight. I am not looking to be incredibly thin. I wouldn't mind being curvy that much. I've never been thin, ever, I've always been a fatty. I'm a little nervous about what I'd look like thin, and have no desire to be. My main issues are my double chin, and my fat belly.


Also, I am an 18 year old girl. I am like 260lbs approximately. My breasts are completely destroyed from being overweight and that frustrates me. I'm sure there's no need to explain it, it is a weight loss forum,but what do I do? I'm going to make all this progress to still be unhappy with my body? I know that I should be doing it just to make the healthy change, but it's hard to comprimise food for something that I might just be less satisfied with anyways.I could never afford to have breast lift or anything like that . People say that because I'm "young" that my skin will bounce back,but I don't think that'll fix the problem. It depresses me.:doh:
 
I've not been in your same spot, but I have a very deformed belly button since my first pregnancy. As I loose weight, it looks worse. I understand the fear of loosing weight and being a bit afraid of what the outcome may be.

But... there's a few good things about staying on track (and I'll skip the health benefits). Sexy legs. Buff arms. AND being able to have marathon like... uhm... anyway...

May I ask, if you could afford a breast lift, would you do it? And now I won't ask anymore tough questions.
 
I could never afford to have breast lift or anything like that
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Sweetie, never say never. If it is something you want, you can start saving now. You wouldn't want to get it until after you reach your goal weight anyway. It can be a reward you give yourself for all the hard work.
but it's hard to comprimise food for something that I might just be less satisfied with
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Far worse to compromise your life for food.
Don't let yourself get sucked into a spiral of negative thinking. You will not be able to make positive changes that way.
 
You may not have "destroyed" your breasts as much as you think. Many women lose alot of weight from their as they lose weight, I know I am. I've always been a rather large breasted woman, even in high school when I was slim. After 2 kids now, they're far from perfect, but with a good underwire bra, no one knows :)
 
Thank you guys.

Umm, if I could afford it, I don't think I'd have one yet. I'm still 18, and plan on trying to have kids in the near future.

I've read that a breast life may cause complications for breast feeding, but also, it would probably reverse the surgery anyways. I'd rather save money for it for after my child bearing years.
 
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