Absolutely, there are some days I hate hitting that friggin' dirty , sweaty sock smelling, rusted out old gym. Everybody does sometime or other.
The people I observe having these problems A LOT usually have the same reason behind it (usually):
- No specific goal (I'm just here to stay fit or I want to lose fat and gain muscle at the same time, are reasons of failure) Be specific as possible and set short term protocols to hit a solid (REALISITIC) goal.
- No journal and no phases of training. You probably won't see changes immediately, but seeing the amount of weight increase each week usually adds enough charge to people to get the job done.
- Loser for a training partner. Nothing wrong with a training buddy, as long as they can spot a bench press without having to practice his/her upright row. If they are not as eager as you and don't see getting to the gym is an important part of the day.....lose the bum.
- A crappy program. Yanking programs out of magazines and off the internet can be fun OR they can be more damaging and demoralizing than good. Make the program suit your goals and address any injuries or shortcomings you may have....it is your frankenstein.
- Hire a trainer for a consultation or two. Don't hire the goofball just looking to bring you to your knees because of his divorce battles. Do a little homework on the guy or gal you wish to invest time and money in. Any chimpanzee can make someone sweat and burn a little. It takes a good trainer to actually address your goals and teach you good ways to get it done.
Goodluck to ya'