Losing Weight: Eleanor's Journey

eleanor

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Losing Weight: A Journey

Yeeeaaaayyyyyy! I've finally found a place that I could be to get some support for losing weight :)

Let the journey begin!

If anybody's reading this.. I'm standing back again on my feet to shed off those unwanted pounds (they're 45 lb by the way). I have tried numerous times before, and failed because I don't think the motivation I had and received, along with the REASONS I had were good enough.

So now that I have a good support team (hopefully), with me being a supporter to anyone who needs it, AND that I now have joint and colon problems :)() as good reasons to lose weight, I'm more determined than ever to make this thing happen.

I was glad that someone, who happened to be my friend, made a bad remark on my weight publicly a few days ago, just when I had started a day on my new journey. Yes, I was taken aback by it and overate to compensate my anger and dissapointment. But that overeating was not as bad as the last time, because I managed to stop myself and think.

Overeating is not the solution.

Telling the person how sensitive I am when he or she makes that remark IS. Or some other means.. but the point is, degrading yourself by excessive eating is definitely not gonna help you to achieve weight loss.

So challenge #1: Criticism by people around you. I can handle that the next time.. GO ME!!

Challenge #2: I have this weekly gatherings with my close friends. A friend of mine would always cook for us as it's often held at her place. However the food, despite being delicious, have too much of refined sugar and carb in it that I just can't eat for me to lose weight. Do you think by my indulging in unhealthy food once a week will affect my progress? I don't know.. but I know that I have the willpower to say no to junk food.. it's just that i wouln't want to hurt my friend's feelings by not eating the food she prepares :(

Should I just tell my friends that I want to lose weight and plead them to understand my situation? It may seem easy, but trust me, when you're the only one who wants to lose weight..it doesn't look too easy! unless you have supportive friends over this losing weight matter. Hmm.. maybe I'll confront them.. we'll just see how it goes :)

Lalalalallalalaa..
 
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Hi,

Welcome to the forum and good luck on your weight loss journey. It is very hard and I found quite embarrasing to tell your friends you are on a diet (especially as all my friends are super skinny), but if they really are your friends they will understand your aims and hopefully support you along the way.

As for the dinner with your friends, maybe take along your own, so you can eat with them without having to tuck into all the bad food. Or you could calculate roughly the calories in your friends cooking and use it as a treat within your calorie limit and try and compensate by eating less on other days or doing more exercise.

Good luck
 
Welcome Eleanor!

Good for you for starting again...I know how hard it is. As much as I've hated being overweight for half my life now, I've never been able to commit to it...until now. You will find awesome support here!

As to your friend's dinners...can you talk to her about it? She may be willing to cook healthier for you. Or she may be willing to provide alternatives for you to eat. And if she is really your friend, she won't be offended if you ask if you can bring something healthy for yourself. She "should" be supportive of you. :)
 
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