Question about a prolly tired subject ( skin shrinkage )
Hi all, sorry Im new so dont yell at me to much. I did a search ( prolly not the best ) and couldnt find what I was looking for, so I thought Id ask. Heres a brief history on what been going on with me.
Always lifted weights from HS on ( periods of time, but never consistently ). Junior year was 225, Senior year 250 and it slowly got worse. At one point I hit 273 and said thats it, and I dieted, trained etc.. I went down to 232 ( this was in 92 ( this weight lasted fr a ski trip I went on and that was about it ). Since then I put the weight back and maintained it at 275 till about 4 years ago. I ballooned up to 313 AHHHHHH ( damn pizza place I worked at ). I met a girl ( online, and she knew my weight ) amd wanting to change for her, I dropped to 280 in about 4 months. We stayed together for 2 years and it ended. By the time she left I was back up to 300. Ok 2005, I said to myself, Im getting older, Im single and want kids, so I better do something about it ( meaning the weight loss ) so I started to diet again, but this time it was different. I never was a big eater, just a huge soda fein ( easily a case a day ), so I just eat healthier and dropped soda and water is my friend ( I love you Aquafina ) and it has dropped my weight for the starting year of 2006 to ...... 238 Yea me, wooooo hold on, this is where my question comes in.
Back for the ski trip when I lost the 40 lbs, my skin was fine no sagginess no nothing ( which I understand, I was younger ) but now after losing the 62 I noticed my skin to be ummm lets call it alil more excessive than I would like. Its not tight ( ok, Im older now, the skin shrinake is gonna be at a slower rate ). My question... How slow????? I have set a goal to be at no particular weight, but just fit into a pair of 36 size jeans, with some nice abs ( see Im lifting again, so thats why I say no particular weight, but I would love to see like 180 and then like 45lbs of pure muscle ). Since the new year everything is a bit more giggly and yes I am a guy and self concious, but I dont take my shirt off anymore ( at 313 I had no problems cause it was all tight, I accepted it ). My weight has gone up to 242 cause Im afraid to lose anymore weight cause I dont want the saggy skin ( anyone catch that episode of Dr. Phil ( I was home on a rain day and was flipping the channels ) with that girl that regretted losing the weight??? Thats becoming me ). At my age, 34, how long will it take for the skin to reform? Should I stop losing weight, wait for the skin to shrink to where Im at now and then start again? Surgury is not an option cause I will not have any scars, Id rather be fat, sorry. SO can anyone offer any help, suggestions, reassurance, anything????
Oh my stats, Im 6'0 with wide shoulders. Heres a photo of me from the chest up ( sorry to new to show off my belly, which is were resides the 60 lbs of soda ) so you can see that most of the weight is in my belly and get an idea of my frame size....
PS, really sorry for going on like that for just a simple question.