Patience
I read some other members posts about patience. That is so true. reflecting on what happened to me today, I need to focus more on patience and making short term goals that I can stick to. Heres my story - I ate healthy today until dinner. For dinner I had a bowl of cereal, well thats not unhealthy, but it left me hungry a little while later, and so what I did was - there are food spots open around campus until 10 o'clock, and I went and got a sandwich .... and the 4 sides that come with the meal deal, and instead of getting fruit or another healthy choice, I picked all 4 unhealthy sides, i.e. mini chips ahoy, mini oreos, baked lays, and sunchips and for a drink I chose sprite, not diet sprite either. so now as i sit here and reflect on my bad experience, I will move forward with this in mind - instead of being very hungry and then eating poorly, I will have a healthy snack, like a portion of fig newtons, fruit or veggies.
Another one of my problem areas is that I often want to lose weight in extremes, so I will try to eat as little as possible as often as possible, but im throwing in that towel, because clearly that is not correct and will never give me long term weight loss. I will now focus on making small changes - and being patient!
I'm really glad I can express my issues on this website, and read what other people have to say, and get their advice, it helps soooooo much!!