Journey, Not A Destination

Yesterday I did the day three.

As I was doing it, I was thinking I was really going to hate you today, but really love you in six weeks ;).

But I don't feel to terrible today. I upped the weight with each set of the weighted crunches, but it wasn't enough, so I'll up again next time, too. Maybe my core just likes me... I wish it would show more that it likes me though! Maybe it's the pilates and yoga that I do? Who knows...

Competition this month, too. My friend and I (she's in the army and currently on active duty) are having a bench press competition. Neither of us know our one rep max so we're competing for highest one rep max by the end of the month. Not a ton of pressure on this one though. Just something to keep us occupied :).

I'm going to kick her army butt ;). Or should I say army pecs?

Month following, maybe her and I will have to do a squat competition.

Our long term competition for her return home is fastest 3 mile runner. So far, she's got me beat on this one.

Early Congrats on your marriage!!! I hope you have a great day and a great honeymoon to follow :).

(I'm leaving tomorrow morning and you'll be gone when I get back.)
 
Wow, I have a lot of catching up to do in here. I'll get to it ASAP, and my apologies.... busy time for me right now!

Morning everyone :)
 
Wow, I have a lot of catching up to do in here. I'll get to it ASAP, and my apologies.... busy time for me right now!

Morning everyone :)

Just because you're getting married in less than a week you think you can slack off on your duties??? :D

Hope you had a restful weekend...
 
Yes, it's an adjustable rack and the bench is detached (and quite light) so I'll just have to push it out of the way.

Gotcha. Well, I think you understand what you need. I don't really get what you are saying.... but I haven't seen it. I'm a visual learner.

If you know it will work for what you need, great! :)


My husband will kill me if I check the link now... he wants to go to the store, so I'll stop in tomorrow and check that one out and let you know. [/quote]

Understood.

Now that I have 300 lbs of weights, I'll start with the 201 then.

Good.

I did get a nice package deal. 300 lb for 109 plus bar. Olympic size though, but the bench I have would accomodate either. I think the bar is 100 lbs on it's own! I got the bench set up alone. Brought it into my house by myself... It was not an easy task even just rocking it back and forth. Thankfully no stairs! The weights, I'll bring in tonight.

Why doesn't hubby help?

And that IS a great deal! Very nice.

The bar is 100 lbs? Are you sure about that? A standard olympic bar weighs 45 lbs.

These (SHELCS) actually were quite easy. I had my arms on the ground for the first couple, but then placed them across my chest to make it a bit more challenging. Slowed it down to make myself have to balance more, too.

Great. Did you feel it in your hamstrings? If not, you might want to try a slower tempo with this exercise, since it's a bodyweight exercise.

And don't forget about the hip extension portion of the exericse. I find many people just want to curl the ball in before extending the hip.

I think what I'll do is just focus on the protien first, and once that's consistent then work on the rest. I cant make it all perfect at once so if I get too much fat or calories while getting my protien right for a couple weeks, so be it.

That's a good attitude. Baby steps. :)

I gave Mucle Milk to my brother in law because I hated it. I don't mind the soy protien bars at 19 g of protien per bar. I can up those to one a day while still getting in some whey at another time in the day, too. Whey protien bars... EEK! They are scary so hopefully I'll find a powder. I'll stop in my local GNC and Vitamin world and see if they have any samples or for numbers to call to get a sample.

Soy is fine, but not the greatest in terms of muscle-related activities. I'd shoot for whey or casein. I know I've posted a bunch of times, lists of ideas for foods containing protain. I may have already in our previous convo.... can't remember.
 
9 days!!!! I knew it was next weekend, but putting it in days just makes it seem so much closer. I don't know why.

My husband and I were together for 5 or 6 years before getting married. I met him while I was married the first time, but fell in love with him the moment we met. We never yelled once at each other. Yeah, we disagree over whether or not to buy a new computer vs new living room furniture, but yelling, IMO, is never healthy. I wouldn't want my daughter growing up thinking it was okay to be in relationships without respect, because to me, yelling at someone is a lack of respect for them.

I think your relationship sounds very healthy and I hope even post kids, it stays that way :). Sounds like, as it is, you'll both be good role models for your kids.

Thanks :)

PS- Tomorrow I'm scheduled for doing pull ups 3x6. When I last did them, I could only make it to three in one set. It's been a few months so I'm thinking I'll go each rep to where I can't do another then use a chair to get to the top then use the eccentric contraction for how many ever are left after I cant pull myself up anymore. Is that appropriate?

100% correct.

And I'm impressed that you can do 3 full pullups.
 
Wow, 5 days to go. . . you guys must be getting really excited. I am so happy for you. Have a great day!
 
I don't want to take medicine for it. I have an idea of why I started having it, and how to handle a flare-up, which I'm experiencing right now. I take soluble fibre, pre and probiotics, avoid cafeine/alcohol/artificial sweetners/sugar/additive as much as I can, avoid raw fruit and veggies, avoid gluten and diary etc. Once things get better (I am better already - not passing undigested food anymore), I can slowly start to re-introduce food. It's a bit drastic and I never could be bothered before, but it does work. It's just a bit hard to eat enough as choices are limited.

That's tough, best of luck!!


LBM? How much protein should I am for then?

LBM = Lean body mass.

So if you are 125 lbs @ 22% body fat.... that means you have 27.5 lbs of fat and your LBM = 97.5. In this example, the individual should try and get at least 1 gram per pound of LBM, or, roughly 100 grams.

The general recommendation is 1-1.5 grams per lb of LBM. But this must be tweaked to your individual needs. Personally, I go to the higher end of the aforementioned range while dieting and I go to the lower end while bulking.


As in to maintain current weight yep.

Sounds right to me.

The trainer who does my gym review every 5 weeks (it's part of the gym contract thing - I dont pay him extra for it). I joined the gym in feb, and had a 2 month break during easter then exam time, so yeah I'm a newb. The first 2 months I had another guy who made me do 12x3 but he kept perving on my ass and chatting me up, so I got pissed off (and so did my bf we go to the same gym) and changed.

Wow, your previous trainer sounded like a real professional. :rolleyes:

But he was more in line with what I like, which is heavy training. I don't know about the 12 sets.... if that is what you really meant. But the 3 reps I like, again, if that is what you really meant.

I don't have an issue with your current rep range, as long as you and/or your trainer has a master "plan" as to where you are heading. As time goes on, you should work more of a "strength" component into your routine. Think a handful of sets using a 4-6 rep scheme.

Really, I think no matter what (bulking or cutting) you should always use the 4-6 rep range as your foundation and build around that depending on your current goals.

Is it? About 1h-1h20? Not sure but to count cycling to the gym and back, and changing, it takes me 2h.

Yea, your volume seems a bit much.... especially if you were dieting when following that program.

Confused - you mean before doing x reps and x sets at 200lb you'd do this warm up?

Yes.

Most people don't understand what/why a strength training warm up is and why they are doing it.
 
So hopefuly I'll become the squat master with these instructions :D thanks a lot!

I'll try the assisted pull-up too.

Sounds good! :)

Plain old intervals right now - I know I will have to spice it up a bit. I do a mixture: cardio bores the shit out of me so I don't have a set routine. I do usually 15 minutes of intervals then carry on for a bit, and then swap to another machine. Basically I always make sure that I get really out of breath and tired.

Haha, I share your views of cardio. I HATE it. But I do it.

However, I don't make sure I get really out of breath. Especially when bulking.

When I am cutting, I will add in high intensity things such as IT, HIIT, complexes, etc. And b/c this involves a high level of intensity, I will really reduce the volume of my strength training. Reason being: when dieting you are in a caloric deficit. That said, your body does not have the capacity to build any new muscle while in an energy deficient state. So the best you can do is maintain your current muscle. And maintaining muscle is a lot simpler than building new. That said, you can reduce volume by as much as 2/3 and still maintain muscle. Of course you have to be doing the right things in the gym too!

This reduction in volume in terms of weight lifting makes room for the higher intensity cardio crap.

Make sense?

Too much of anything is not good. There is a lot going on in terms of local and systemic fatigue that you must account for or your results and body will suffer.

On a bulk, things are a bit different. I avoid all high intensity cardio crap. I simply add a couple of sessions of low/medium intensity steady state cardio per week just to maintain my cardiovascular conditioning.

I find that throwing a bunch of high intensity crap into the mix while bulking will hinder your primary goal, which is to increase muscle mass.

While I bulk, I might do 2 30 minute steady state sessions per week at something like 140 beats per minute of heart rate. That's it on the cardio side of things.

Hopefully you are seeing the big picture here. It's like we have bucket of "fitness." We can apply that fitness to only so many activities and intensities. The greater the intensity, the more "fitness" you must utilize.

So you must be wise in your utilization of "fitness." Essentially, you must match your fitness-use to your goals.

My legs often feel very wobbly... What should I do then?

Let's get these basic concepts down first than we will talk specifics.

OK any suggestions then? For example I could do 1 intense session, 2 less intense sessions? What's "less intense"? 50% of max heart rate?

This I touched on above. Let me know if you have any more questions on the topic.



You guessed right generally speaking.

Well it worked though :D and my back is better for it (since I strenghened by back and my abs, it doesnt hurt anymore). I guess I could to less to maintain.

You can build strength without so much frequency/volume. Actually, you could probably build more strength without them.

I find that they're the first thing that go though

Explain, "the first thing to go."

Thank you so much for helping me out. I'm going away in 2 weeks for a month, so I think the best thing to do is during these 2 weeks is to research what to do next, and how to implement your guidelines, then once I'm back from holidays (apparently there is a gym with a monthly membership there so I'll try joining), do my gym review and explain to the guy what I want to do, see what he says (he might be useful if I have a precise goal), and start something new altogether. Combined with a decent way of eating (things should have calmed down by now), I should see some results!

Sounds like an excellent plan.

Don't put so much faith into your gym review. In my experience, it's very rare that you get a trainer who knows what their talking about. Especially in a free "gym review."

You can obtain more concrete answers to your questions on a forum such as this. You realize that you are talking to very qualified people here too?

Is there a post on this board that leasts good websites with accurate info?

Pertaining to what? I don't think there is a post like that but I have more links to sites than anyone I know.

What sort of information are you looking for?
 
Im not concerned abt my walking - I walk because I enjoy it and have a dog that needs to be walked it isnt my only source of exercise and I dont do it as my exercise...

That's a good way to look at it. Walking falls under multiple categories. I call it exercise.... but for most, it's just a simple way to increase your activity. I certainly wouldn't stop doing it! :)

No - I use the elliptical and the treadmill at home...

Okay, now I'm understanding what your "split" looks like.

Curves is a circut training gym for woman...it is strength training and cardio for 30 mins...

Yea, I know what curves is.

Am I a fan?

Truthfully, not really. I'm not one to say something is right or wrong. However, I don't believe circuit type of training is conducive for most people not only looking to lose weight, but also looking to improve their physique.

Losing weight is very simple in generic terms. Take all the psychological stuff out of the equation and you're left with a very simple equation. Burn more calories than you take in and you will lose.

There are endless possibilities to do to increase your caloric expenditure.... Curves being one of them.

However, not everyone correlates losing weight to looking better.

I know I don't.

I'd rather see you doing cardio at it's designated times during the week and strength training at the other times.

I realize that's asking a lot.... and I don't expect you to hop right onto this immediately. But it should be something you think about.

About the only thing Curves is good for is their marketing. They selected a very specific (needy) group of our population (overweight women) to market themselves too. This being said, they got a lot of people off their asses, which is great considering the condition of our society. Something is always better than nothing when it comes to fitness and health.

However, I would've much preferred a different mode of exercise than how they set up their circuit training. But if they were to do things "right," they wouldn't be able to move people in/out the doors like cattle as fast as they can, thus creating lower sales, which is the number one priority.

I attend Curves 3 times a week and 7 days a week I rotate the elliptical and treadmill at home...

Gotcha.

Elliptical - I will use for anywhere from 30 mins 60 mins either 3.5miles or 6 miles...

I assume you are doing this at a steady pace?

Treadmill 30 mins on average rotating walking/jogging at one or two min intervals at a speed of 3 - 3.5 - im just starting out on the treadmill I average 1.25 - 1.5 miles...Im slowing getting better and faster and pushing myself harder...

Sounds excellent.

I was told by the wmn at Curves that it is strength training and therfor I shouldnt be doing weights on top of attending Curves...

In their sense, strength training is anything that involves lifting weights, no matter of what that weight is and what the parameters are that establish the "routine."

Strength training to me is a planned out schedule of using relatively heavy compound exercises to induce a change in your body. You basically force your body to adapt, which is the backbone of exercise.

Curves does not do this. Maybe for the absolute noob. But in no way, shape, or form do I consider curves strength training.

Probually - however dinner is always a sit down meal that consists of a meat - usually chicken or hamburger or pork...veggies of course and a salad or rice or potatoe...

You should be getting a healthy dose of protein at each meal. How many meals do you eat per day? And sorry if you told me this before, but what are you current stats?

I do eat meat but I find during the day it is easier to just eat the fruits and veggies and somethign a little more solid- I eat my meals and snacks in the car and I find by eating the fruits and veggies during my work day it is easier for me to control my calories and my eating

Honestly, I think you need to plan out your eating schedule a bit better.

First step is determine what your caloric goal is. You've probably done this already from the sounds of it.

Suppose it's 2000 calories.

Next, you should figure out how much protein you need. This will vary from person to person, but the ideal range of intake is going to be 1-1.5 grams per lb of lean body mass.

If you aren't really strength training, which you aren't currently, you don't need to shoot that high.

1 g per kg would probably be fine.

Suppose this equates to 120 grams of protein.

Next spread that intake of protein out over the number of meals you shoot for in a given day. Suppose 4.

Now you know you need to figure out how to work in 30 grams or protein at each of the 4 times you eat throughout the day.

You then subtract from your total caloric goal, which was again, 2000. Each gram of protein has 4 calories. You are going to be taking in 120 grams in this example, which equates to 480 calories. You still have 1520 calories to work with.

And you still have 2 macronutrients to work into the mix.... those being fats and carbs.

You go through the same procedure with both of these, starting with fats.

Follow me?

Yes very much so...I am a single mom of two - I work for a cleaning company - im in my car and on the road all day - Im usually on the go from the minute I get up till I go to bed...

I share your hectic schedule. My only benefit is that I have a sit down job that allows me to eat what and when I want.

But I've worked with people who have schedules you wouldn't believe if I told you. Think med students with kids. Small business owners, etc. Just insane schedules.

It comes down to how bad to you want change. If you want it bad enough, you will make sure you do what is required in order to reach your goals. It really is that simple.

Personally, if I was on the road most of the day, you damn well better believe that I'd have a cooler in my back seat filled with a meal or two. And those meals would have been prepared ahead of time. For instance, I'll cut and cook up 4-6 chicken breasts twice per week. I dice them. Once cooled, I bag them and refrigerate them. Presto, you have a meal on the go. It is doable. It's just about how much effort do you want to put into it.

I've found that without planning and preparing stuff ahead of time, it does become an impossible task for most, including myself.

With planning and preparing..... it's quite simple actually.

This is what I need to start doing - Ive found a cpl easy and healthy recipes that i have started cooking and using...I also need easy to eat food and perferably something I dont need to warm up...

I plan my meals that require more attention (heating up, cooking, etc) during times where I'm guaranteed to have the time... usually breakfast (since we can all wake up earlier) and my last dinner. Everything in between I keep relatively simple.

Im looking for help Im ready to I dunno - Im just getting tired of not seeing results...

When we talk about specifics such as the macronutrient composition of your diet, we are essentially fine tuning things.

However, if the scale is not moving, first and foremost we should be concentrating on calorie (energy) balances. So again, give me your stats and how many calories on average you think you are eating per day.

You can have your macros perfect, but if your energy balances are out of whack, nothing is ever going to go as planned.

Yes I do or well I did - I kinda do - I always did for the longest tiem and then it just became second nature...I eat all the same things so I know how many cals are in what I eat - I have been starting to do it agian ...

By not seeing results, you are essentially telling me that you are not in a consistent caloric deficit. I'd start to count again just to be sure.

And gee, I'm sorry if I'm repeating questions, but when was your last "break" from dieting?
 
Im not concerned abt my walking - I walk because I enjoy it and have a dog that needs to be walked it isnt my only source of exercise and I dont do it as my exercise...

That's a good way to look at it. Walking falls under multiple categories. I call it exercise.... but for most, it's just a simple way to increase your activity. I certainly wouldn't stop doing it! :)

No - I use the elliptical and the treadmill at home...

Okay, now I'm understanding what your "split" looks like.

Curves is a circut training gym for woman...it is strength training and cardio for 30 mins...

Yea, I know what curves is.

Am I a fan?

Truthfully, not really. I'm not one to say something is right or wrong. However, I don't believe circuit type of training is conducive for most people not only looking to lose weight, but also looking to improve their physique.

Losing weight is very simple in generic terms. Take all the psychological stuff out of the equation and you're left with a very simple equation. Burn more calories than you take in and you will lose.

There are endless possibilities to do to increase your caloric expenditure.... Curves being one of them.

However, not everyone correlates losing weight to looking better.

I know I don't.

I'd rather see you doing cardio at it's designated times during the week and strength training at the other times.

I realize that's asking a lot.... and I don't expect you to hop right onto this immediately. But it should be something you think about.

About the only thing Curves is good for is their marketing. They selected a very specific (needy) group of our population (overweight women) to market themselves too. This being said, they got a lot of people off their asses, which is great considering the condition of our society. Something is always better than nothing when it comes to fitness and health.

However, I would've much preferred a different mode of exercise than how they set up their circuit training. But if they were to do things "right," they wouldn't be able to move people in/out the doors like cattle as fast as they can, thus creating lower sales, which is the number one priority.

I attend Curves 3 times a week and 7 days a week I rotate the elliptical and treadmill at home...

Gotcha.

Elliptical - I will use for anywhere from 30 mins 60 mins either 3.5miles or 6 miles...

I assume you are doing this at a steady pace?

Treadmill 30 mins on average rotating walking/jogging at one or two min intervals at a speed of 3 - 3.5 - im just starting out on the treadmill I average 1.25 - 1.5 miles...Im slowing getting better and faster and pushing myself harder...

Sounds excellent.

I was told by the wmn at Curves that it is strength training and therfor I shouldnt be doing weights on top of attending Curves...

In their sense, strength training is anything that involves lifting weights, no matter of what that weight is and what the parameters are that establish the "routine."

Strength training to me is a planned out schedule of using relatively heavy compound exercises to induce a change in your body. You basically force your body to adapt, which is the backbone of exercise.

Curves does not do this. Maybe for the absolute noob. But in no way, shape, or form do I consider curves strength training.

Probually - however dinner is always a sit down meal that consists of a meat - usually chicken or hamburger or pork...veggies of course and a salad or rice or potatoe...

You should be getting a healthy dose of protein at each meal. How many meals do you eat per day? And sorry if you told me this before, but what are you current stats?

I do eat meat but I find during the day it is easier to just eat the fruits and veggies and somethign a little more solid- I eat my meals and snacks in the car and I find by eating the fruits and veggies during my work day it is easier for me to control my calories and my eating

Honestly, I think you need to plan out your eating schedule a bit better.

First step is determine what your caloric goal is. You've probably done this already from the sounds of it.

Suppose it's 2000 calories.

Next, you should figure out how much protein you need. This will vary from person to person, but the ideal range of intake is going to be 1-1.5 grams per lb of lean body mass.

If you aren't really strength training, which you aren't currently, you don't need to shoot that high.

1 g per kg would probably be fine.

Suppose this equates to 120 grams of protein.

Next spread that intake of protein out over the number of meals you shoot for in a given day. Suppose 4.

Now you know you need to figure out how to work in 30 grams or protein at each of the 4 times you eat throughout the day.

You then subtract from your total caloric goal, which was again, 2000. Each gram of protein has 4 calories. You are going to be taking in 120 grams in this example, which equates to 480 calories. You still have 1520 calories to work with.

And you still have 2 macronutrients to work into the mix.... those being fats and carbs.

You go through the same procedure with both of these, starting with fats.

Follow me?

Yes very much so...I am a single mom of two - I work for a cleaning company - im in my car and on the road all day - Im usually on the go from the minute I get up till I go to bed...

I share your hectic schedule. My only benefit is that I have a sit down job that allows me to eat what and when I want.

But I've worked with people who have schedules you wouldn't believe if I told you. Think med students with kids. Small business owners, etc. Just insane schedules.

It comes down to how bad to you want change. If you want it bad enough, you will make sure you do what is required in order to reach your goals. It really is that simple.

Personally, if I was on the road most of the day, you damn well better believe that I'd have a cooler in my back seat filled with a meal or two. And those meals would have been prepared ahead of time. For instance, I'll cut and cook up 4-6 chicken breasts twice per week. I dice them. Once cooled, I bag them and refrigerate them. Presto, you have a meal on the go. It is doable. It's just about how much effort do you want to put into it.

I've found that without planning and preparing stuff ahead of time, it does become an impossible task for most, including myself.

With planning and preparing..... it's quite simple actually.

This is what I need to start doing - Ive found a cpl easy and healthy recipes that i have started cooking and using...I also need easy to eat food and perferably something I dont need to warm up...

I plan my meals that require more attention (heating up, cooking, etc) during times where I'm guaranteed to have the time... usually breakfast (since we can all wake up earlier) and my last dinner. Everything in between I keep relatively simple.

Im looking for help Im ready to I dunno - Im just getting tired of not seeing results...

When we talk about specifics such as the macronutrient composition of your diet, we are essentially fine tuning things.

However, if the scale is not moving, first and foremost we should be concentrating on calorie (energy) balances. So again, give me your stats and how many calories on average you think you are eating per day.

You can have your macros perfect, but if your energy balances are out of whack, nothing is ever going to go as planned.

Yes I do or well I did - I kinda do - I always did for the longest tiem and then it just became second nature...I eat all the same things so I know how many cals are in what I eat - I have been starting to do it agian ...

By not seeing results, you are essentially telling me that you are not in a consistent caloric deficit. I'd start to count again just to be sure.

And gee, I'm sorry if I'm repeating questions, but when was your last "break" from dieting?
 
Im not concerned abt my walking - I walk because I enjoy it and have a dog that needs to be walked it isnt my only source of exercise and I dont do it as my exercise...

That's a good way to look at it. Walking falls under multiple categories. I call it exercise.... but for most, it's just a simple way to increase your activity. I certainly wouldn't stop doing it! :)

No - I use the elliptical and the treadmill at home...

Okay, now I'm understanding what your "split" looks like.

Curves is a circut training gym for woman...it is strength training and cardio for 30 mins...

Yea, I know what curves is.

Am I a fan?

Truthfully, not really. I'm not one to say something is right or wrong. However, I don't believe circuit type of training is conducive for most people not only looking to lose weight, but also looking to improve their physique.

Losing weight is very simple in generic terms. Take all the psychological stuff out of the equation and you're left with a very simple equation. Burn more calories than you take in and you will lose.

There are endless possibilities to do to increase your caloric expenditure.... Curves being one of them.

However, not everyone correlates losing weight to looking better.

I know I don't.

I'd rather see you doing cardio at it's designated times during the week and strength training at the other times.

I realize that's asking a lot.... and I don't expect you to hop right onto this immediately. But it should be something you think about.

About the only thing Curves is good for is their marketing. They selected a very specific (needy) group of our population (overweight women) to market themselves too. This being said, they got a lot of people off their asses, which is great considering the condition of our society. Something is always better than nothing when it comes to fitness and health.

However, I would've much preferred a different mode of exercise than how they set up their circuit training. But if they were to do things "right," they wouldn't be able to move people in/out the doors like cattle as fast as they can, thus creating lower sales, which is the number one priority.

I attend Curves 3 times a week and 7 days a week I rotate the elliptical and treadmill at home...

Gotcha.

Elliptical - I will use for anywhere from 30 mins 60 mins either 3.5miles or 6 miles...

I assume you are doing this at a steady pace?

Treadmill 30 mins on average rotating walking/jogging at one or two min intervals at a speed of 3 - 3.5 - im just starting out on the treadmill I average 1.25 - 1.5 miles...Im slowing getting better and faster and pushing myself harder...

Sounds excellent.

I was told by the wmn at Curves that it is strength training and therfor I shouldnt be doing weights on top of attending Curves...

In their sense, strength training is anything that involves lifting weights, no matter of what that weight is and what the parameters are that establish the "routine."

Strength training to me is a planned out schedule of using relatively heavy compound exercises to induce a change in your body. You basically force your body to adapt, which is the backbone of exercise.

Curves does not do this. Maybe for the absolute noob. But in no way, shape, or form do I consider curves strength training.

Probually - however dinner is always a sit down meal that consists of a meat - usually chicken or hamburger or pork...veggies of course and a salad or rice or potatoe...

You should be getting a healthy dose of protein at each meal. How many meals do you eat per day? And sorry if you told me this before, but what are you current stats?

I do eat meat but I find during the day it is easier to just eat the fruits and veggies and somethign a little more solid- I eat my meals and snacks in the car and I find by eating the fruits and veggies during my work day it is easier for me to control my calories and my eating

Honestly, I think you need to plan out your eating schedule a bit better.

First step is determine what your caloric goal is. You've probably done this already from the sounds of it.

Suppose it's 2000 calories.

Next, you should figure out how much protein you need. This will vary from person to person, but the ideal range of intake is going to be 1-1.5 grams per lb of lean body mass.

If you aren't really strength training, which you aren't currently, you don't need to shoot that high.

1 g per kg would probably be fine.

Suppose this equates to 120 grams of protein.

Next spread that intake of protein out over the number of meals you shoot for in a given day. Suppose 4.

Now you know you need to figure out how to work in 30 grams or protein at each of the 4 times you eat throughout the day.

You then subtract from your total caloric goal, which was again, 2000. Each gram of protein has 4 calories. You are going to be taking in 120 grams in this example, which equates to 480 calories. You still have 1520 calories to work with.

And you still have 2 macronutrients to work into the mix.... those being fats and carbs.

You go through the same procedure with both of these, starting with fats.

Follow me?

Yes very much so...I am a single mom of two - I work for a cleaning company - im in my car and on the road all day - Im usually on the go from the minute I get up till I go to bed...

I share your hectic schedule. My only benefit is that I have a sit down job that allows me to eat what and when I want.

But I've worked with people who have schedules you wouldn't believe if I told you. Think med students with kids. Small business owners, etc. Just insane schedules.

It comes down to how bad to you want change. If you want it bad enough, you will make sure you do what is required in order to reach your goals. It really is that simple.

Personally, if I was on the road most of the day, you damn well better believe that I'd have a cooler in my back seat filled with a meal or two. And those meals would have been prepared ahead of time. For instance, I'll cut and cook up 4-6 chicken breasts twice per week. I dice them. Once cooled, I bag them and refrigerate them. Presto, you have a meal on the go. It is doable. It's just about how much effort do you want to put into it.

I've found that without planning and preparing stuff ahead of time, it does become an impossible task for most, including myself.

With planning and preparing..... it's quite simple actually.

This is what I need to start doing - Ive found a cpl easy and healthy recipes that i have started cooking and using...I also need easy to eat food and perferably something I dont need to warm up...

I plan my meals that require more attention (heating up, cooking, etc) during times where I'm guaranteed to have the time... usually breakfast (since we can all wake up earlier) and my last dinner. Everything in between I keep relatively simple.

Im looking for help Im ready to I dunno - Im just getting tired of not seeing results...

When we talk about specifics such as the macronutrient composition of your diet, we are essentially fine tuning things.

However, if the scale is not moving, first and foremost we should be concentrating on calorie (energy) balances. So again, give me your stats and how many calories on average you think you are eating per day.

You can have your macros perfect, but if your energy balances are out of whack, nothing is ever going to go as planned.

Yes I do or well I did - I kinda do - I always did for the longest tiem and then it just became second nature...I eat all the same things so I know how many cals are in what I eat - I have been starting to do it agian ...

By not seeing results, you are essentially telling me that you are not in a consistent caloric deficit. I'd start to count again just to be sure.

And gee, I'm sorry if I'm repeating questions, but when was your last "break" from dieting?
 
Yesterday I did the day three.

As I was doing it, I was thinking I was really going to hate you today, but really love you in six weeks ;).

Most of the strength training routines I lay out for people won't feel like they are murderous.

They are supposed to be.

Many people confuse what real strength training is supposed to feel like in the gym with what a crazy session of HIIT feels like.

They are polar opposites.

But I don't feel to terrible today. I upped the weight with each set of the weighted crunches, but it wasn't enough, so I'll up again next time, too. Maybe my core just likes me... I wish it would show more that it likes me though! Maybe it's the pilates and yoga that I do? Who knows...

Yea, ideally you start out nice and easy with all the weights and exercises and gradually add "weight to the bar" so to speak.

Going all out in the beginning will leave you with no room for improvement.

Basically, you want to coax your body to adapt to more and more stress, if that makes any sense.

Shot-gunning it doesn't work, but it's what a majority of people I see in gyms do each and every day.

Competition this month, too. My friend and I (she's in the army and currently on active duty) are having a bench press competition. Neither of us know our one rep max so we're competing for highest one rep max by the end of the month. Not a ton of pressure on this one though. Just something to keep us occupied :).
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That's cool. Are they the same size as you?

Early Congrats on your marriage!!! I hope you have a great day and a great honeymoon to follow :).

Thanks very much. :)
 
Just because you're getting married in less than a week you think you can slack off on your duties??? :D

Hope you had a restful weekend...

Thanks Mal.

Yea, I feel like I'm being pulling in a million different directions by a million different people right now. My phone rings off the hook. People just stopping in nonstop. Tons of emails.

Am I turning into a celebrity?
 
Thanks Mal.

Yea, I feel like I'm being pulling in a million different directions by a million different people right now. My phone rings off the hook. People just stopping in nonstop. Tons of emails.

Am I turning into a celebrity?

turning into one? i thought you already were one... I hope the emails and phone calls are for celebratory reasons andnot people making demands on you... if it's the demanding ones - forward them on to me -I need to put some people in their place :D I need to put this hostility to a good use :D

you're special and people like you - -deal with it bucko
 
turning into one? i thought you already were one... I hope the emails and phone calls are for celebratory reasons andnot people making demands on you... if it's the demanding ones - forward them on to me -I need to put some people in their place :D I need to put this hostility to a good use :D

you're special and people like you - -deal with it bucko

Nobody demanding anything of me. But I really did not know how much goes into planning a wedding like this. It's stressful. If I had to do it all again, I would elope and have a big bash when I got back.

Actually, that is what I pushed for originally. But Krista wanted the traditional wedding and ceremony..... and it means more to her than it does to me.... so I let her do her thing.
 
awww that's sweet :)

in the paper this morning, there was an article on the wedding date you picked -it's a big money maker in vegas next weekend - the 7/7/7 thing :)
 
One of my best friend's just got married last month, it is so much work going the traditional route. Congrats man, I knew you would be getting married soon, but I had no idea it was that close.
 
And gee, I'm sorry if I'm repeating questions, but when was your last "break" from dieting?

My last break was xmas - I got serious agian in Januarary - since then Ive going pretty strong...this past month I havent been calorie counting or really being all that strict or caring - eating more than I should be and to much of the bad things...

I started weight training awhile back but stopped when Curves told me not to do it becuase I am doing it there...I joined Curves a cpl years back - I lost abt 30 lbs or so but it wasnt just due to them - I liked Curves at the time now it just bores me but I do feel good when I go and I mostly just go now as my aunts support...

Honestly I would say Ive probually been eating abt 1800 - 2000 cals well not on a daily average but this last week or two - ive been not good...

I just gotta cut out the chips and focus more on protein and such...typically for breaky I will have a bowl of oatmeal or a shake and a piece of fruit and then from there fruits and veggies and a snack pack of some kind and then it will be dinner...and typically I dont eat after dinner...

Oh and yes I use the elliptical at a steady pace
 
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