newmommy1
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Hey, popping into say good luck! I know how you feel about comparing yourself to your freinds. My best freind and I were inseperable in highschool but I always felt I was not as pretty as her. She had gorgeous black hair, green eyes, and was 5'5" at 105 lbs. But it came at a price. She was anorexic and occasionally struggled with bulemia. I had blonde hair, blue eyes, and at 5'4" was a curvy 145 lbs. After basically being in a love hate relationship for a year we realized that there were things we envied about eachother but that we needed to be happy with ourselves. She envied my silky blonde hair, flawless complexion, and cleavage. I envied her flat tummy, the fact that she could wear ANYTHING, and her big green eyes. We helped eachother to love ourselves and she is no longer anorexic although she will always be thin, and I realize that because of my body type I would look absolutely horrible if I weighed what she does. So try not to look at your friends and wish you looked like them because chances are there is somwthing about you that they envy. Now get out there and eat healthy and try not to worry!