Thanks Tasha - I always appreciate that you care.
In a nutshell:
I have an older sister who lives in FL with my 1 1/2 year old nephew. I only get to see my sister once per year, if we're lucky. The last time was this past July. Anyway, she wants Eric (my husband) and I to come down and visit, and I really, really want to. Well, my selfish, childish, ass of a husband is so concerned with me spending too much time with my sister and nephew and neglecting him while we're there that he is staying silent on the issue and non-committal. I suggested that I should just go by myself because I'd end up having more fun that way anyway (he hates hot weather, doesn't like the beach, doesn't like new people {i.e. my sister's boyfriend who we've never me}, doesn't really like my sister, etc.), and he won't go for that either. Are you freaking kidding me??
After fighting the whole way through the Biggest Loser (which REALLY annoyed me - not only were we fighting it was during my favorite show!), he says we can go if I promise him I won't spend too much time with my sister (like I'm the problem, not him). He also said I act differently when I'm around my sister and he just wants me to be the "real me." Of course I act a little differently around my sister! We're goofy and happy because we only get to see each other every year and a half! Plus, we have more history that Eric and I have.
I told him again he was being a childish, selfish ass and went to bed. Then he came to bed and gave me a half-hearted apology just because he wanted out of the doghouse, not because he really meant it.
So, to summarize:
I can't go by myself without him being angry.
If he goes with me, he's gonna be a big baby and I'm not gonna have any fun.
If I/we don't go - what the heck do I tell my sister??
He's such a great guy. I love him so much...but sometime husbands are such buttheads!
Aghhh...it's good to vent. I've moved on from being upset to just getting more and more angry. I was REALLY angry last night - but I was a little teary-eyed this morning just because I hate having that elephant of an unresolved issue in the room with us.
Anyway - I'm sure you'll hear all about Chapter 2 of the FL drama tomorrow after we go through round 2 tonight.
Moving on...
The weight thing hasn't been bothering me too much yet. I don't start getting worried until it stays put for two weeks or more at a time. I'm sure I'll be fine...you will too!
The Ron Burgundy thing wasn't meant to be rude...it was meant to be funny, so I'm glad you got it. I hope Focus takes no offense...and has seen Anchorman or he's gonna think "What the hell?" (I think he's a he - I am SO sorry if I'm wrong)
Onto the age/marriage questions:
I will be 25 years old on April 11th (Eric is 25 now), and I will have been married for 3 years on July 30th. Eric I met when I was 17 and were engaged when I was 18. It's weird to think we're coming up on 8 years together in June. He was in the Marine reserves and went to Iraq twice, so that's why it took us so long to get around to getting married. I'm curious to know the same about you and your husband.
There's a lot of negativity in the world for us young couples...most of what you read on TV or see in the news says we're doomed for divorce...so it's nice to see another young couple making it. Don't get me wrong, Eric and I might be fighting now, but we've made it through two war zone deployments, so this little fight is nothing but a skirmish in our book!
Your veggie find sounds good, but honestly, I've never eaten a brussel sprout before so I have no idea if I'd like them or not. What other veggie are they like, if any?
Will try to pop into your diary and say hello sometime today...
Thanks for cheering me up...