I've been feeling really disgusting lately

I just turned 22 and I have been a nice 155 lbs from the age of 18 until about 2 months ago. I was laid off of work and I gained a lot of weight. In a span of 4 weeks I am up from 155 to 179 lbs. I never had this much weight on me. My girlfriend said I was too skinny before and that I look great but I look in the mirror and get disgusted. I don't need to be 155 but if I was 165 I would feel a little better about myself. At least then I could fit in my jeans. LoL.

I can't aford to go to the gym because I'm out of work. I can get into my college gym for maybe an hour or two a week though. I have an exercise bike and treadmill at my house.

My diet is insane. 22 year old college kid? Ice cream, pizza, etc. Can someone please help me out. I am LOST here and I feel really bad about myself. Anybody have an idea on how to get some weight off and maybe tone my stomach. Even when I was skinnier I wasn't toned.

Thanks. I know it's a lot to read, but I could use some motivation and help.
 
How tall are you?

You can lose 20 pounds in several months if you are determined and really want to achieve your goal.

Here are some tips, other people will help you out in more detail.

First, calculate your BMR, this tells us how many calories you need daily to keep you going, and we're going to take 500 away from this, because you won't lose weight without being in caloric deficit.

SECTION ONE - CALORIES

The first step is establish how many calories you need to maintain your weight while resting. This is called your BMR. The following equations can be used to figure out your BMR:


“English BMR Formula”
Women: BMR = 655 + ( 4.35 x weight in pounds ) + ( 4.7 x height in inches ) - ( 4.7 x age in years )

Men: BMR = 66 + ( 6.23 x weight in pounds ) + ( 12.7 x height in inches ) - ( 6.8 x age in year )

“Metric BMR Formula”
Women: BMR = 655 + ( 9.6 x weight in kilos ) + ( 1.8 x height in cm ) - ( 4.7 x age in years )

Men: BMR = 66 + ( 13.7 x weight in kilos ) + ( 5 x height in cm ) - ( 6.8 x age in years )
This is just a general estimation, some may be above or below this, but this is a good place to start.

Multiply this number by your activity level factor:

1.0 - Sedentary (doing nothing all day)
1.2 - Very light activity (Working a desk job or on a computer and not performing any type of physical activity during your day.)
1.4 - Light activity (having a non-physical job (desk, computer, etc.) but performing some sort of physical activity during the day (e.g. above average walking) but no hard training.)
1.6 - Moderate activity (having a non-physical job, performing some sort of physical activity during the day, and including a daily workout session in your routine. This is where most of you are at.)
1.8 - High activity (either training plus a physical job or non-physical job and twice-a-day training sessions)
2.0 - Extreme activity (a very physical job and daily hard training.)

Now you have your daily maintenance calories.

Now that you know how many calories it takes to maintain your weight - how many should you eat to achieve your goals?

Well, the general rule of thumb is +/- 500. Plus 500 to gain, minus 500 to lose. However, it can be a better idea to go by percentages, +/- 20% of your maintenance. Remember, if you’re trying to bulk and eat too much - you will gain fat instead of muscle. If you’re trying to lose fat and eat too little, your body will hold on to the fat you have for dear life. Moderation, dear readers, moderation.

Eat 5-6 small meals a day
This will:
A. Reduce total and LDL (bad) cholesterol and reduces resistance to insulin.
B. Give you a a lower energy (calorie) intake compared to those who eat irregularly – crucial if you’re looking to maintain or lose weight.
C. Keep your blood sugar levels stable. This will help prevent strong feelings of hunger.

These meals should contain clean, freshand homemade.
Your diet is VITAL, and is just as, if not more important than the exercise you do. For more advice on nutrition and what to eat visit the Nutrition section of these forums.

Exercise wise, you should be doing some type of cardiovascular training 3 times a week, (running/swimming/cycling), and if you want, weight training at your college gym.

Rest every Sunday, eat homemade, small, drink lots of water, and be determined.

Good luck.
 
2706.578 is the number I get after all of that multiplication. if i minus the 500 calories. it would make me need a 2206 calorie diet.
 
I've been feeling really disgusting lately

I was laid off of work and I gained a lot of weight. In a span of 4 weeks

Seems to be like the pimary reason for this onset of weight is due to the fact that you were laid off work.

I think your first step is to feel good about yourself. Boy does that sound familiar. lol.

Anyway, you gain weight as you are depressed. It's a natural reaction of your body by the stress it caused. I recommend instead of trying to use a strict diet, I recommend just becoming more active and trying to cheer yourself up!!!! Don't sit around and look at yourself in the mirror. Anyone is going to find faults with their body.

Don't feel down just because you lost your job. Look on the brightside, you're in college, you got a girlfriend, and you're young!!!! That's a lot more than what others have, so just don't feel bad about losing anything.


I say look for another job. There are plenty out there. You just need a boost in feeling good. That's your weight loss goal right there. :)
 
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