Hi there,
I feel your pain, trust me, I really do. Stopping eating at night was the hardest thing I have ever done in my adult life. Period. Since childhood I have skipped breakfast and eaten late at night. But changing that one aspect of my life has made such an impact I can almost not believe it.
Making that change was a whole other matter.....
I am a big strong man, but I am not ashamed to say I was in tears many nights forcing myself to put off the urge to eat. Even after increasing my daily calories and eating breakfast everyday, the psychological urge was killing me. I was resltess, irratable and pissed off at myself for feeling that way. I think I would have rather pulled my own fingernails off with a pair of pliers. I had a VERY VERY hard time with it.
But I did it. I pushed past the pain (physical and mental) and stuck to my guns. I started making myself drink a cup of tea or coffee at night when the urges hit, so I had something hot to sip on that wouldn't cause undue stress in my bowels and pack on the pounds. I started documenting my feelings on my blog at night, so I had a sense of accountability. And I made a conscious effort to make night time eating a thing of the past.
And like a recovering drug addict or alcoholic, I suffered, but I got thorugh it. Hard to think of food as a drug, but to me it really is. Some people reccomend low cal (or no cal) snacks late at night, but for me that didnt work either. Eating an apple or celery late at night was fine and dandy, but heaven help me if there was no low cal food around and I was still conditioned to eat "something". Then anything would do. So I cut out eating all together past 8pm. Period. I even had to say "NO!" many times to my wife as she tried to give me little snacks or rewards for my good work late at night. It was sooooooo hard, but I did it. And it was the only way.
And here is what happened.
The night sweats and fitfull sleeps, dissapeared, leaving me refreshed and feeling good in the mornings. (no more stinky pillow!) I started actually losing weight, and continue to do so! And last, but not least, the cravings for night time snacking WENT AWAY!!!!! Not only do I not feel hungry at night anymore, but I look forward to my tea more than an apple, celery or bag of potato chips. For me it meant taking a stand against my family, the outside world and most importantly myself. I learned to say no and stick to it, and my life has improved so dramatically. Not using so much energy at night in digestion allowed me to sleep properly and not wake up in pools of my own sweat.
I am somewhat ashamed of myself for taking almost 40 years to learn this simple truth and making it so hard on myself and my loved ones. Working odd hours does mess with your internal clock, but do your best to stop eating at least 2-3 hours before you sleep. This will dramtically increase your overall well being, even though at first it will be hard. Damn hard.....
sirant