My girlfriend says she’ll dump be if I won’t lose some weight. I think she’s pretty serious about it. I’m 5ft 10 in and 209 lb. Any ideas? I’m quite desperate.
I wanna lose weight!
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You need to start counting how many calories you eat every day, and make sure you eat less than you burn. Also, you need to start working out. You may wanna try a diet as well, but first check with your doctor. You can find a calorie counter and diet planner at [– they have many free weight loss tools and weight loss charts you’ll find helpful. I use the menu planner to calculate how many calories I eat, and the workout planner to see how many I burn. Have faith! You can do it!
You need to start counting how many calories you eat every day, and make sure you eat less than you burn. Also, you need to start working out. You may wanna try a diet as well, but first check with your doctor. You can find a calorie counter and diet planner at [– they have many free weight loss tools and weight loss charts you’ll find helpful. I use the menu planner to calculate how many calories I eat, and the workout planner to see how many I burn. Have faith! You can do it!
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Man, you should dump her!
What kind of girlfriend is that? Anyway, if you really love her, just go to the gym. You’re a tough guy! Use your willpower and do something about it.
What kind of girlfriend is that? Anyway, if you really love her, just go to the gym. You’re a tough guy! Use your willpower and do something about it.
I say look for a new girlfriend instead of losing weight. If she can't take you in your condition right now, then what will she do when you're 58, fat, bald, and unable to bend down to tie your shoes? Would she just leave you?
Talk it out with her first. Ask why she doesn't accept you in your current condition. If she is serious about fitness, then be serious about her fitness as well. Perhaps both of you should join a gym or something and perhaps both of you can realize at one point and time, that perhaps it isn't always about how much you weigh.
If she can't make a commitment to you, then why should you make a commitment with her?
Talk it out with her first. Ask why she doesn't accept you in your current condition. If she is serious about fitness, then be serious about her fitness as well. Perhaps both of you should join a gym or something and perhaps both of you can realize at one point and time, that perhaps it isn't always about how much you weigh.
If she can't make a commitment to you, then why should you make a commitment with her?
Oh wait, I think we've been had. I bet the two (or all three) are the same person. A new wave of spammers come to the site. Fairly smart too. Post a question, then someone else posts an answer right away. On average, it takes this forum at least 1 hour before someone answers. Here's a tip, next time wait an hour or two before reposting. I catch it everytime, and I'm sure I'm not the only one who notices.
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Ding Ding ding, Dallen is right.
Since this thread is 2½ years old - I'm pretty sure he's dumped, been dumped, or figured out how to lose the weight!