Hi Thadd,
I have just over 100lbs still to lose; and know how daunting it can seem when you focus on that number...DON'T.
Like others have said; focus on one mini goal at a time.
If you are able; then make exercise a part of everyday life. I'm not talking gym membership, necessarily; just some movement. I had started walking before my recent operation, which had helped me lose a little weight and tone up. Nothing major, just half an hour on a flat area. At the moment, I am unable to walk as exercise, but am looking forward to getting back to it, in the coming months.
Something else I like to do...when able...is just dance around the living room with some music bopping. Great exercise, but it isn't a chore. (My kids think I'm a fruit loop, but they'll get over it!)
As far as food goes...well this is a tricky one, as everyone is different. I have had degree's of success with a LOT of diets in my life; but the one which is working for me, mentally as well as physically, is eating my normal foods, but a little less of them.
At the moment, this is working especially well, because my appetite has gone AWOL...not a bad thing.
I am planning on alkalizing my diet more...i.e...more fruit and vegetables, less meat, dairy etc. Apparently, our bodies tend to need a more alkaline environment, and when it becomes acidic, it produces and keeps fat, to protect our organs from the acid. Once our bodies are more alkaline, they don't need to hang on to the fat, and weightloss ensues. Whether this is true or not, is anyones guess, but eating more fruit and veg, cannot be a bad thing, whatever it's effect on the body!
Whatever method you chose; I know you can do this.
I look forward to taking this journey with you.
Best wishes,
Elizabeth-Rose