I need opinions.. HONEST!

First&Last

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Hey everyone...

so i'm new to this and I know i have emotional issues to deal with, and have a poor self image. I want to know what other peoples opinions are about me, the way i look ect. I am 21 and in my final year of university in canada. If you have any questions feel free to msg me.

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hello First&Last

Well of course you are absolutely beautiful. I am not judging you because I understand how emotional issues are, but I think you owe it to yourself to explore your inner worth and not rely on the opinions of others as they vary as much as the different faces of the human race. I am not sure if you are here to lose weight or not, but what ever journey you are on in life I hope that you reach your destination and are able to have peace with yourself. I know that people tend to put so much emphasis on appearance and the value of looks and really it is not where your worth lies!! I would encourage you this year to explore that, and add value to yourself, do not let anyone tell you where your true beauty and worth are.

Happy New Year!!
 
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By the way you wrote that, it sounds like you were expecting people to say bad things. I am quite sure nobody could say anything as you are good looking! I found your other post in the In Your 20s thread and it looks like you are looking for some support. Start a diary here and other people will read what you have to say and put in their two cents. This place is great for support.

See you around the board. :)

--Jason
 
I think pink clouds puts it brilliantly that looks are not what you should be basing your self-worth on. And anyway, if you think you're ugly, you should see me. (As it happens, in my opinion, you're not remotely ugly. On the contrary, if you want the truth, you're absolutely gorgeous and I don't know what you're talking about.) I have a face like a bag of elbows, blubber and eczema scars. I'm a really *really* ugly guy, and I have suffered because of this. BUT! All of the other cliches really are true...

* Beauty is only skin deep.
* If people judge you for your looks, then they're really not that nice and you're probably better off without them in your life.
* It really is what's inside that counts.

But just to clarify, you *ARE* gorgeous. I would, any day of the week.

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I agree completely. Beauty matters most on the inside, who you are.
You're beautiful, beautiful girl. you have lovely skin thats even, you have sparkling eyes that stand out greatly against your skin tone, and you carry your weight very nicely.
I know maybe what peopel are saying will make you smile, but you have to believe it yourself, that you're beautiful, and even if you are, it won't matter unless you accept it yourself.
 
My opinion...you have nothing to be ashamed of! But my opinion PALES in comparison to yours! What do you think of yourself? Fix the bad and accentuate the good!
 
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