i need help

Okay lets start off about me.
I'm a guy. 18 5'10 240lbs ( :/ i know)
My target goal in the long run is about 190 lbs.

The hardest thing that i find is what to eat and what exercises to do, you always hear this high protein, low carb diet but i have no idea what to eat or anything. Starting tomorrow, i plan on running about 1-2 miles everyday and increase from there. I dont want to run and lose weight and be scrawny though but at the same time i dont want to lift too much. Is there any workouts at the gym that anyone has used that have been effective and is there any diets that anyone can recommend? Much help is appreciated, thank you in advance.

I am going to be committed to this now, i am sick of this weight and i want it GONE!
 
Up until a year and a half ago I had never gone on a diet of any kind, and like you, I did not know how to go about it. The doctor told me I needed to lose weight but didn't say how to do it. Somebody told me I should go on a 2000 calorie diet. I did an internet search for 2000 calorie diet, and found several different meal plans, so that's what I followed for a few weeks.

That will get you started, but you will probably find out that the published meal plans do not fit your tastes, or become boring after a while. Then you will want to learn enough about nutrition to plan your own meals. There are lots of tools available for tracking your nutrition, such as this free software or a number of online diet journals including the USDA web site .

As far as exercise is concerned, don't worry too much about the exact kind of exercise. Start off slow, and build up to it. The main thing is to do something you like, and that you will stick to doing consistently for many years to come. It will do no good to go on some crash fitness program, then drift away from it later. That's no better than a crash diet.

Read the sticky threads on this site. There are a lot of good ideas.
 
you always hear this high protein, low carb diet but i have no idea what to eat or anything. [SNIP] is there any diets that anyone can recommend?

Do NOT do the "low carb" diet. Carbs are not the enemy, your body needs carbs.

First off, forget the idea of a certain "diet" you have to follow. Any specific diet you hear about (South Beach, Atkins, etc) is a fad diet and they are not always healthy or sustainable.

I would suggest first to sign up for a free account at or . These sites can help you figure out how many calories you need to lose weight and then you enter everything to eat to track the calories. Just be very sure to measure or weigh your food to make sure you are entering the correct amounts! They will also break down how much you need (and track how much you've had) in fats, carbs, protein, etc.

As far as what to eat, be sure to get a mix of:

Lean Meats (chicken, turkey, fish)
Produce (get a mix of fruits and veggies, try to get some in every meal)
Whole Grains (make sure it's "Whole Wheat", not just Wheat or 100% Wheat)
Low Fat Dairy (milk, cheese, yogurt)
Healthy Fats (nuts, avocados, lean meats)


That's pretty much it. Eat healthy things and track your calories to make sure you don't over eat. As far as what to do in the gym, I'm not the person to answer that. There is a section of this site dedicated to exercise with some really good sticky threads. Or you could ask the workers at the gym.
 
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Well, IMO, if you want results, the way to go is low carbs or no carbs, Very very effective and easy to follow. If you got a very strong will, the go with the regular balanced diet.

Ive done basically al the diets, and the one that has helped me loose weight the most is the low carbs ones... (Atkins, Any Keto diet, South Beach,Zone etc).

Just my 2 cents based on my own experiece.
 
I myself wanted to loose about 50 pounds but had no idea where to even begin. What i started to do is what mizzie posted earlier, servings of veggies fruits, chicken meat on my grill and just portion control. 6 small meals a throughout my day and evening before i go to sleep i do around 1 hour of cardio.

February of this year i was at 304 LBS, as of today 06/12/10 i am at 241 LBS.

Best of luck with your exercise and upcoming diet!
 
Okay lets start off about me.
I'm a guy. 18 5'10 240lbs ( :/ i know)
My target goal in the long run is about 190 lbs.

The hardest thing that i find is what to eat and what exercises to do, you always hear this high protein, low carb diet but i have no idea what to eat or anything. Starting tomorrow, i plan on running about 1-2 miles everyday and increase from there. I dont want to run and lose weight and be scrawny though but at the same time i dont want to lift too much. Is there any workouts at the gym that anyone has used that have been effective and is there any diets that anyone can recommend? Much help is appreciated, thank you in advance.

I am going to be committed to this now, i am sick of this weight and i want it GONE!

Personally, my main concern is always calories in/calories out. Everyone is different (in terms of speed of results), and certainly eating healthy food is better in the long run than eating questionable food. With that being said though, Monday-Thurs I eat two pizza pockets, a ham sandwich, a granola bar, and a small bag (150 calorie) of chips. On Friday I have a routine of eating a footlong meatball sub, and a small bag of chips, and that is it for food for the day. On Saturday I tend to go out and eat with my brother (pizza, or hamburger, etc etc), but I make sure I don't eat more than about 2300 calories in the day. On Sunday I try to eat no more than 1800 calories or so, mainly by eating pizza pockets and maybe a sandwich. Also, I am in love with a particular 0 calorie brand of soda, so I drink lots of that.

Now, almost nothing in the above "menu" is healthy. I certainly hope to avoid eating like that long term...but for me I couldn't imagine working out/calorie reduction/AND not eating foods I like (most fruits and veggies make me sick...that isn't hyperbole...my mother maintains that even when I was first eating, I would never touch most anything that was "good" for me). Sooo, food wise I eat little that is good for me, but I eat drastically less of it than I used to. That (in conjunction with exercise) seems to have been working for me so far.

As for exercise, I recommend walking and lite (at first at least) weight lifting. I walk at least 3.5 miles a day on weekdays, and I lift three times a week. When I first started with the lifting I had no clue what to do. I contacted a friend of mine who is in really good shape, and he recommended I pick up some basic dumbbells from the store. I found a set that cost 20 bucks, and could be configured in weights of 5 lb, 10 lb, 15 lb, and 20 lb.

When I got the weights, my friend recommended a routine of ...

1. Seat lifts (3 sets of 12)

2/3/4. Shrugs/Tricep extensions/tricep kickbacks (3 sets of 8 or 10),

5. Bicep rows (3 sets of 8 or 10)

6. Standing bicep curls (3 sets of 12)

7. Seated curls with a focus on the lower arms (3 sets of 12)

I added an 8th exercise of lateral raises (3 sets of whatever you can pull off routinely...lateral raises are rather tough for me personally).

I might have slaughtered some of those exercise names (I am by no means a big fan of weight lifting, but it needs to be done :p...), however, I think if you google the exercise names you should be able to find illustrations/videos of the actions in question (if you don't already know what they all are).

As I said before, everyone is different, and I by no means recommend folks adopt a pizza pocket/soda diet for the long term. Still though, as someone who had no clue about how to lose weight just one year ago, I can't argue with my own results. However, I certainly recommend finding your own enjoyable diet/menu and sticking with it while attempting to lose weight.
 
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