I lay my father in the ground today...

Rowe1

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My father, age 50 died last Monday of a Pulmonary Embolism in his hotel room, far away from home.

He lived a sedentary life style, was over weight, and in bad health. He was diagnosed four weeks ago with full adult onset diabetes. Had knee problems because of his weight ( 450lbs ). his back was hurting a lot, and he had a hard time breathing.

A year ago i decided to make the lifestyle change. I was 420lbs, and was tired of being the way i was. So i changed.

My father told me that my weight loss was an inspiration for him to do the same. And after this last deployment ( my father travels for work). he was getting a full medical check up, so he could qualify for gastric bypass.

he sadly never made it home.


What this has showed me, is a person is completely responsible for the things they put in their body, and the sedentary life styles they lead. If you treat your body poorly, it will catch up with you. Though i never thought this idea would hit as close to home as it has.

My father's life was shortened due to bad eating habits, no exercise, and poor lifestyle choices.

MY fathers legacy is one of a honest, hardworking, and loving father. A legacy i will try to follow for the rest of my life. What i won't follow is his unhealthy life style.


I wanted to share his story. I know a few sentences cannot sum up the life of a loved one, or what I feel as a son without a father.

I want every one that reads this to know that living poorly has its consequences. Don't let your unhealthy lifestyles take control. Eat right, get exercise, and enjoy living.

My father saw me make the change before he died. Now he will watch over me as a continue my journey.

Thanks for listening

Daniel R.

will miss you dad.
 
Daniel,
So sorry for your loss. Your father raised a good son. I'm sure he is very proud of you and will be next to you on your journey.


Matt
 
Very nice post, Daniel. Sorry for your loss, though I must say, it's very big of you to turn it into a positive and reach out to others with the powerful message.

My thoughts are with you and your family.
 
Daniel,
Such a sad story...yet very inspirational. Please accept my sincere sympathy on the loss of your father.
Take care.

Di
 
Daniel, I am so very sorry to hear your story, your father has left a beautiful legacy in the form of such a lovely son. Your words are very true, and I hope that in expressing them in your time of grief you might reach out to that someone who is on the edge of making the decision to change their lifestyle... or who is currently doing so but faultering.

My thoughts go out to you and your family, thank you for sharing your story with us all.
 
wow, that was a very moving story, thankyou for sharing. my prayers go out to you and your family during this trying time. your story also reminds me that for once i'm on the right track and should keep going and not give up, but it also made me kindof sad because it reminds me that my parents don't have good eating habits and can only hope they change as they are also getting on in years.

thanks again for sharing, may you find comfort during this trying time. all the best hun xoxo
 
Thanks Rowe for this post.

It brought tears to my eyes because I can definitely relate. I had to bury my dad less than 2 years ago. He was a smoker for the majority of his life, ate terribly and it eventually caught up with him and he passed away.

Sorry for your loss.
 
Daniel, I am so very sorry for the loss or your father. I am also very thankful that you have gained the belief in yourself to change things. Even though your father waited a little to long to try to improve his health, it still showed that you were an inspiration to him, as you are to us. I know you will get so much support here and I look forward to following your successes. Michelle
 
Daniel,I know words are too short to heal your wounds but you are a great son and will be a great father, all my prayers are with you.
 
Daniel
Thanks for taking the time and investing the emotional energy to make this moving post.

Keep on with your journey, and God bless you.
ABBA
 
I came looking for you and found this post. I'm really sorry for your loss, Daniel. I hope you are still going strong!
 
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