i have to finish what i've started part 2

Way to go

Hey there hf2006,
Way to go in the peddling, so sorry about butt numbness
I notice that to when I do my bike so after 15 min I ajust the buttocks
lol but my legs must be so weak when it comes to stationary biking that
the longest I have done it so far was like 35 min 8.? miles! I dont see how
any1 can do it for 2 hours ect, I am hoping I can get there eventually and you can tell in your legs when you are biking.
I rode my hubby's mountain bike just to see if I still could(it's been like 14 years lol) talking about buttttt pain ouch!I made it 2 miles because he had it set on gear 5 and my leggs were like spaghetti!
Keep on peddling those pounds away! Tammy:)
 
Ohappydaye- Trust me my legs need that workout! haha My butt will just have to get over it!

Niapage- 2 hours isn't easy! I'm super motivated because my parents are coming to visit on Oct 27 and I really want to shock them!! My mother in law walks on her treadmill while I bike and we watch trashy tv! Time goes by sooo much faster when you're with someone else! ;)
 
I forgot... Not sure when the last time I weighed in was but since then I've lost 1 lb! Probably not that awesome but a pound is a pound and that's just one more that's gone! I'm feeling bloated today so TOM may have thrown it off a little. Anyway, just wanted to post that. Weight today is 217. Just want to type it here so I can look back and remember :)
 
Hey good morning! 1 lb is great! I also lost 1 lb since my last weigh in and when I stepped on the scale this morning I was like "WOOT!" haha ;)

So be strong today and ENJOY the fact that the scale went DOWN!
 
Girl!! You better stop playing! A pound is a BIG deal! Shoot, every step closer to your goal is an accomplishment whether its a quarter of a pound or a whole pound!

CONGRATULATIONS GIRLIE!!! :D :D
 
Thanks Guys :)

Walked 6 miles today no bike

Feeling like crap right now. So when Danny and I got married it was probably the worst thing ever. Nothing went right and everyone made it horrible. I know not all weddings are good but whenever I think about mine I get really upset. My mom did things to intentionally ruin it for me and Dannys family was just as bad. At this time his dad hated me and didn't even want him to marry me. Anyway, I just got home from spending the day with Danny's mom and she was talking to me about it. I told her I hated it and didn't really like to talk about it because it makes me so upset. She was like yeah your wedding really did suck. Then she told me that my father in law didnt even want to do anything for us because we were on our own and that was his sons choice. Basically he hated me. All of this is a really touchy subject. I've had a lot of problems with Danny's family. When he and I first met they called me a whore and said if he dated me they would disown him. So yeah, I feel like crap right now. Does crying burn calories?
 
Thanks Guys :)

Walked 6 miles today no bike

Feeling like crap right now. So when Danny and I got married it was probably the worst thing ever. Nothing went right and everyone made it horrible. I know not all weddings are good but whenever I think about mine I get really upset. My mom did things to intentionally ruin it for me and Dannys family was just as bad. At this time his dad hated me and didn't even want him to marry me. Anyway, I just got home from spending the day with Danny's mom and she was talking to me about it. I told her I hated it and didn't really like to talk about it because it makes me so upset. She was like yeah your wedding really did suck. Then she told me that my father in law didnt even want to do anything for us because we were on our own and that was his sons choice. Basically he hated me. All of this is a really touchy subject. I've had a lot of problems with Danny's family. When he and I first met they called me a whore and said if he dated me they would disown him. So yeah, I feel like crap right now. Does crying burn calories?

Oh sweetie! I'm so sorry that you had to go through that! Danny loves you and that's all that matters. I know that it hurts and there's nothing I can say to make it hurt any less. I sure wish I could give you a big hug right now...I guess a virtual one will have to suffice *big, long hug full of love and compassion*

It sounds like you have a good relationship with his mom...so let the rest of 'em be idiots, he obviously loves you and was not going to let his father make decisions for him. So bask in the joy and devotion of his love and screw everybody else!
 
Hey, hf....I'm glad to see you haven't walked so far away that you didn't make it back while I have been away.

First things first.....I'm stopping by to rub my toes all over you and jelly belly88! Now that that is done I have some advice for the butt. My friend started doing lunges awhile back and she has developed quite the bootie from it. You should add them to your routine. I know how you feel about buying new clothes. I have had to buy some here and there, but I don't want to go buy a bunch just to have to buy more again shortly after, so I pretty much pull things out that I was not able to fit into previously or I wear them until they are falling off.

Sorry you had a hard time today with the convo about the Father in law....are they divorced or still married?

You're doing great.
 
Hey Hf2006,

You know, just by reading your journal in here I can tell you are a loving caring person and not at all like those relatives of Dannys say. You are such a good wife and such an inspiration to me. Of course it means a lot what the family thinks of you to you, but I think everyone here will agree with me: they are completely wrong about you!!!!
With that said, let's go wrap their house with toiletpaper:)
 
Thank you Ohappydaye, Mahatt and Pineola! I know that Danny loves me and I am positive I am the best me I can be so I know that I am not the problem in the situation! Yes, they are still married but no they are not the ideal people to welcome you into a family! Here's a quick breakdown of my history with them...

- Met Danny in California while he was visiting his friend. Basically love at first sight...awww ;)
- Went to visit Danny in Louisiana 4 months later.
- His family forbid him to talk to me because I was a whore
- 2 months later Danny moves out to live with me
- We go to Iowa where my parents live
- Dannys family "makes up" with us and we move to Louisiana (original plan when we got together)
- We get married they play big part in making wedding crap
- I forgive them because I have to
- Lived in Louisiana for almost 2 years his dad is still an ass his mom is what i believe to be fake
- We move to Iowa again. (my grandma is old, i love her, i want to be near her fora while)
- 8 months later we move back and his dad suddenly loves me. hmmmm maybe his mom made him be nice to me because we moved and this is their way of keeping us here!
- now - i know his mom likes me now because she's thankful her son has someone like me. as for his dad i am skeptical

Alright. I know it shouldn't matter but those people put me through hell!! I just hate when they bring stuff back up and try to blame danny for what happened. Their excuse is that he didnt tell them about me so I MUST have been a whore to go and see him.... ummmm no. Anyway, that's my story. This was all about 2.5 years ago but it still hurts because they bring this shit up a lot especially now that Danny's older sister has gone off the deep end. OH!!! The BEST part of it all is that Danny's dad has NEVER once apologized to me for being an ass!
 
My legs hurt just reading about a two hour ride :(

As far as ass dads go, no apologizes is par for the course.

Just keep on doing your thing. I just love how you cheer people on in here. Hope you have a great weekend.
 
Hf,
T2 is right, no apologies are par for the course for ass dads or dads-in-law.
He probably won't apologize. He's an ass.

Success is the best revenge - a successful life, marriage, happiness with Danny, those are all sweet!

I'm sorry to hear those painful memories get brought up :(

Hugs to you girl!
 
Just spotted your ticker, congratulations on the weight loss and keep up all the good exercise. Hope things with Dannys family didnt get you too down, keep smiling, your such a lovely person so it is there loss if they don't want to get to know you and like you. Thanks for popping into my diary, really appreciate the support :)
 
Thank you M2M, Ohappydaye, Rubber Duckie and Chai Cat!

I'm alright with the whole Danny's dad hates me thing. haha I have always known this but it still hurts when it comes up in conversation. Anyway, thanks for all your encouraging words. They really made me smile! :)

So yesterday I watched my little brother and sister in law. Dannys parents had to go to a fundraising thing for a traveling soft ball team so they wanted me to come over. I always have fun with them so I went and Danny came over when he was done with work. My sister in law and I were watching Americas next top model season 6 and my brother in law (very into the ladies) was commenting on how not a lot of them were very pretty. Then he and my sister in law asked me how tall I was. I said 5'9" and they got all excited and said YOU should go on that show Holly!! I told my brother in law that I don't think that I am exactly what they are looking for and he said well I don't see why you wouldn't win!!! That made my day! I guess I will have to try out now!! haha just kidding. Other than that my day was pretty normal. I did my sister in laws hair in about 20 different styles and now I've been volunteered to go over to her house in the morning to style it before she goes to school! haha I'm so lucky ;)

Alright, hope everyone is enjoying their weekend!!
 
I forgot...

My husbands friend is going to be getting married soon and Danny told me that it was at the end of Nov. So here I am getting super excited thinking I could lose a significant amount of weight by then and buy a sexy dress. Danny was wrong! It is Oct. 21! He was off by a month! haha. Oh well, now I only have about a month to lose some more weight. :( I'm going to look for a sexy dress anyway! ;)
 
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